3 signs a NARCISSIST is going to discard you | How to know if you will be DISCARD | Final discard

When you know the signs a narcissist is going to discard you, you can be prepared for this brutal treatment by the narcissist. This includes how to know if you will be discard material for the narcissist. The final discard, or grand finale, from the narcissist is the final blow from the narcissist after years, or even decades of emotional abuse from this toxic relationship. In this video I discuss the narcissist discard phase and 3 signs a narcissist is about to discard you. When you know how the narcissist is setting you up to discard you then you can be prepared for the narcissist discard phase. Through gaslighting, blame shifting and projection, the narcissist ensures that when you no longer provide narcissist supply, that you are replaced with a new supply. Narcissists lack empathy so this stage is especially brutal because not only does the narcissist not care how they hurt you, they also don't have the ability to understand how they hurt you. Throughout the relationship with the narcissist, you have moved from the devaluation and idealization stages. When the narcissist discard is accompanied by the silent treatment then you can also know the final discard and grand finale is coming. Check out the previous video where I discuss what the narcissist discard is and also the next video on the narcissist discard and is the discard permanent and why the narcissist comes back after the discard. Narcissist discard and silent treatment are just one final way in which someone with narcissism gains control. It can hurt to be discarded by a narcissist, but remember it is not about you, but them.

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[lajimolala]

If my narc coworker has already found a new supply, I would be very happy for her. I hope she'll discard me ASAP and never ever showed up in my life!

[rjlacroix]

After much thoughtful study over a substantial period of time .... I knew it was coming and watched it happen in real time . Thank God ! Not a Shock . Definitely her loss . Have a nice life ! I am finally free from toxic abuse from someone I dearly cherished and loved . Moving on to a healthy, emotionally centered, peaceful life of my own . Something she has never known .💪🙏

[davidmckay]

Accurate. They seem to side swipe you from no where and leave you with nothing but questions

[rhondamier]

One of the ways I noticed was that the texting decreased. The spaces between texts became longer and the times the narcissist was always texting coming on to talk and leaving varied drastically. I would get texts that seemed like they were for other people mid texting because they didn't go with the conversation at hand. Also there would be a day or two or a weekend where there was no communication what so ever. They were quick to change or cancel plans and they always had a new co worker around them constantly. The new co worker who I had always been friendly with, would suddenly start keeping their distance from me for no reason. This was always after I had mentioned this to the narc. Distance/ Routine Change/New women hanging around/Change in communication and easily wanted to start arguments. These are the clues I noticed again and again.

[tommartin]

Now that I have I hindsight I feel like I can kick myself for not seeing the discard coming. I did not know any better at that time. Our last 2 months together we didnt appear as enthusiastic to see each other when I got home from work. The affection dropped to almost nonexistent. Then 2 weeks before getting the discard we had more arguments. Then we had 3 arguments over the last 5 days.

[seameology]

I'm just here to make sure the divorce he filed goes through without a hitch. He thinks he does have me beat down. I actually was. For about a month. I've been watching narc videos for about a year. And suddenly it dawned on me that he, too is a narc. All feelings gone. Just waiting now.

[MarcioGaspar-qm]

Thank u so much ... its been helping me so much !!!❤

[edwardspriggs]

I noticed the lack of any affection/empathy or general conversations drops even further.

[sisid]

thank u doctor we really need this videos and ur s give great help and clearity what we have experiance with these ..liers abiusers

[susiezswfl]

He’s starting to turn my concerns against me. All of a sudden, he is now saying the relationship is toxic, which is what I said the last time I broke up with him.

[petediamond]

My Nark came by for coffee in the morning since that was my limited time now, she went from spending being around all the time to just half hour of coffee in the morning. Well during that time this Christmas She told me I left the door open many times for you to leave but you're still here! When I said you know you hurt me when you say things like that her response was you caused it! I have been with her for 20 years I still love her she has made me get rid of my friends by pointing out all their flaws Now I'm alone and don't know what to do? I wish there were groups for people who have experience this mine is a covert Nark!

[rajbilla]

I got discarded by my ☠️ friend because I figured her out, and held her accountable. My ex friend is getting married and the hubby is the new supply 😂 only advantage he had over me was him meeting her sexual needs 🤣 he’s the whole package. Keep her ☠️ ass. Best friend positions now need to come with full disclosure of past friendships. This is the most weirdest 💩 ever. 😂🤦🏽‍♀️🌈🦋🙏🏽✨

[nicholecornes]

Im so happy to be useless for the first time in my life