I Hate My Husband - What To Do Next

If you are a woman out there and feel like you do not have those same feelings of love and affection as you used to have towards your husband, and in fact, you feel like you may resent or even say, "I hate my husband;" then this is for you.

Resentment at its core is when people feel that they have an unmet need or desire. Unmet needs or desires lead those feelings of positivity and warmness and love and comfort towards a person to turn into feelings of negativity and push them away.

When you choose to see your husband as the enemy, continue to hold the grudges, and not deal with them, you may begin to say something like, "I hate my husband." Then, you can easily start to justify your behaviors and how you treat him, even when that will not be the best outcome for your marriage.

We have even helped marriages in situations like yours, where you're thinking, "How could I ever feel the love and compassion towards my husband when I hate my husband?" We have helped couples overcome that and learn to overcome the resentment and love each other again, even more than they loved each other on their wedding day.

Hate begins to happen when the passion part of love goes awry. So when we think of love, that passionate part of it is the one that can increase the quickest or decrease the fastest because it's very much based on emotions, the desire for oneness. So if you were to look at it on a scale, if the positive were to be passionate, when it gets below that line and goes negative, that's what can become hate.

Apathy is the opposite of love. Apathy is the absence of feeling any intimacy, any commitment, or any passion towards your husband. So often, when we enter into that space of resentment, if we don't fix that, we can quickly become apathetic.

That is when your marriage is in trouble. When you begin to have no more feelings towards your spouse, where you don't care what happens to them, what they choose to do, you shut yourself off completely, and you've become numb. If you feel like you have entered into a space of apathy, either you or your husband, then you don't need to wait any longer to do something now.

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[anngarcia]

I feel resentment towards my husband for many different reasons. In the past year he has turned totally against me and belittles me and mentally abuses me. Then he tries to be intimate with me but I just have no attraction towards him because of the way he is treating me. Its like he is playing head games and I do not feel like I have any say so or control over the way he treats me. All I want to do is get away I do not even care if I am left homeless at this point. This is sad but true.

[VividAI_image]

I married a useless man. I’m saving up so I can leave him eventually. I’m done trying

[TheCatholicGirl]

This is nonsense. My husband love bombed me and within the first few months of marriage completely checked. I did nothing to cause it. Nothing. And have tried everything. After 20 years of severe neglect, emotional & psychological abuse I’m done. I’m his third wife. Sometimes it’s just the man.

[umbelinocristiana]

I'm in a point where i don't even have the strength to hate anymore... I'm so tired of being manipulated and isolated I just want to vanish.

[tataiinsertlastnamehere]

It's hard to forgive someone who continually does the same thing (lying). It's also hard to forgive him for not stepping up when I need him to address his family (mostly his brother) about disrespecting my home.

[iyakida]

I thought this will help but what ever she says.... I still hate my husband.... And regret the day I

[gloriakenia]

i left him, i moved to another country with my children and left him behind! the best decision of my life. we are still married and communicate but from different countries, i have no feelings towards that man.

[mirrorimage]

I hate my husband. I'm here for the benefits if we get divorced. I plan to stay until the kids graduate. I'm getting my education now bc I stayed at home to raise the kids I can't believe I went for that.

[asiahobson]

I needed to see this. I started to feel justified if I had an affair. That’s not even the type of woman I am but I’m fed up and on my way out the door.

[LaB]

Ok but what you’ve started to hate him because you’ve repeatedly told him your needs and he is apathetic to me as a person in general? And he only “needs” me to fulfill the function of caretaker of the home and children. And all he wants to be is a paycheck.

[hopeseeker]

No. He chose himself. He left me bankrupt and alone. But I'm supposed to take care of everything else while he "survives". I'm done after 25 agonizing years

[candymuncher]

I started with total indifference towards him and I have steadily moved towards detest and repulsion with weeks and weeks of apathy towards him. Then I have to talk to him and the repulsion and detest follows for several days. And the cycle repeats. I don't think I will ever have any kind of wifely feelings for him. Ever.

[sinjinmonsoon]

I just caught my loser husband trying to get into my stock account. Then he became aggressive and angry. I'm done. 40 years of this.

[KalinFamilyForJesus]

Not going to forgive him. That's the problem I forgive him every single time and nothing changes

[FullyBakedPotato]

No intimacy whatsoever in my relationship, no emotional, no physical, no nothing. He just plays video games all the time and neglects everything. I hate him so much but have no clue how to leave.

[suzannemistretta]

When your dealing with someone with a personality disorder I don't think you can ever have a normal marriage BCS the other person has too many problems to even see your side of the situation.

[cazb]

I can't stand my partner. How many times do I need to reinvent myself for someone who keeps hurting me. The cheating lie, and I just need to get over it. He makes me sick when he laughs at my pain. He is my biggest mistake. I dont care how he feels. Im trying to find myself again. He can go do him.

[amywilson]

He didn't cheat because of her being controlling. He was going to cheat no matter what. Cheating is only the cheaters fault. That's all on him. And I will go as far to say that her intuition probably picked up on his ability to cheat early on and tried to prevent it by being controlling.

[hypnotherapistgurudebraann]

How does this work with a narcissistic partner who constantly gas lights you ?