When a narcissist makes you feel guilty for wanting to leave/

when a narcissist makes you feel guilty for wanting to leave, realize that it's not your guilt that you are feeling. that is false guilt projected on you by the #narcissist that you are dealing with.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[yugenknows]

I stayed with my ex years longer than I wanted. I always felt so sorry for him and guilty for wanting out. News flash everyone.... once you actually leave they will be just fine because you never really mattered to them anyways. JUST LEAVE!

[Outfoxsbaby]

My ex after eight years in and then he said that’s why I never took it serious in the first place…because I knew you would leave 🤯

[sakshijogdand]

"Go ahead and leave me like everybody else did" is exactly what he said the last time

[KikoSolaris]

😂😂😂" hop in the car, we go on a guilt trip"
I just love your humor!

[channingbaker]

I’m literally going through this right now! I went stone cold silent on his ass. Absolutely no contact or response

[beverleyjoyce]

I left my toxic Narcissistic. X husband when he had a teenager pregnant, and I went to see marriage counselling with him. Just to convince him. I was done with him. And he told Marrage councelling that. I never complained to him about his behaviour, . I had told him I was sick of him and he would come home and the children and I woul be GONE. . He said to me ", you can leave any time you like, just leave the children" So he came home one day and the children and I where gone. I went back to him after 4 months to see if he would try to make it up to me for putting me through 10 years of his abuse and all he could to was yell at me until the early hours of the morning for weeks. that I wasn't trying. He went out one night and the children and I left, and NEVER went back to him.

[brittanyparistx]

You’re the most encouraging & empowering narcissist I’ve ever seen.

[spikebloodworth]

I got "if you're so quick to leave were we really soul mates?" I reminded him of the exact words he spoke: " hurry up, move! get the f*** out!" and i finished with "you demanded, you got what you asked for, be happy. eat that up like it's candy!"

[Cowface]

I needed the “get in the car, we’re going on a guilt trip” shirt like yesterday

[Lefty]

I left my ex for 2 years straight. Took him back about 2 months ago, and he agreed to do a lot of things that to this day he hasn’t done. I decided to leave him yesterday, and he texts me telling me his dads death anniversary was the day before yesterday, he’s a failure, I just used him, and that he doesn’t want me to text back. In my head I knew he was trying to guilt trip, and if his dads death was that important to him, he would’ve told me the day of. Instead he brings it up the day after I left him… it’s messed up to think he was doing fine that day, but decides to use that as an excuse guilt trip me… mind f**k

[Beyourself_dope]

I broke up w/ mine & she said “ I was happy” oh I’m sorry I forgot you was dating yourself …

[johannawarrington]

Like my narc mother she is 87 years old I am the oldest daughter and the family tradition is the oldest daughter have to take care of the mother my narc mother is quilt tripping me with manipulation and agression shouting and blackmail I ended up in a burnout and still she don't stop.

[roseannjohnsonjohnson]

They need us, assertion of control, and Supply fuel ⛽️ that's it . Their not done with you yet . Fuel is so substantial to the narcissist they'll facke guilty thing on you !

[unitrarenee]

After showing me who he was, my empathy had me give my ex 8 yrs to, as he said, “let him show me who he REALLY is”. Then once I had enough, he asked for 30 more days. Nah sir, I’m good! 👎🏽

[MrChristinahunt]

Thank you so much for this video.Lee.. this has honestly been one of the most informative videos I've watched on Narcissistic abuse.. I'm in a very emotionally abusive relationship with a narc and he plays the I'll k#ll myself card all the time.. I'm so miserable and drained and it's false guilt.. thank you for this.

[Nidhi_Maheshwari]

5 claps for 5 analogies you drew here Lee.

That guilt you face while confronting/leaving the narc is theirs not yours. Remember who's pressing the nail in your skin. The person with the nail is guilty, not you.🙆🌄

[vanessamcbridebreathebelie]

thank u for helping me n i love ur analogies 😂

[Danimnto]

The last thing she texted me about was, "you really broke it, telling my first friend on discord was not cool. Now I feel like hurting myself again, thanks".

And blocked me. It's confusing to me, because the night before she was beig mean to me after all that she said. I just finally gave up

[Regladeocha]

Why in the heck are your videos coming through with everything I just went through with this 48 yr old, twice-divorced male with mommy issues???? This is The Most High's way of telling me I am not wrong for ignoring and blocking him. I even "hid" his pictures in my phone. Being accused of finding another guy when I vehemently expressed I wanted him and then he ghost me is another level of pain for me especially since I was willing to look past the twice-divorced aspect of him because I am divorced once. Never again...

[Nidhi_Maheshwari]

Lee, your explanations & examples are on point. 👏🏻

Keep spreading what you know.🕊️
Your words have already reached this small town in India🇮🇳 to this 24 year old naive person.


After processing my breakup through Dr. Ramani book, your videos & skits are complementing my healing journey. They are fun, have actual scenarios of people, have your perspective too which explains both the start & end of the narc relationship rope.📍💚

Thank you for everything. (Does it count as non-narc expression of gratitude, Lee?)

- Nidhi 🙆🌄