How to Not Hate Your Husband After Kids

In today’s video, I talk to you about how to not hate your husband after kids! I basically go into how to prevent building resentment towards your spouse when your relationship changes after having a baby. I hope this video can help you in your marriage!

How To Not Hate Your Husband After Kids

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[CarlyMitchell]

I was such a bad backseat driver parent for my husband! Leaving the house without the baby is such a great solution to this and it fills my cup so much to be alone, even if it’s running an errand or something - it’s nice to not be needed! Thanks for this video Ashley, it is so nice to hear that I’m not the only one who goes through this stuff!!!

[SKGaskell]

Not a parent, but partnered and trying! I appreciate that you’re kind to your hubby and also have “warm demands” 👍🏼

[neskorock]

It has been 3 years for me since having premature twin. I now finally make him stay home one day to care the kids while I go to office. A lot of resentment and honestly a lot of divorce discussion. If you husband is not willing to understand your days, you hit the dead end.

[milypdgonly]

Omg I laughed so much when you mentioned the husband asking for help to do something I as a mom do with baby in arms. This is really good advice and it came at the perfect time because I was just arguing with my husband of how hard sleep training is and that he doesn’t know because he isn’t here to help 😅 I do have to say though that as mom of 2 doing some of this things just get harder, I have a 5 month old and a 5 year old. Today my baby had the worst time trying to sleep and we’ve been up some 4:30am and oh I so badly wanted to close my eyes when I finally got him to sleep for more than 10 mins but then my other baby who had been so patient now needed me. Today I just felt defeated and completely drained, so my husband got all my frustration. It’s so bad. Honestly can’t believe how good of timing this video was.

[barbarag]

I can totally imagine the resentment building when one works out of the home and neither fully understand each other’s day/situation. We currently have a 3 month old and my husband took 6 months leave starting at birth and I just returned to work fulltime (from home). Due to this (relatively uncommon) situation of us both being home all the time and him now doing the majority of childcare, we have a tremendous amount of common understanding. It also automatically solves the problem of mom being the default parent or one of us being more used/better at parenting. P.s love your videos, greetings from a Dutch mom living in Germany

[brittneyolmstead]

Really needed to hear every single one of these things today, thank you so much.
My baby just turned 3 months old and it’s been so rough on our relationship. I’m going to start trying to take this advice! Again, thank you.
Your videos are amazing!

[alisha]

What a great video, such a refreshing mindset and different take to the usual type of motherhood videos that makes you reevaluate and work towards bettering not only yourself but your relationship with your partner. Thank you for the really awesome content it was a pleasure to watch!

[MoonieNiks]

The ✨drama✨ in this thumbnail gives me LIFE 🙌😂 (and of course - great video as always ! 🤎)

[felicitycastle]

Great video! The firstyear of my sons life was the worst year of my 13 year relationship. I felt like my husband didn't help enough but then whenever he tried I'd be taking over cause he was "doing it wrong". 3 weeks in with number two and I've learned my lesson to let my husband do things his way and not sweat the small stuff.

[phwar]

I'm 31 weeks pregnant and this is something that I know I will struggle with. These tips are greatly appreciated! I know it will take a lot of self training to let him do things his own way to bond with the baby and to be patient when he comes home from a full days work.

[Ellesflowers]

Everything is on point!
Thank you so much, I really needed to hear it.
Sometimes it’s hard, but in the end putting those words into practice will make our life easier.

[jenniferstuart]

Great video! Thanks for making one on this subject. The point about you making dinner instead of your husband after he gets home from work is a really good one! I want to try that out even though I hate cooking haha

[laxel]

WOW!! Great marraige advice and parentiong advice!! God bless your family!! This is awesome info! 🥰

[clairemielke]

Oh emm geee yes mama. So spot on! Thank you! Also the book is great! I’m listening to the audio for the second time. 😘

[bethanybelle]

This is such a good idea for a video!! I'm 22 weeks and mentally taking notes! My husband and I have the same dynamic of him loving cooking and taking all the responsibility for dinners and I've felt nervous of what that's going to look like when baby comes along - he won't get much time with the baby if he has to come home from work and cook. Maybe I'll follow your lead and start cooking myself (as I'm writing this I'm thinking noooo I hate cooking!!) but maybe it will be a good mental break from looking after a baby all day! Thanks for the great content and honest advise, you're seriously awesome!!

[momsmushroomsjodyfoster]

I can’t even tell you how much it’s helped me listening to your video all the way to the end. I came here today because I don’t want to hate my husband. I actually love him deeply. But I struggle to show him the respect he needs when I’m angry over the kids. We don’t stop being parents when our kids are adults. Sometimes it’s even harder and more complicated.

[michaelabultman]

Such an important video! My partner and I ran into so many of these issues when they went back to work after the baby leave. We definitely had a time of adjustment and a time of things being not so perfect for a while. Having patience and communicating is so important, especially if you're dealing with any PD. There are many learning curbs in parenthood and the transformation of partners going from just partners to parents together does not happen the moment the baby is born. It's a constant shifting and changing and it can be uncomfortable but things get better and both parents learn to adjust. Thanks for addressing this topic! Related to every point you made

[jessica_chanel]

Thanks I’m not a mom yet but love that you’re speaking on topics that most don’t bring up! 😊

[piranyam]

Ok. Now we need the version of both parents working and having to put the baby in the care of others...

[dizzlecookie]

I had to leave some subreddits because of how many ladies were complaining about their husbands, like constantly. It gets into your head to hear that all the time and I don't think all those men were that bad! Maybe some of them. Had to cut out the baby advice groups cus it was making me resent my husband who did nothing wrong.