The 6 Red Flags He Isn't Boyfriend Material!

Wondering why he's not into you? Let's get real-sometimes it's not as complicated as it seems. In this video, I'll talk about common reasons Gay and Bi guys face rejection, like coming on too strong, ignoring the signs, or confusing sex with something more. If you're tired of chasing the wrong guys, this is for you!
Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction
01:20 Red Flag #1: He is inconsistent
02:18 Red Flag #2: He doesn't introduce you to his social circle
03:20 Red Flag #3: He is overly flirtatious with other people
04:40 Red Flag #4: He tells you he isn't ready for a relationship
06:03 Red Flag #5: He only wants to hangout at night
07:05 Red Flag #6: He refuses to delete any of his dating apps

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[cedrickengland]

Hi Danny x one lesson I learned too to add is somebody who showers you with what nots/ aka love bombing… Narcissism in our community is often not to be neglected

[chrisevans]

I remember outright rejecting this guy when he asked me out, because I was 18 and super immature. We honestly had nothing much in common and I’m just a person who’s very hard to talk to. Now at 26, I’ve still never been in a relationship my whole life, and I still feel like I’m not ready to be in one. It’s honestly such a red flag on me that I haven’t gotten my life together by now. With my past, it might be a combo of not wanting to try harder because fear of change and the anxiety I feel when talking to men and trying to put in all this effort that amounts to nothing at the end. My last date was probably back when I was 24 went out with this guy for 3 weeks and he tells me this ain’t working, and I felt so much pain from that even though it was a short time and was proof of how immature my emotions were still.

[DesmondGowdy-pf]

Hi Daniel Morales, great and informative video. I have subscribe to your videos. I am looking forward to hearing more of your comments and advices as they are very good and useful. Thanks you.

[mrball]

This is too real! Yt knew to recommend me this today🤣

[franklymydear]

I wish I had this guidance when I was younger. Now it seems the opportunity to love has passed by. I have fallen into many traps to find validation in love. All these are true. I would add mindfulness of boundaries like money, respect of space (like car/home/etc). When you feel that the other appreciates and notices little details about you, when you feel that he makes an effort to make you feel better and safe and when time reveals that he is consistent and your relationship is evolving. If you are out there, I hope you exist.

[andrewhdemarest]

while I'm not exactly experienced, I can say that a few of these could be explained by your SO being an introvert. Before I was comfortable and honest with myself about being gay, I attempted to date a girl in college (I was trying to deny by brain chemistry I assume); other than being intimate (it wasn't possible), I might have been able to made it work, but being an introvert just made things EXHAUSTING (even when things only lasted maybe a month ). Even now, I NEED to take a day or two to "recharge" after repeated social interactions (even with family), so that I'm not mentally numb and irritable. To be honest, that experience scared me away from looking for a boyfriend; as much as I want one, I don't want to start something just a freak out and hurt him (non-physical) like an absolute loser. I know I would NEVER assault somebody; while I can get pretty loud, being physical goes against EVERYTHING I stand for, but I can see how it might look it. Maybe I should find another introvert, somebody who doesn't like to hang around groups and go out multiple days in a row. Who knows.

[fishdaddyjackaquatics]

This was a very good show. Back when I was young and much better looking, I had no trouble meeting guys. I met them at the bars in most cases. I miss those days. Nobody meets at the bars these days. Everything is online now. Okay, to get back on topic, I always had “date”. I called them and literally thought that they were dates until an older and wiser friend told me that what I was doing was not dating because if they are just wanting to meet at the bars without dinner and you were typically going back to their place, than that was just a hookup. I always got myself hurt over that. I would believe that these guys were honestly trying to get to know me, but I there for their disposal. Off they want to meet at a bar, no dinner, then he’s not boyfriend material and you are nothing more than his booty call.

[John-bilv]

Actually the better question is are you boyfriend material people need to ask themselves. It's usually if you're not finding good boyfriends it's usually because of your own screw ups

[aharris]

Wish I would of known all of this in my 20s-30s 😭🤣....oh well, life goes on 🤷‍♂
XD

[Dragonmoon]

You may have discussed this before. How to manage multiple guys.
To clarify, I've heard a lot about in early dating (not after you established a monogamous relationship) that it is best not to put all your eggs in one basket.
For example, message multiple guys because chances are only one will pan out.
Don't be exclusive to soon because chances are things will end within a few weeks to a month (if not sooner) so you feel less of the rejection sting if you're seeing more than one person.
For me, I couldn't probably manage more than one person, even in the "casual" phase of dating.
But, I'm just curious: What do you feel is the healthiest approach to dating as far as finding someone you want to put more time and effort towards?

[Pandoraable]

I will say, some guys may get busy at their jobs or they may not be in a great mood for a valid reason. I think it’s unfair to expect someone to be on 100% of the time

[dontez]

Another red flag is if a person ONLY communicates with you vía text.

[jonhinson]

A guy once told me that he was not looking for a relationship and I said when person A says that to person B, it means they don't want a relationship with me and I told him that and I said I was fine being friends but not with benefits. Some guys just want to have it all if we let them.

[nunyabiznes]

#2 could also mean he isn't out right?