How to cope up if your Partner has Cheated on you? | Relationship Advice by Gurudev.

Mistakes happen in an unconscious state of mind. When you are not aware and when you are not clear in your mind then you do mistakes. But when you realize you did something wrong only then you ask for forgiveness. It is quite human to Forgive. The same mistake can happen through you and you expect to be forgiven. So, you should also forgive others! You forgive not for their sake , you forgive so that you are free!
- Gurudev
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[ZahidAli-cmmu]

First of all, cheating is not a mistake, is a choice.

[kajalthakur]

Telling this from my personal experience, never ever forgive a person who cheated on you.. if you do, they will surely cheat you again... Forgiveness is a green signal for them to deceive you whenever they want.

[mdey]

This type of mistake (cheating) happens usually with concious mind..but we should forgive for our own sake..😢 bonding needs some personal integrity and loyalty.

[SelvaKumar-ljgb]

This is the worst pain that one can give to other who loved the most. I faced this worst situation got into trauma, so many things has happened. For me I'm still breathing because of grace. I don't want to get into that.

Apart from that I followed few others things. It might be useful for others whoever facing similar kind of issue.

Below are the important things you need to follow to minimise your suffering

1. Food - Eat only satvic food, it's very very important. Try to clean your colon often. Best is use kadukai every night.

2. Don't watch any nonsense movie like action, crime, horror, love, romance . See only comedy and animations.

3. If you're practising Yoga and Meditation it's a best medicine, jus keep doing it.

4. Travel - jus take a car or bike, jus go to greenary place.

5. Animals - If you have domestic animals or pets just spend sometime with them.

6. Workout, do exercises a lot, not heavy lifting. Sing, dance until you become tiered.

7. Games - Go outside and play.

8. Make new friends, meet new people.

9. Talk talk talk talk to your friends, family members who listens to you.

10. Focus on your work and health.

Warning: Don't get into any addiction. You'll spoil your brain further. Jus stay away from that.

I followed these very very cautiously and came out. I still have the pain that most loved one did that to me but we can avoid suffering.

Keep in mind.. your peace of mind is important, these kind of persons are not worth for you. Cry as much as you can and Jus move away. Don't even think to talk to them, they'll take it for granted.

They betrayed bcs they didn't value you and your relationship. Without commitment and love this relationship will not work.

Definitely you'll get far far better person, you'll meet far better people.

Inner strength is important.

[thoochani]

That's what I did in my life. I understood the importance she gave me although it was a big lie. I accepted her twice beyond her mistakes. I did everything to her. But at the last moment she betrayed me. I can't bare it when she looked for someone else. I would have forgiven her if she spoke to me that it wouldn't workout between us. But she cheated me. She is a traitor.

I decided to forgive her not for the sake of her apologies to me. But for the betterment of my life and I don't want to live my remaining life with hatred and enmity.

I don't even understood why she come back and tries to hook it up again. I don't see any moral ethics here in what she does. But she has been trying to connect me again and again which I hate.

To such people I kindly request, please let us die in peace atleast !

[thelavanyatube]

If I m so important than why would someone cheat me

[sonujain]

Forgiveness is the only thing what make them feel realize what they did...
But Forgiveness is only worth it when that person realize if he or she doesn't realize it is worthless

[vineet]

Move on never forgive person who once cheated (they never gonna hesitate to do again)

[Straightastheycome]

Forgive and move on, but dont forget and hang on

[Animeboy_]

If it happens with me i will forgive her but I'll can't continue the relationship 🙏

[anantaagarwal]

In kalyug i cannot be soo strong..he lied his cheating part..coz he cared for me..then why does he cheated..soo complicated 😢

[puspanjalinanda]

Mistakes happen in an unconscious state of mind, , , , forgive, ness, is. Not for their sake, , , but, , it, , brings, peace, , n, positive vibration, , , and freedom also, 🙏🏼🇮🇳🔱🕉️🕊️

[Anutom_Roy.]

Guru ji forgiveness is a good thing but on account of relationship it is damn true..once a cheater always a cheater

[TwinkleBarman-sobb]

Whether you will forgive a person and again accept them depends upon the person who cheated. The person who cheats n apologizes and means it will truly never repeat the mistakes. Mistake / cheating hurts the partner and if that doesn’t bother her/him even after accepting mistakes then try to avoid the person…but every person deserves chance till death . You r no one to punish them . Not taking side of a cheater but speaking neutrally… even they too don’t have right hurting you. ALL I AM SAYING IS FORGIVING AND LEARNING FROM MISTAKES AND NEVER REPEATING AGAIN VARIES WITH PERSON. THERE ARE SEVERAL RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES THAT GOT SAVED BECAUSE THE PARTNER MEANT THE SORRY.

[kamal_pratap]

They lied to you because they dont want to show their true self.

[vikithakkar]

I feel betrayed And lost
Suddenly came across with this masterpiece advice.Now I am confused what should I do next?

[DeepakRawat-sqvw]

I hate my life I really want to die I'm in situation where I feel alone...it's look like this is the end of world for me I really want to die but my parents have only one child..I have nothing left inside me...the strom which running inside mey mind is now hard to control..I'm fucked up

[dfptugj]

Its too difficult to find loyal My boyfriend cheated on me after our 7 year of relationship.... Its so hurtful to keep reliving those memories....as he tries to reconcile again when i look at him i nomore see the love of my life .. i just see a cheater ...can never imagine holding him again being cosy with him ...as it makes me feel sick to core realising another girl touched him and ...did those other things ..

I really want to tell everyone plzz don't do this ...this kind of memories stays with person forever... I cannot speak about my relationship anymore as people ask why we are not just can't bring myself to ans that its not just what he did wrong its what got broken inside me 💔

[savithrichallapalli]

Jaigurudev 🙏🙏🙏.dhanyavaad guruji for big things wenton well.

[unnatii]

Ultimately we do that we feel not that we want to
Trust me
Yes we are under fear due to future but if it is fearful than not worth it
Its easy to say and difficult to implement