10 Signs of a Malignant Borderline

Individuals with Borderline AND Antisocial personality disorder may look sweet and kind on the outside, but they are malicious and destructive on the inside. The highly emotional borderline traits mixed with the antisocial's blatant disregard for the needs, feelings, and rights of others is a VERY dangerous combination that you'd be smart to steer clear of. If you are already in a relationship with a malignant borderline, you will want to head the advice at the end of this video.

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Lise Leblanc is a Therapist, Life Coach, and Author with over 20 years of experience in therapeutic, educational, and leadership roles.

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Introduction (0:00)
Malignant Borderline (1:15)
1: Split Personality (2:10)
2: Act Vulnerable (3:00)
3: Interpersonal Violence (4:01)
4: Lying and Cheating (4:26)
5: Substance Use (5:08)
6: Trauma-Bonded (6:32)
7: Ruminate, Rage, Revenge (7:32)
8: Doesn't Apologize (8:53)
9: Messy (9:56)
10: You Feel Sorry For Them (11:32)

#borderlinepersonalitydisorder #borderline #bpd #antisocial #narcissist

[laurenesmith]

Had a borderline friend. She turned on me. Vindictive doesn't even cut it for her behavior. Evil

[EnterpriseFilms]

I was in a long term relationship with someone I suspect strongly was suffering from BPD. The dichotomy of loving someone but hating their behavior is a torturous state to be in. Thank you for your videos.

[JUMPforyourLIFE]

The malignant part makes sense. It was very confusing while in it. Zero contact is absolutely the way to go once you recognize what you are dealing with.

[guyreid]

1. Articulate and smart and appears normal.
2. Shares her pain to ensnare, manipulate you, then uses things against you.
3. Interpersonal violence, police etc
4. Lying, cheating, stealing, callous, malicious, violating rights of others
5. Substance abuse, impulsive, promiscuous.
6. Trauma bond. With your loyalty you’ll defend her.
7. Betrayal —-> revenge, vindictiveness, your destruction
8. No apology, no remorse. Childlike reasoning.
9. Unstable emotions when in love. Can’t trust. Unstable attachment. Fears abandonment. Love causes emotional distress.
10. You feel sorry for her pain and trauma but you can’t fix her. Run.

[FaceTheStreets]

People suffering from this disorder often end up homeless. Especially if they have a substance abuse disorder. It's really sad. The combination or their antisocial and angry outburst often make it to where no one can stand being around them for very long.

[snowstormonsat]

You described my evil mother here very well except she's not charming at all. Wicked and hate filled to the core. My malignant BPD mother married a grandiose sociopath. I grew up in the craziest home filled with torture and abuse. I'm 50 and still healing from all the trauma and abuse. Can't believe I'm alive and still here. I've done years of therapy, hypnosis, intense trauma therapy, YouTube binging, read everything I could get my hands on. They will destroy their own Run, they're really demons and it can turn into scariest nightmare ever imagined.

[jcnlaw]

From an experienced divorce lawyer: great video! These people are everywhere. Don’t get tangled up with one. The divorce will be brutal. Keep up the great work!

[anamericanman]

I might have 'dated' this woman about 10 years ago. She was just a full-blown liar, manipulator, user and abuser, what even seemed like multiple personality at times. She was very dangerous, and it took me some time to reprogram myself and rid myself of her poison. The thing is, she even once told me, "I'm not very nice and I'm not very smart." *RUN* when you hear such things.

[zionrose]

Mrs. Leblanc I had intentions in marrying a woman that fits this description. I saw the signs and overlooked them, until she finally went ghost on me. For that I'm grateful!

[JuniperLynn]

The exceptional street smarts and charm to outsiders is spot on. And the oversharing to self-victimize, and calling the police and authorities about everything to stack their arsenal. Then they will flip like a switch into a literal demon. Saying the most horrific things. Hair pulling, slapping, chasing with a broom, slamming doors, blowing cigarette smoke in the face, throwing full cups of coffee, pretty much any violence that doesn’t leave an actual mark so they can keep their persona going.

[Zephyr]

Eighteen years later and still not free from the vengeance. Gave up all possessions and a daughter whom (severely disabled) was my Heart. I am high experience, quality provider to many and just stopped any defence to malignant ten years ago. And the hits just keep on comin.
People who value me have my back. I am truly blessed with miracles constantly. My MOTTO.=-I do Not believe in Miracles--I RELY on them. Wish I had discovered you Lise, 40 years ago. Blessings to all your New Years.
Will

[swordoftruth]

The vast majority of these people never get diagnosed. My ex-narc was so good at playing the victim that our couples therapists just wanted to protect her. She wouldn't subject herself to real therapy. She couldn't manipulate us both at the same time, though. This is how I finally was able to see through her act.

[michaelclark]

You CANNOT change these people anymore than you can change the spots on a leopard or the stripes on a zebra.

[tjbohmier]

Sounds exactly like an ex-girlfriend I had "taken in" about 15 yrs ago. Everything you mentioned described the roller-coaster 16 month nightmare LOL. I knew she had issues, just didn't know how bad until I walked away from her for good. She was a valuable lesson learned!

[kidcharlemagne]

💯The cruelty, sadism and flip flopping between domination and playing the broken little girl victim keeps telling you everything is wrong, but you are stuck in saviour mode until you finally expose their lies or discover videos like this. This is one of the best videos on the saidistic borderline/psychopath. They are evil personified.

[MHLivestreams]

So true! My ex wife got so bad, she purposely destroyed everything I had worked for, and caused me no end of problems. I'm divorced now, and even 20 years later am only just now calm, and still owe money to the bank. It's great to be free of it now. So exhausting.

[scottmatznick]

Oh, you've met my ex-wife, I see.

[laetitiasales]

I have been diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder and I'm currently on antidepressants and antipsychotics.
I just want to say to everyone in the comments: we're not all wicked.
Please, I'm trying my very best to get better and reading people saying so many mean things just really makes my heart sink.
I'm not a monster, I just want to feel loved like everyone would.
I don't want to hurt anybody.

[meaghenstandlee]

I was physically assaulted beaten/ punched/ strangled literally out of nowhere 2 days ago by my so called "best friend" of 17 years... I am now VERY aware she is a narcissist with BPD it was terrifying bc she was drunk and took her rage out on me and her guy roommate who has been assaulted by her weekly she ripped his beard OFF in chunks !! she's always told me only HER side and never the whole truth well I'll NEVER trust her side again I blocked her and I'll never look back ...

[thelurrax]

I so badly wish I saw something like this when I was in early adulthood. I pissed away half a decade on someone that everyone I knew at the time tried to pry me off of. I eventually got out of it but with severe, permanent psychological damage and an inability to trust others. She's somewhere out there, popping out trailer park spawn and probably ruining her life elsewhere.

Never forget that there is a beautiful world out there, and you owe it to yourself to experience it without someone routinely inflicting pain on you.