Narcissists Are Threatened By You

In this video, let's unpack why narcissists operate with fear leading the way, and how your healthy alternatives threaten them.

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[amandaliverpool]

Basically, they are threatened by the non gaslighting truth and independence of another individual. They feel threatened when they are not in control.

[shostetler]

They are threatened by having to apologize. The action of admitting guilt and remorse really is beyond the range of their psychological capacity.

[sandraschultz]

They actually are so insecure they need to behave this way as coping mechanism

[duromusabc]

Yes they feel threatened when you start avoiding them

[burgerglasses]

I wish I had someone like you in my life growing up. You are the best ❤

[robicarm]

They are threatened by any success or happiness you might experience that is out of their control.

[tawneenielsen]

And they are threatened by your talent!

[victoriaanne]

They're horrible communicators and I think that's the hardest thing about dealing with them. Freaking reptiles 😅

[BaraSchmidt]

It's THEIR game, THEIR board,
THEIR rules...which change in flash based on THEIR
supply needs! Don't play a game you can NEVER win! Stay Healthy!

[jeankipper]

Can't make them happy, they just don't WANT to be happy. They want control.

[dianajennings]

They never admit to
Their mistakes or shortcomings and will start to belittle you.

[marysullivan]

My ex would never apologise for the abuse he dished out. He said he didn't abuse me well he damn well did

[juliesmith]

Bully on the outside; mouse on the inside.

[leilanik.]

I notice that the narcissist in my life tries to control and manipulate me but when I refuse, he gets really defensive and loud! No contact is the best choice for me. Thank you Dr C❤️

[Heaveniswaitingforyou]

I finally see through my malignant covert narcissistic father. He was like a vampire with my empathetic nature. I gave him all of my attention and love even with having two small children. But I’m getting stronger as I learn and grow and set healthy boundaries! It’s so nice to be able to know I’m not alone. It’s been one of the hardest things to go through when most people around me don’t see who my dad is.. yet!!! 🙏😌

[Suki-exxn]

They call anyone who doesn't share the opinion that they believe to be the ultimate truth (that's all their opinions); idiots, fools, etc... They will throw a mini tantrum.

They talk at you, not with you.

Best to remain silent and excuse yourself to another location.

[JessicaJLandi]

Realizing that the narcissists' contempt is one of their attempts to hide how threatened they are is freeing.

[iononcantomascrivo]

I said exactly that when I cut contact with my former colleague/friend.

"You know what's really sad? Everything you've ever done has come from fear. You fear what you don't understand and what you fear you hate. You hate that, one day, your children will no longer be around and you won't be able to use them as sympathy votes to get what you want so you can sit on your butt without a job. You fear that your peers are more talented, hard-working and more successful than you are. You fear that your husband will eventually get sick of your crap, file for divorce and you'll come home to his ring and an envelope full of divorce papers sitting on the kitchen table. You fear that your future will be an isolated and miserable one; a world that you created by treating everyone you've ever known like utter crap.”

She was shocked in to silence.

[maxsiehier]

Doc just destroyed the narcissist's pretense with straight truth

[Joe-hfcn]

Threatened by my unwillingness to follow along with their script☑️