3 Signs a Narcissist Likes You And WHAT TO DO

Narcissists can be charming and charismatic, making it challenging to spot their true intentions. Dealing with a narcissist can be incredibly damaging to your mental health and can leave you feeling confused and disoriented. So, in the video, we will discuss how to recognize gaslighting and how to build up your self-esteem and self-worth to protect yourself from its effects.

By learning to recognize the signs of a narcissist's interest and understanding how to protect yourself from their manipulative tactics, you can reclaim your power and live a life free from their influence.

Here are three signs a narcissist may be interested in you and what you can do to protect yourself from their manipulative tactics.

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[inthedetails]

Another thing to keep in mind is that not all narcissists present themselves as having high confidence. If they come across as having no boundaries (in an effort to make you have no boundaries) and having low self esteem from a tragic backstory from their childhood or a past relationship (so you can pity them) then you might be dealing with a covert narcissist.

[NickNotas]

Here are the 3 signs:
*1. Love bombing:* They give you excessive attention and admiration at the beginning of the relationship, but then change their behavior and become toxic.
*2. Ludus love style:* They are playful, flirtatious, and noncommittal, but also deceptive and game-playing.
*3. Image obsession:* They care more about how you look together in public than how you feel in private.

And here's what to do about them:
- Pay attention to your own needs and well-being.
- Learn about narcissism and its effects on your mental health.
- Set boundaries and limit your contact with the narcissist.
- Don’t feel guilty about ending the relationship if they violate your boundaries.

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0:26 love bombing
0:58 ludus life style
1:25 preoocupied with image
1:48 what to do next
1:54 pay atgention to your own needs
2:19 learn about Narcissism
2:50 set boundries

[SaltyMaud]

I feel like I caught one. I've had a suspicion for the longest time, but didn't want to jump to hasty conclusions. They shower you with attention and affection at the start and then just enjoy the attention they receive as long as they can keep you hooked. Once you're secured it quickly becomes apparent they have no concern for your needs and only love you when it's convenient. If you _dare_ bring up your neglected needs oh boy are you in for a storm, they'll play the victim and paint _you_ as needy for expecting them to put in a sliver of the effort you put into the relationship, you're just a toy to them for serving _their_ needs after all. Now I feel stupid for believing I was as important to them as they were to me.

[nolinweathersby]

Yep. I was a narcissist in my relationship. She broke up with me and I felt so broken. But im so glad it happened because it was the slap in the face I needed in life that I needed to be humbled.

[justoniascool]

One thing people fail to talk about is if you're a narcissist. What can you do if you want to change your ways and improve as a person?

[dianaafxo]

what do you do if you think you’ve developed narcissistic tendencies due to have being raised by one? is it a bad habit or ingrained in your nature? because it’s terrifying to think about it like it’s a ticking time bomb about to go into full effect and i don’t want that to happen. I don’t want to hurt other peoples feelings and i don’t want anyone to feel inferior, i want people to feel safe, understood and supported around me and that way both ways its equal treatment because no one is above anyone else

[Nahli]

Remember that someone can be a narcissist without having NPD. There's a big difference between the two.

[luiic.a]

Can we just appreciate how much effort she puts into our videos just for us?❤️

[samuelitooooo]

I had to take a pause because this made me go "am I a narcissist?" But then I thought: "would narcissists have the kind of self-reflection and desire for a happy and healthy relationship (including making the other person happy) like I'm exhibiting now?"

Flirting just to not commit also didn't resonate with me. I don't wanna say I'm proud of myself (ego-boosting feels wrong :x) but I think I'm on the right track.

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Love bombing 0:26
2). Ludus love style 0:57
3). Preoccupied with your image 1:24
4). What to do next 1:46
5). Pay attention to your own needs 1:54
6). Learn about narcissism 2:17
7). Set boundaries 2:50

[funnytv-]

They tend to have excessive admiration and flattery...they may go to great length to make you feel special and admired inorder to keep your attention focused on them

[XanBee]

I am the narcissist, not by condition but just by the medias definition I guess. I don't try to be but I am, I wanna be better and actually be there for the person I'm in a relationship with but I just lose interest and I don't know how to maintain it 💔

[ChocoParfaitFra]

Well most people meet narcissists that aren’t people with a personality disorder, but they have a lot of traits. It’s hard to find the right word for people who act like narcissist but don’t have a personality disorder, so everyone just say narcissist
We should just pay attention not to call everyone like that only because they like taking selfies or something
Real narcissists aren’t that many, but sadly it’s easy to find a person with more than one of their traits

[nicholasleipzig]

I really hope that is true. My family members always act kind of awkward and strange in front of me. My father is a type person who doesn't deserve any type of happiness in life he always takes everything as a joke even if it's about my mental health. My mom tried to convince him to change the old house but he doesn't seem to do anything about it he just laughs and lives in his room with all his pathetic ignorance and misery. We all live like strangers and no one cares for each other no one talks to each other. I tried to help these people out but i ended up being called a disappointment and a burden. I just can't keep going on this way. I just want to get out of this dead place once i turn 18.

[bastionsea]

The 'clinical' definition of a narcissist is why I take care not to use it to label my mom
Her background is based on cultural learning, not full narcissistic tendencies, completely ignoring that that lifestyle isn't relevant in society

[Vi_ntz]

Ty ! ((You change the art everyday and I like it))

[Aliastbc]

Liking the shorter videos. Didn't hate the 7minutes or so, but just realizing shorter is easier for taking it in.
Been raised by the worst narcissist. Had way to many narcissist as boyfriends. 3...last one was the worst ever. And sadly since then I never met a potential partner again. First I wasn't ready and so no one was even remotely getting to me. Could have looked them straight in the eye not sensing a spark. And second there came the pandemic, which is on going. No matter what politics claim. With 14% suffering of post covid syndrome and NON medication or treatment being offered to that...that sure doesn't look like the end to me. And yes I am drifting off here...that makes me so nuts. Yes, so. Now even with the pandemic I haven't even met anyone new or interesting. 🤷‍♀️ But I'll keep that video in mind for any new people steppin into my life

[vildanuseinova]

I don't need people like you this 🙏💖l will be better with out them

[DiscordOfDave]

I broke up with a narcissist last year, and I’m still recovering. Selfish, no empathy, and delusions of grandeur. If she had any issues, THAT was optimal and I was inferior for not having it. Being constipated for three weeks? Her body is just really efficient at absorbing nutrients, and I’m weird for being regular. It was maddening.