Why You Hate Your Husband After Having a Baby + How to Cope

Do you feel like your marriage is struggling because you just had a baby?You may even have feelings of hatred or resentment towards your husband. You're not alone! Bringing a baby into the world is an amazing gift, but it comes with its challenges. Whether you're a stay at home mom or a working mother, kids put a lot of stress on a relationship.

In this video I'll discuss why the first year with a baby can be the hardest on a marriage and share tips on keeping your marriage strong with a new baby.

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[nicolevose]

After I gave birth, I really appreciated my husband.

He was super supportive while I was pregnant. Morning sickness is caused by having an empty stomach, so he would set an alarm to wake up in the middle of the night to prepare me some food, to make sure that I always had a full belly. I experienced itchiness on my abdominal skin, so he would rub anti-itch lotion on my tummy.

After I popped out the kid, hubby absolutely bore his fair share of the burden when it came to taking care of the baby.

[ritalee]

Marriage is not easy -_- still trying to get used to living with someone who does not live or think the same like I do + a toddler now, its challenging. It requires a lot of mental work as well

[DeMarcusTaylor-he]

as a man a genuine question i have is at what point is it just hormones and how much am i supposed to just tolerate and let slide due to hormones feel like im genuinely loosing my mind

[davidjd]

I also think woman expect more and see things different, one person thinks something needs to be one way while the other feels whatever it is, is already fine. When In reality its a clash of perspective.

[geofftayner]

Thanks for the video, seems like good advice. At the 7 month mark. Did not think it was going to be this hard.

[felixwongso]

can feel the stress in your voice hope u staying strong and positive

[whiteboi]

Should be on the top of YouTube search list for this

[lexie]

Thank you for this good quality video❤

[lionessqueen]

I'm so frustrated, out baby is 7 months old and I feel so alone.

Baby is so colicky with hubby so I'm left working full time, parenting and doing all the housework. I'm hoping it gets better as a routine sets in but i feel he is slipping away but don't know if he actually is or if I'm just being paranoid.

[lexie]

It does make me feel bette Reuben I heard you say things do get better as we go

[UnderTheSameSun]

And thats reason 99 why I dont want to have a baby. I love my relationship with my husband, and dont want a baby to tank it.
"The first year with baby is supposed to be a wonderful time" not from what I hear... People sound miserable.

[Embracemydestiny]

Girl I can relate to the "how can you not see what needs to be done??" Lol
I've tried the specific example thing but it's about half and half. Either it's like ok when I feel like it or not today. Lol.
Then I get mad that I asked for a specific thing and he said no so I just say fine I'll do it myself. And when he lets me then I get even more pissed off lol.
I'm hoping to win the lottery so I can just stay at home with the baby lolol.

[jandmycat]

Yeah same here we hardly are intimate (like once a month or 2 months and that's from me asking so much) but I'm done asking her repeatedly. Nor does she like being touched. I understand it's hormones but at what point can the hormone excuse last and we simply just except it???