The Nice Guy Narcissist | 14 Traits

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Timestamps:
00:00 | Intro
00:51 | 1. Reputation
00:55 | 2. Kind, charming..
01:06 | 3. Genuinely doing things
01:22 | 4. Dominance
01:41 | 5. If it's not them...
02:05 | 6. Them and Them alone
02:36 | 7. Cold and nasty
02:56 | 8. Public Image
03:13 | 9. Exhausting being around them
04:28 | 10. Communication falls into...
05:14 | 11. Inner Circle
05:36 | 12. Not really nice
06:01 | 13. What you want to hear
06:29 | 14. The mask slips
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Explore the 14 traits that define the 'Nice Guy' Narcissist. Unveil their manipulative facade and learn to recognize and protect yourself from their emotional tactics. Don't miss this eye-opening journey into Narcissistic behavior and their psychological dynamics.
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[MiraculousAngelTarot]

Nr. 15. There's plenty of people who are helping them in every possible way and despite that, they state that they don't have any real friends and family: all of their real friends and family members have died (even when they are alive but stopped providing for them) went abroad, magically disappeared etc. When they tell you this they look and sound so emotionally involved and sincere that suddenly you feel sorrry for them and you start wanting to compensate their immaginary loss.

[jinodosen]

Don't trust niceness. Trust kindness.

[robfarrell]

'A cowardly, self-pitying, degenerate child'. Go Richard ! That sums it up for me.

[dacksonflux]

My favorite are the back-handed, passive aggressive comments that are low key very personal insults meant for only the target's ears.

[billdavis]

I’ve come to realize that most people have issues. At 44, I’m incredibly skeptical of anyone trying to befriend me. Most cases, they want something from me monetarily, or someone trying to get me to do their work.

My life consists of working, relaxing and being grateful for not being on the streets. We are headed for turbulent times. Appreciate the good people in your life. Many Narcissistic people will define their supplies as being narcissistic. I don’t have any desire to play games. Im educated, hardworking, well traveled with good genes. If I die alone one day, it’s because being a people pleaser causes more pain than being alone. Never let so called friends use and abuse you. Learn how to be alone if necessary.

[myhalowithin]

conclusion: don't trust yourself in trusting others until the boundaries of trust are fully established.

[youwannaknowwhatweknow]

Pure exhaustion. Complete withdrawal is the only survival technique.

[Murph]

Inevitably the mask slips off, and you see the real person underneath. My nice covert ex let it slip a couple of times, I thought she was just upset and lashing out, as we all do from time to time (she was deliberatley cruel though, not just typical expletive rants, but deeply insulting comments made to evoke shame and guilt). After 10 years together, the patterns became apparent. I could predict an abusive episode coming on from a single text message, or from the measure of her gait. The room would change, they way a brewing storm changes the atmosphere, and you would know, "something is coming". But the most recent episode was so beyond the pale it fundamentally changed me as a person. Rather than engage, defend myself, or argue back, I just let her rant (which she happily did for hours, btw!), smiling inside knowing that that was the last time she would do that to me. When you finally realize you are staring into an abyss of cruelty and selfishness, it can be quite liberating. March 18, 2023 was the day I took my power back.

[ejw]

Thank you! This is still a poorly understood aspect of narcissism. A lot of people think narcissists always present as grandiose and degrading to others, but that is not true at all. I have dealt with "nice" narcissists both in my personal and professional life and they are really exhausting!

[orangeorangeness]

I lost my best years to "Nice Guys" they took more from me than I ever got back.

[lionheartklaric]

my covert narc ex 100% everyone loved him and said he was lovely. at home he ignored anything about me or was rageful and contemptuous. He let me pay for everything and treated me like trash. No one else got to see him as he really was. Just me.

[Wishpool]

You just described my ex-narc to a T. He's a well-known musician in his genre and everyone adores him! He's very nice & personable, kind & giving, funny & charming. He seemed so honest & genuine in the beginning... until I really got to know him and the mask started to slip. He has so many people fooled about his true self.

[pickle]

People that are not pieces of shit, don’t need to go around telling everybody that they’re not pieces of shit. And they don’t need to go around virtue signalling it for anyone either. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[tamich]

Mindblown🤯 this is the exact man I walked away from 2 weeks ago. Haven't heard him defined so well and to the point. Thought I was loosing my mind about who he really was and lost 3 years dealing with him, but avoided a lifetime of pain, and for that I am grateful and blessed.

[e.r.]

There is also one trait : when you sense that somebody thinks you are stupid, or just because they said something you must just obey without asking questions and proof. And you just have this feeling something is being hidden to you here. You don’t know what it is, but you just know. This is where the modality of focusing can really help because that wisdom comes from our body. Even when someone looks nice and calm, focusing on your body will give you the insight you need to stay in the relationship or quit. .

[deborahkish]

My ex-husband was so charming to everyone. He told everyone that my children and I were the problem. During our divorce he went to every store and business and told people I was a meth addict. I couldn't figure out why these people were so rude to me. Finally an employee told me what he was saying. I couldn't believe the lies and I have never done drug's. He's a pathological liar.

[TheVaultwest]

I feel like i learned how to manipulate my “nice guy” narcissist. I knew instinctively to turn the convo back to him and his stuff. I ended up with a sense of guilt for my manipulation of him, just to keep him on board. Relationship with a narcissist truly is mind bending.

[lady.leo]

Omg thank you for this video!!! Three months after I walked away from unhealthy relationship with a toxic ex, he was posting online about how happy he was with the new gf. The posts made me question my sanity. I thought I was the problem bc everyone would say what a "nice guy" he was. But he wasn't! In private, he would tell me how his mom didn't like me, how my weird my family was because he didn't hug each other, he would sabotage our dates toward the end of the night and make it seem like it was my fault, etc etc. I seriously thought I was going crazy! While doing research, I discovered he was a covert narcissist and this video nailed EVERY single trait he has and things he did. Thank you so much! I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulder.

[NikkiGRocksEver]

Richard, you have described one of the pastors at my church perfectly. The more videos of narcissism I watched, the more I suspected he was a narcissist. Then one day the mask slipped he deliberately said something meant to inflict guilt and shame. Then I knew he was one. I change my situation to avoid him. I tried to tell my friend to warn her. She downplayed what I told her.
Some people have to learn the hard way.

[nenirouvelliv]

"A cowardly, degenerate, self-pitying child." No-one has quite nailed my core personality to such an accurate degree.