Self Mastery of Your Emotions Allows You To Control Others

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[EmpressofChrist]

I've practiced personal detachment with my husband. When I used to show emotions he had me control. Now I just don't react, don't call him, don't text him. I spend his money. His money is my first love. I've gotten a breast augmentation, lip fillers, botox and now getting my crowns dentures. He used to come late now he comes home early and I'm not home. Ladies hit him hard spend his money that way he dont have to spend on the other ones😁

[MaraMarieBeauty]

Notice how SheRa thinks before she answers 👑

[mimido]

I detached from my emotions at age 14 when i noticed how my dad enjoys arguing with me. That skill has served me so well with men.

[verigabs]

My mom was so oblivious and never taught me any of this stuff. Thank you for your service to women. 💁🏻

[roxannecosmotology]

LOGIC OVER EMOTIONS.
UNDERSTANDING OVER CONFLICT.
Keep a book every time you get upset you write on one side logical thinking and you write on the other side emotional thinking and you've simply follow the logic side and ignore the emotional side do this every time before you react.

[lovebird]

Thank you Shera for your platform. I hope the younger generation of women will take heed. To you young ladies: never let ANY man try to guilt trip you about your standards. That’s his way of saying you’re out of his league, but he wants that to be your problem. Keep your foot directly on these men’s necks.

[medinab]

Journaling is another good way to handle your emotions. Has worked wonders in my life.

[thesecondcoming]

This is GOLD...my life completely changed when I started detaching and not reacting...Ignore them too!!! Men loose their minds when you ignore them...act like you don't care...just live your life and think about what his ass gonna buy you for getting on your nerves or doing something stupid. Another thing I LEARNED is to stop expecting my partner to be perfect. Men are as faithful as their options and they lie and usually don't want to hang with you without it benefiting them in some way ie Sex, food, appearances...so...I stay calm cool take notes and collect tax...I have never ended a relationship and walked away with nothing...😉

[tianaboqutaice]

You don't get mad. You get money.

[redwinnie]

Ladies no amount of money or lifestyle should make you sacrifice ur dignity.... Verbal abuse, / physical.... You can find a man with money and who will treat you right...

[Amelanin]

When I'm about to get emotional and over invest myself into someone, I go straight to her videos and it literally works wonders on my time & energy

[laurenlocd]

So true. This guy I was seeing was always doing me wrong and every time I confronted him about it he was so calm and looking at me like I had five heads . He controlled me cause I couldn’t get a reaction out of him . I felt like I was going crazy .

[evelynodhiambo]

I'm nolonger slave to my emotions..

[SacramentalASMR]

The irony of people arguing in the comments with dusties under a video about not being triggered and emotional.

[salihashahid]

Ladies, dont forget that your goal doesn’t have to be money, it can also be turning him into your slave. Just make sure that you have a goal tho.

[roselinelee]

1. Talk about your emotions
- if not to the person they caused that, talk to someone else "I hate when people....I dislike the type of people that..." focusing on your dislikes
2. When they did something bad. when you supposed to be emotionally, get something out of that situation
- cuz they supposed to be in trouble but now they only have to do this/ buy you this, they will agree
- when they turning up late, ask for things too, they won't be late after that plus you'll be getting gifts
3. When you surrender to a person that you're helpless, that you value them, that you've given up so much so much for them (faking it)
- they will feel obligated to give you what you want
- pretend you have a huge event you should've gone to but you here on a date with them “I really want to see you"
- ' wow she gave up something that is so important to her just to see little old me '
- when someone make you super happy, only show about 30% happiness but still show happiness (leaves room for improvement)
- then you up it when they up the gifts and things they do
4. when you stop caring, when you stop reacting and START PLOTTING--> is when you get the most in return
- they also start to act better
- you control them, you control yourself
*If that person has interest in you, it's gonna work, if they don't have interest in you, it ain't gonna work, so you leave and go to the next target
5. Stop being competitive that's for the men to do
6. ACT HELPLESS HELPLESS
- so they feel obligated to you
- or not they will view you as competition and a man
- you need feminine energy to get what you want
7. How to handle verbal disrespect
- Act VERY VERY hurt
- get your acting skills on
- they say something bad about you --> act and start to cry
- right then that gon get em
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- but if you fighting back, you feeding them energy to throw back at you, just start crying --> use your feminine charm
someone calls you a gold digger --> say nothing (it's a compliment to me )
not caring is a mindset, you choose where you put your energy
I gotta put me first
there is no room for emotions in business or the workplace it is business


8. Get people approach you
- feminine color
- easy to approach
- leveled up
- a lot of factors

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9. Water signs emotional when they're young
- when these water signs (me) controlled their emotions, it's OVER
- we become underemotional

10. When you angry
- get quiet
- create master evil plan to execute to get something I want get them to not doing again
- it's a chess game
- we don't get mad, we get a plan
- get primitive reacting mode happen, get the creator of your life
- GET SOMETHING OUT OF THE SITUATION

11. Female friends
- if you got A LOT IN COMMON, close to the same page --> great friends

12. If people triggerring you
- its about keeping yourself unborhtered
- oh youre right ill think about it and then keep doing what you were doing and being unbothered by whatever they saying
- mirror their behaviour to let them know how it feels
- DONT BE EMOTIONAL
- don't let people know your triggers it's like letting them know your passwords
- if they dk your triggers, they can't get to you

SURRENDER SURRENDER, ACT HOPELESS, ACT LIKE YOU GAVE UP A LOTTT

[LaDyLuCk]

My ex never cared if I cried he always seen it as an opportunity to manipulate me. If fact I believe he liked it

[tmjewel]

Watching you Shera at 3 in the morning with tears streaming. 37 years old with 2 kids, 1 deceased and it feels like I am just growing up. 1:08:10 You said a WORD!! To level up and succeed at our goals, we as women have to give up the best part of ourselves!! "Give up being honest, being caring, being loving, being giving". It hurts so much!! You're right and I feel like I've always known the Truth but instead tried to be Noble. Fuck having principles. Literally nobody cares... I understand this now from watching your channel continuously for weeks. THANK YOU for sharing your wisdom Shera!! For my own sanity, happiness, growth and fulfilment, I will become the epitome of SELFISH!!!

[ghadaj.mohammed]

Stop caring the best advice in my life 😎😎😎😎

[tripleVirgo]

Honestly, controlling emotions has been an advice that made my life so much easier. I used to be very impulsive and it wasn't easy to stop overreacting re EVERYTHING. it's a whole new level now though 😎