7 Ways To Get A Narcissist To Respect You

IF you want a narcissist to show you respect, there's a bit of a game you must play. Essentially, you must outsmart the narcissist -- and it's not always intuitive. In this video I share 7 ways to get a narcissist to respect you... if you must. Typically, these strategies are for people who have a narcissist boss, coworker or someone who is divorcing a narcissist. But they can also work if you're stuck in a relationship with a narcissist for whatever reason.

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*In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

[starletd.]

What’s so crazy is, I was a very confident person, but….. I was raised by a narcissistic mother, my brother is a narcissist & I married a narcissist. I got through the husband, finally and most recently got through the brother, but his hurt knocked out any and all confidence. I am caring for my mother daily & cry often. She takes the wind out of my sails daily. But I was blessed with a best friend who reminds me, who I am. Plus, my faith in the Lord reminds me what I’m worth. And I do exactly what you said, if mom treats me a certain way, I excuse myself & leave.

[khadijahnyabinghi]

Thank you for sharing this very important information. Well said and very accurate. It's just so exhausting dealing with a Narcissist when you are the Empath.

[jacquelinefroehle]

They do not respect...period. Respect your self and get far away from them. No contact is best because it will always be a very sick mind game.

[andypeterson]

I just put a restraining order on my narcissist because I didn’t want to go to prison for 20 years for killing him in an extreme fashion

[craigmerkey]

Thank you for your great information! Growing up I realized the jockeying for temporary alignments (approval seeking) has no end! Realizing I would be judged for what I did no matter what! Even if we agreed 5 min ago! Displaying my authentic self set me free instead of copying their false self.

[VRSWGN]

There were 2 separate times I told my ex that she didn't respect me. I said she didn't respect me as her boyfriend, friend, or even as a person. Sent her a long text about it all and how there were things she had done that hurt me and how it got to the point that I didn't want to tell her anything because it would always just end in an argument. Her response? "I'm sorry you feel that way" Not I'm sorry or I'm sorry I made you feel that way; you know a genuine apology.
I should have ran then, but I was hooked, believing she was my soulmate, the way she was treating me could change, and not knowing what all this (narcissism) was until after everything came crashing down

[LoveEm-ri]

My narcissistic daughter absolutely like that 😢😢😢

[gingerlemon]

Narcs also target confident people because of that jealousy. Steer clear and know how to navigate. Keep it short and sweet and don't give them personal information about yourself. Basically... Yellow rock and smile, especially if it's at work. You don't wanna be triangulated by their group of minions.

[leahdeitrick]

I fell for some baiting and had what I felt was a very emotional response and felt so dumb for falling for it, but these tips help me realize I didn't react as poorly as I thought I did. And all that's left to do nothing. 🙂

[Cc-gbhh]

Thank you for making it so much easier. The way you explain is perfect

[khadijahnyabinghi]

They absolutely do not respect their children. Specifically the Narcissistic Mother. Emotional Parentification is also the order of the day for this type of "Mother". The emotional dumping wears you out mentally and physically.

[basicinfo]

1:15
1:40 confidence
2:55 mysterious
4:25 respect them
4:54 hold your boundaries (respect yourself)
5:53 starve them of your empathy

[Mindfulness]

I currently having a dilemma about me walking away from situation instead of explaining how I felt or what we should calm down and I was beating myself up about it, you made me realize though my instincts were correct and probably prevented a diaster I could've made by speaking up

[roxymovie]

Narcissists do not respect anyone but themselves. They might show some kind of respect to a person, that has "things" for them that they want and need for themselves, like for example charactertraits, situational benefits etc. But behind the back of that person they will always smear this person because Narcissists think they are the only ones who deserve the good things.

In order to make the Narcissist "respect" you, you can try these things:
1. Be confident and protect your confidence
> so that the Narc can not crash your
self-esteem
2. Become mysterious and do not show
emotions
> because every kind of emotions will
fill the Narc with his/her "fuel"
3. Show the Narc respect
> because without respect they will
dump you down instantly
4. Hold on to your boundaries
> because a Narc has no boundaries at
all
5. Set yourself time-limits so that you
will not become the audience for the
Narc
> so that you will also not get exhausted
6. Stop pleasing the Narc
> be aware of the fact that you can not
fix a Narc for he/she is unchangeable
and you have to take care of your own
needs first
7. Let a Narc win sometimes
> so that you will have a bit more peace-time

[bloodymary]

They respect people that walk away from them and their bullshit and don't participate in their drama making

[debbiedobrzenski]

You get tired of their set ups, to draw you in. 😴

[Jaysie]

I need hear it again 😉💡 #4 💡

#5 he claims I'm rude no matter what "No" I have for my boundaries 😭 my tone is always snotty or whatever 💡#ReginaGeorge

[theclown]

I dont think its psychologically possible for a Narcissist to respect you or anyone for that matter. In order to do so they will need to see pass themselves which is damn near impossible for them to do.

[Jaysie]

I'm a grey rock right now I had no clue 😹🧩💡

[startingbrandnew]

Not only that i need to re-watch this video several times but i'm also saving and sorting/catagorising the transcript to fit into my exact upcoming situation. Thank you for the great advises! 😘😘😘