How to Stop Being Codependent

There is a codependent behavior, over-functioning, that is one of the main symptoms of codependent relationships. Learn more in this quick video so you can stop being codependent.#codependency #codependent #codependencyrecovery

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Michelle is a psychotherapist, codependency expert, and anger management, specialist. She’s been featured in The Daily Positive, BossMom, Psych Central, The Good Men Project, and Your Tango just to name a few. Her relationship recovery helps people go from relationships that don’t serve them, to learning how to trust themselves and create mutually satisfying connections that work. Michelle loves creating online products and courses on relationship skills, codependency recovery, anger management, conflict resolution, self-esteem, and self-trust.

[victorcraraujo]

I've seen a hundred videos about codependency but my mind isn't quite sure if understands the concept itself. this one hits the spot!

[UniversalMysticsOfChrist]

I'm the other person. Narc financially supports me and I don't know how to escape and support myself.

[kristelwalton]

So appreciate this direct advice! Codependency caused me to evaluate more and more. This is the easy way to identify that I'm doing codependent behaviors and see where changes are needed ! Thanks Michelle

[mispotan]

If I pull back, our bills aren’t paid, our cat won’t have her meds, and neither will have food :(( there’s a conversation for my partner to take up more responsibilities, but in the end it’s up to me to “push them” to do more things and vice versa, I am too tired to organize the time where we do important things together just for them to say they’re too sick/tired/depressed in the moment to do the tasks

[rodriguezperalta]

What about a people with an anxious attachment style, wife asked to be taken care of, I surrendered to her demands and became emotionally unavailable. She started an affair and left me. I wanted to be in the relationship and thought I was doing well but can't stop blaming myself more for not giving enough when I could.

[susanasamayoa]

I just came out of a relationship with a sociopath...he would get mad over silly things, blame everything on others. Worked 10 hours in 5 months..he said he wasn't using me when i paid for everything..i mean everything..he blamed it on his mental and physical health, he has variable pulse; alway saying he could deop dead any time. I asked him to find an easy job..he didn't. The last time because he got lost and parked in a wrong parking lot, after me telling him where, i tey to explain where to meet, he yelled at me like a maniac then horribly told me to shut up...i if course told him who t f do you think u are to tell me to shut up...my oldest was with me..heard tbe whole thing, aftehe comes out he goes and gets in my son's face and start yelling at him, blaming him that he had to pay 20 bucks...my son is pissed. Tells him get if my face you stupid piece of s...you are lucky i can't walk or i would kick your ass...he took that as a threat...i told him th get away feom my son..he got mad that i took his side and left...never apologized

[chelseabunker]

What does “taking care of ourselves first” look like? I actually don’t understand what self love is or means? A lot of stuff I have seen is spa fluff, not stuff to heal my patterns

[thesweetestangel]

How does relationship like this between parents, affect the child's mental health and well being? When the mom is codependent and when the dad is always expecting to be taken care of?

[carmenl]

Don't we all wish for life to be so simple?

[derosa]

I dk how have ferlings to care for me. .
Nothing is inside of me

[derosa]

yeah but i have zero feelings for myself

[alivingstoneHim]

I am done with this nonsense ! Thank-You JESUS !