Types Of Relationships Avoidants Do Well In

[johnnyd]

Just imagine false accusations, gaslighting, drama, ultimatums, div courts, alimony, child support, cheating done to you and so on. Stay safe, kings !

[chriswright]

I like my inner peace and I really don't give a fuck .

[keppscrossing]

My marriage was the precise opposite of this. I was the secure one, my now ex-wife was the avoidant, and she was the one that ended it, too. She was so avoidant right from the very start, that she never bonded with me, but I definitely bonded with her.

[howardtreesong]

I avoid relationships altogether. The idea of having someone in my living space creeps me out.

[johndepriest]

Here is where questions arise.
Most people don't know or understand what the traits of an avoident person are portraying.
This is where the cycle repeats over and over.
The damaging of others continues to compound.
Maybe a pod cast where to discover and learn more about this. Maybe a battery of questions that opens the door to the behaviors.

[jen_sa]

that's my parents, they literally just exist in the same space and prefer it that way

[AustinKloud]

I’m so avoidant now after my divorce … I’m off the charts.

[brokeboy]

I wonder where the link is for the full video?

[angelsegarra]

Any advice on finding other avoidants?
Also, what kinds of needs are avoidants not able to provide the secure person, like what kinds of boundaries is it that the secure woild deem being crossed?

[pastureexpectationsfarm]

I would just like to get to the third date.

[frosty]

I thought it was going to be about avoidant not avoidant attachment .

[rossscougall]

Couldn't you wish you could remove emotions it's too complicated

[doomedfromthesmart]

the living heck are these crazies on?
Threat of intimacy? What?