8 signs you're dealing with childhood trauma💔 (sessions #7)

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This video describes 8 common areas of difficulty for people who have experienced childhood trauma (also differentiating from autism/adhd in terms of the relational impact of childhood trauma vs neurodivergent qualities, developmental challenges, etc and why important to discuss and differentiate.)

***This "Sage Sessions" series will start broadly and in the next few videos I will start diving into each of the topics (ie attachment, autism, adhd, trauma, childhood, adult relationships etc) in MORE SPECIFIC detail (ie "what happens when someone with avoidant attachment ends a relationship..."

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Oh my God this lady is amazing. Just in the first few minutes I was able to deduct and acknowledge so much about myself!

Gingerbread_Man
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1. Relationships- I seem to struggle with just about every relationship, including with myself.
2. Emotional Dysregulation- I get overwhelmed with my own feelings on a regular basis, second guessing how I am feeling and what I should be doing about it. Questioning if I handled something correctly gets so boring. I am awful projecting on other cars while driving, calling people names like cheesedick if they pull out in front of me.
3. Hyper Vigiliance/Anxiety- my gut is always tight, I am always trying to sigh, take a deep breath and let my shoulders relax. My neutral state is alone in a darkened room at home smoking weed while hanging out on my computer. I over analyze everything and am waiting for the next terrible thing to happen. Feels like I am always in trouble, but I don't know why.
4. Low self-esteem- I know my testosterone if very low with my autoimmune, my inner critic is awful, I have very high standards for myself and others, nobody ever measures up - including me. I don't even know what winning actually means.
5. Cognitive Issues- I journal but there are gaps in my childhood, but when I put things in order I can see how several traumatic events were on the build up to a big crash.
Sleep- I am always sleepy and never able to relax and take a nap, despite being home a lot and out of work. I am up with a bolt at 5am and rarely can go back to sleep. I would listen for the sounds of my step dad upstairs for cues.
6. Chronic Illness- I have asthma, hashimotos, adrenal burnout, exzcema, low testosterone, gout, cushings syndrome....I keep finding new ones.
7. Self Sabotage- I quit drinking 12 years ago but for a long time I was taking it all out on myself.
I have major trauma from my childhood, but I am hopeful that I can get better in time.
8. Wounds- so many.

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I would say that most of the 8 signs you listed are true for me. It's only been within the past few years that I started learning about how my past experiences have affected me as an adult. I started a really deep dive 2 years ago after I experienced a flashback and was told I have CPTSD.

I'm really enjoying your sessions videos, Dr. Kim!

marconius
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Your videos are so good. Thank you for making them.

AnalogCinema
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Sooo resonate with this. Thank you. Wish I felt safe enough to say more! 💕

tracey
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#Sageadvice as always 🎉❤
Thanks Dr. Sage❣️

Hemi_Bratt_Ca
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Bardzo dziękuję 🌷 Cudownie się tego słucha 💕

grazynapankowska
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Thank you for spending time discussing the issue of childhood trauma. Please advise of any good books on the subject that you would recommend.

pattyinpittsburgh
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as kristy forbes from InTune Pathways says "autistic is our identity and our culture".

tracirex
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🦉Peace & Greetings. Within Perception vs Perception, with most, not all key points you’ve made. What parts would differentiate those with, let’s say, Astronomical Birth Signs Character Traits?

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please talk more about others subjects like sexual assault.
i love your chanel but it’s getting repetitive and i would like to see you talking about new subjects. thank you for being active here❤

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