How To Handle Toxic People

How to Handle Toxic People

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Hey, guys! Here's another video for you on how to handle toxic people from friends to family members and just shut down that negative behavior. There's times when it feels like all the charisma in the world just won't stop one person from ruining your day. Now, maybe this person is a complainer, maybe they are a whiner, or maybe there's someone who is verbally abusive to you but whatever it is, they have this toxic pattern of behavior and it's really starting to bring you down.

That's why in this video, I want to talk about how to handle difficult toxic people in a way that is charismatic. You need to separate from a toxic person because what's keeping you close to them is not something that ought to. When I've talked to people and they have left, no one has ever regretted it; you would be shocked how much you can be dragged down by a negative person in the workplace.

3:21 Think concretely what you want a toxic person to change
1:25 Find the timing to approach a toxic person
1:53 Give them a sense that you're approaching them differently this time
4:47 Ask permission to remind them gently if they do the negative behavior again

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[Tubeytime]

If somebody can be reasoned with, then are they really that toxic?

[russellewelchiii]

You would be shocked by how much you could be drugged by a negative person.

[AchieversWorkshop]

The best way to deal with toxic people is by not dealing with them anymore.

[sjege]

I confronted my dad years ago with that I didn't want him in my life like the way he was.
'was', he changed for me. He became a better person.
He's not perfect but he doesn't have to be.

[dolphinlover]

I literally almost lost my sanity dealing with those people
Now the memories are haunting me while im trying to sleep-
Literally I would never talk to those type of people EVER again

[donaldnicol]

I just don't talk to toxic people and avoid them like the plague.

[tiffanypersaud]

“Enduring abuse comes out in other ways.” That is true. I’m SO GLAD somebody said it!

[unleashingpotential-psycho]

We are the average of the people we spend the most time with. I feel like we need to all get rid of the toxic people in our lives in order to better ourselves.

[Nyan_Kitty]

Completely cutting ties with certain family members was one of the best things I've ever done. Not being doubted, criticised or manipulated in such horrible ways as I was gave me an opportunity to change my own ways completely. I have a way more positive way of thinking now and feel like I am actually in control of my own life (even though I'm basically just as clueless as before XD)

[whoareu-podcastaboutlifeat]

I really like #2.

Setting boundaries from early on is crucial with this kind of people. By telling them that you are not okay with being treated the way they are treating you and exactly what kind of changes you wish to see in them, it empowers you not just in their eyes but yours too. If you believe you have power then you'll have power. If you believe you're a doormat, then forever a doormat you shall be!

If this person is at all halfway decent, they'll snap out of their nonsense and try to be better. If not, if that fails, then separating yourself from this person is the best and final solution. Just gotta believe there's something/someone better out there.

[Micoolaw]

What If the toxic person is your best friend and roommate. It’s weird because they are your best friend, and you both like doing most of the same activities, but they just have an energy that spending too much time around them drives you insane

[rorysmakingamovie]

I just wish these people could understand why they push everyone away

[Tsukiko.]

Checking the comment sections on YouTube sometimes is like checking under the toliet seat of a public restroom.

[Lelephant-eVz]

Could you make a video on how to realize if you're toxic?

[MariamZawjatNomayri]

Effective way to deal with jealous haters and toxic individuals: Avoid them and never give them the privilege to get to know you on a more personal level. We don't need their negativity, self-loathing and insecurities mixed with our good vibes and positive qualities.

[mimull]

I love my mom but she spent my whole childhood cutting me out and neglecting me (I was raised by my father) then she started paying more attention to me. She was in really low part of her life, she had hit rock bottom. She finally talked to me but she didn't have any faith in me. She didn't think I would succeed at any thing. She was also verbaly abusive talking down to me a lot. I broke contact. It's still really painful and I hope that she is OK, but I can't have her I my life right now.

[shaunonsite]

Here's a quick and easy way to deal with toxic people: drop them.

No fuss and no drama and you move on with your life.

[ItsAsparageese]

You are so, so articulate, and what you teach with this channel goes so deeply beyond just covering charisma. These lessons in boundaries that you fold in -- while somehow managing to never use charged words like "boundaries" -- are incredibly valuable. I'm so glad this resource exists!

[RC-xcmr]

I was hanging out with this toxic person and I opened this video and apparently she got the message.

[cosmicmorning]

I feel like the guy who disliked it just wanted to be first at something for once.