Conflict, Confrontation, and Arguing Well

Jackie and Preston revisit a conversation had during the very first season of the podcast – how to argue well. Confrontation is a necessary function of a healthy relationship and it can create more intimacy in relationships. But how do we honor God and one another as we move through conflict? The Perrys have some thoughts from what they’ve learned over the past five years.

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[davidwilliamadusa]

Disrespect is natural
Love is supernatural

—Jackie

[elora]

They clean together, talking about it like its nothing... This is goals for me. I don't want a man that'll fight me about household duties. Lord hear my prayer lol

[PraiseGodall]

I was paralyzed in bed last year and I heard Jesus say out loud to me - If you believe in me get up and walk💜🕊💜 I got up and not only walked but went for a walk outside. Praise GOD IS ALWAYS WORKING!!!! ✌💜🕊🙏

[perseverance]

What a conversation between two mature, and emotionally inteligent people sounds like.

[nompilosibiya]

Within the first 16 minutes, I realize there is a lot of humility and serving the other person in marriage.

[CandieJC]

0:10-0:41 is the absolute most precious, tender, adorably flirtatious interaction I’ve seen between the 2 of them 🥰🥰

[Seyi-fc]

"The primary insecurity we have is a lack of intimacy with God" "If I'm secure in the Lord, that frees me to love without fear" Thank you for this, it is such a helpful prayer point!

[NicieWilliams]

I'm not married but I need to keep this ep in my back pocket. Thank you Lord.

[TheJazzluna]

This conversation encouraged me to sit down and have a conversation with someone who I avoided for two years. Jackie described me like she knew me since childhood. It's hard to look at yourself and admit that you have unpleasant qualities. But it really takes getting out of your comfort zone, out of your pride, and face what God is trying to fix.

[sincereshay]

When I watch them, it reminds me of why my last relation didn’t work. I couldn’t have conversations like this, ever

[TheBlessing]

To everyone that is involved in worship...musicians, production, camera ops...don't ever think that you are simply doing a job. You are creating an atmosphere for GOD to move...for him to reveal himself in the hearts of those who are truly open and need him the most. GOD is doing the rest...he just wants US to roll out the red carpet for him...to exalt him....to be a conduit for him to work. Great job to all!

[leahyvonne]

Heavy on the " I don't want to tolerate the people i love, I want to love them well" 😪 patience is truly a virtue & I'm grateful for the grace, love& patience God has extended to me while working through this .

[SheSharpNotFlat]

Wow. Wow, wow, wow. After 10 years of marriage I finally know what my issue is as it relates to conflict. I’m similar to Preston here (wanting to deal with issues immediately/lacking patience) and my Husband is similar to Jackie (shutting down). Both tie into our upbringing. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom. Listening to this again. Team 60minutes with the Perry’s!! Let’s go!!

[babyjane]

we love a NOT 30 minutes with the Perrys 👏🏽🔥

[joys_style]

I literally tell everybody i know about Jackie and Preston, as someone who grew up in a legalistic church, fell out of the church and now navigating my way back, y'all have been a great great help. Keep doing the Lord's work! Love from Uganda

[tunneleddiscovery]

That intro question...😂 he really had one true thought.
And Jackie was so calm in response to the revelation (small smile then "anything else") that THAT Was his happy moment. Lol i love their love

[shekinahnoelle]

“Oh, we’re back to you.” Jackie’s sarcasm is so funny 😂

[LM_]

“Disrepect is natural, Love is supernatural”

[ashleycameron]

They’re both really deep souls. Having the deep knowledge of God, having the mind of Christ. Jesus has certainly knitted their hearts together.

[wrshpgirl]

This whole video lead me to repentance, forgive me, Lord. Thank you for this couple. Lord continue to bless them!