How narcissists use lies of omission to hide and deceive

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

Platforms I am on:

[Yogaflame]

"Oh I forgot I went to the grocery store AND I cheated on you. I forgot" LMAO!!! I shouldn't have laughed that hard lol

[TheDecider]

Trust that instinct. It’s there for a reason ❤❤❤

[eliskacuhrova]

" I never lied to you, I was just systematically leaving sort of information out. " true story 🤦🏼‍♀️
You never get all the truth from NEx ...
Or " I was forgetting" or " I didn't know it's important"

[flightydancer]

My ex would lie or hide the truth and then say "the problem is that you don't trust/believe in me"

[annakrajan]

Oh, it's really true. I can't believe it when I listen to my husband telling some story without details and facts, which makes the story fake. My question is- is he aware of what he's doing? He seems to be very sincere while talking about it.

[sophie-zlyu]

Trust was broken, found out by catching him in a lie by omission and then he wouldn’t give me any access and claimed it ‘abusive’ to go through his phone when I felt something was off… so thank you for this video for saving me from questioning myself and my actions!

[missywoo]

How bout when They tell u a lie then hours later they “forget “ what they said, and bust themselves out. My ex did this constantly- then deny what I KNOW he said. Nobody is this ignorant or dumb. It’s on purpose. Lying on a daily

[np]

Leaving out yes! Years later they tell you the rest and says they already told you a long, long time ago.

[terrywade]

NO TRUER WORDS HAVE EVER BEEN SPOKEN! I wish I could give your channel a 1, 000 thumbs up! E-v-e-r-y-t-h-I-n-g you said in this video is EXACTLY what I’ve been experiencing with my narcissistic husband! He is so good at all of the tactics that you described, that it’s taken me 35 years to realize what I’ve been dealing with! NOTHING about “our relationship” was real (except for the effort I put in)! His “good guy mask” will never fit again! It’s just a pile of goo dripping off his face! You made so many great points and examples that I can’t list them all. THANK YOU, Ben! Now I have the clarity I need.

[mearis]

Oh boy.... The half truths, feeling like the CN gives out information on a need to know basis. I can fully relate. Unfortunately, I didn't find out about his financial situation until 6 months after we were married -- He portrayed himself as more financially sound than he is. Then I found out he wasn't entirely truthful about his military service. I can't tell how many times he'd say "I forgot" about different things. Yet, he still thinks there's nothing wrong with what he did. He points the finger to me, that I'm the problem.

[teresacotton]

I'm sure my ExNarc did this all the time. He told me really early on that if he was questioned about something they thought he did...he would say, sarcastically " yes, I left work early and hooked up with..blank"

He was gaslighting that person and thought he was not lying.

[annettedevries]

My ex.n sometimes sad to me. I didn, t lie to you. I did not tell you that. Because, if you don, t no it. It wil not hurt you. Pfff 😲

[edenjennings]

"Work meeting" gone 14 hours spent over 200 bucks drafting a fantasy football team followed by poker... we are paycheck to paycheck and all the bills are on me.

[edenjennings]

Or lately every arguement somewhere in the middle of it he blurts out "I never cheated on you" completely off topic of the arguement... that's an interesting defense to not helping out financially?? 🙋 🤔 🤔 🚩