When Narcissist Is No Longer Intimate

Have you noticed a sudden shift in your
narcissistic partner's intimacy level?
Wondering if their actions could be
attributed to external factors like porn or
cheating?
Join me as we delve into the complex world
of narcissistic behavior and its connection
to diminishing intimacy.

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

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[nickieglazer]

They are never intimate, one has to have empathy in order to be intimate.
Any ‘connection’ is manipulation.

[bonnielee]

Oh my gosh. Yes, it makes sense!
They thought, that you were going to make them happy. Their own inner selfishness, self-centeredness, narcissistic triggers and reactions, cause it to spoil the relationship. They blame you, not themselves because, they can do no wrong, mentality, they look for the, “ perfect partner “ elsewhere. They repeat cycles because it is them and not you, all along. And even if it is you, because you are not the right match for them, they don’t let you go because of their need to control. Yep. This makes sense for a lot of cases.

[teamgert]

Cuz they’re getting needs met elsewhere. Deny all they want. Want to test your narcissist? Leave everything they gave you at their door and drive away. Trust me. You’ll hear how they truly “love” you. Trust me.

[fooled_twice]

Thank you. I was married for 10 years to a pornography -obsessed cheating narc, divorced now almost 20 years. He denied everything when i started getting suspicious. Learned we need to trust our instincts and that a cheater won’t take responsibility. Still have pain remembering my disbelief that he could live multiple lives and juggle so many lies. Still learning about how all this behavior affected me, and how it all makes sense (and is cookbook narcissism) but i was so trauma bonded with poor self esteem and huge self doubt- which he helped to magnify . I knew i was in trouble when he pulled away sexually and used withholding sex as a control move, but was too scared to confront him about it. He even refused me sex on our wedding night! Welcome to marriage from hell! All his mistresses ended up telling me everything and i am so happy that drama chapter is over now.

[Bipolishmomma]

I had the opposite experience with my Nex. I had quit drinking and we were closer on an emotional level than ever BUT he would not be physically intimate with me. I didn’t ponder on it too much because I felt more connected then I ever did in 7 years. Let’s just say…he was coming home with scratch marks and my intuition was on high alert. Found things in his phone and left everything behind and went no contact. It’s been a year. I’m positive he was trying to make up for his unfaithfulness by manipulating me emotionally and by throwing me off, I didn’t think he was cheating. Boy was I wrong

[lynnschaeferle-zhgo]

Thank you. My marriage was over when the internet got good. Twice a day every day he had to soak in the tub for 30 minutes or more. Of course after that I didn’t deserve any attention because I am not the body he wants. I didn’t deserve decent treatment because I no longer entertained him.

[Ariela-ApostolicA]

My covert narcissist/soon to be ex-husband, had the AUDICITY to file for divorce because he "fell out of love, " (aka fell into another woman's p.s.y) hasn't been intimate with me in well OVER 6 years!!!
I remember this distinctly because it was literally THE SAME DAY I TOLD HIM I WAS PREGNANT.
She's 6 years old now....
Needless to say, bye! ¡adios!
👋 Don't let the door hit you in the a$$ on your way out!
He's ASKING FOR EVERYTHING, including the house, as opposed to me, who has 5 biological children ti take care of and was/is dependeing on him financially, as per our agreement BEFORE we got marriaged, due to our personal convictions and beliefs, and he absolutely unequivocally agreed!
As a matter of fact, he enforced that until MARCH of THIS YEAR. He's disgusting.
These people are simply demons in flesh, and you can't change them, they must do it on their own.
One cannot change what one refuses to confront, especially if you're in kahoots with the demon(s) and/or you think you're always right!!
God bless you all and stay strong.

If you're not married to them, RUN!! GHOST THEM AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!

EVERYONE ELSE...
HOLD. YOUR. GROUND.

[irinaparker]

Last 4 years of a so call marriage with my ex narcissist husband no intimacy at all. I finally found out he was involved with another person. I thank the Lord Jesus Christ son of God for delivering me 🙏 and my family 🙏 life is beautiful again without the narc.

[rebekahjette]

Kissing can be very bad most of the time.

[confusedwhynot]

Intimacy and sex are two different things. My husband was into the sex part, but not so much into intimacy. He wanted to get it on.

[BarbaraGraham-Siegenthaler-id]

My husband of 33 years has gotten into pornography and even admitted his „choices“ about 4 years ago: he is adicted to multi partner porn… and then said that I would have to work harder😮😢 That then more or less was the end of any intimacy for us. He had two affairs since. I do not know up to this day whether these are emotional affairs or also sexual affairs. I was discarded on our 33th wedding anniversary😢. 7 months later after he had moved out the therapist we went to asked whether we wanted to try again for marriage. I carefully explained my reasons for my NO. Now he tells around that I for no reason left the marriage. Absurd! I do keep under the radar in order to protect us, mostly our daughter who deserves to keep her relationship with her father at 22 years of age. I learnt si much about narcissism - shocking!!!😢

[avgonyma]

What honesty? He said a couple of times: "you will never completely know me"....when I tried to understand and connect to him. 😳

[melrose]

Can you do a video on the narcissist fantasying their ex?

[daveo]

My partner stopped the supply. I just became resentful towards her. It’s over now.

[nancysmith]

My narc changed like a light switch about 6 months after marriage

[sandynogle]

This happened to me. Married my narc & he dropped me like a hot potato.

[solisfamilialifewithcrazy]

You just described EVERYTHING my husband did last year & this year I got the news while I was pregnant! But he doesn’t want to let me go & he loves me and doesn’t want to loose our BIG FAMILY & he finally got a daughter after 5 sons. He even said He never thought about me in the 2 year affair at work. Sex did change also. I had a gut feeling. This wasn’t the first time. I honestly don’t know what to do! My kids beg me to stay!

[Thisisme]

Ew and Yuk... this video makes my skin crawl 🤢He did something new in bed last year, and I innocently thought it was "just" something he had picked up on some porn... but I later learned he had been cheating.. took me a long time to learn how narc brains truly work. Its disgusting

[anitakern]

NAILED IT!!!! EVERY SINGLE WORD!!! So sickening!! Thank u ! U have helped me see so much into this!!!! I have to say...when ever hes explaining something he does always say "does that make sense"

[JessicaKelly-byfj]

It makes perfect since it actually helped me understand some things