I USED TO HATE MY HUSBAND | GAY COUPLE | PJ & THOMAS

Hey y’all,

It’s story time, and we’re spilling ALL the tea. Way back when, PJ actually used to despise Thomas, and in this video we tell you why. It’s a trip down memory lane, if you will.

Let us know in the comments below what you want to see next, and we hope you enjoy the video as much as we did making it!

As ever,
PJ & Thomas

APPAREL

We're PJ and Thomas, husbands living in a small southern town in Tennessee. We have a passion for restoring old houses and interior design, and in our free time you'll find us eating pizza and watching movies, drinking wine, and saying "y'all" like it's our job. We're so happy you stopped by, where we focus on topics like marriage, design, LGBTQIA+ issues, and every day life. Won't you stay a while?

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[youneedtostudy]

‘i loved you since i was like 15’ damnn yall so cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[Greenhilltales]

The Lesson I've learnt from today's video is, treat your partner with love and respect because there's someone out there who is praying for someone as amazing as them, and God can take them from you and give to the person who truly deserves them and will cherish and love them. PJ and Thomas, your videos puts a smile on my face every time. Keep rocking.

[scifresjeffrey]

Omg. Growing up gay in a small town, literally all the gays know each other or at least know of each other!

[frostiesarah]

How could you hate Thomas he’s just so cute and that line “I’ve loved you since I was 15”! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[JPFerraccio]

The fear of rejection can really make you think you are angry or even hate someone, when really you just want love. Glad you guys got over your drama!

[paleobc]

“I have PJ McKay’s phone number” “I’ve been in love with you since I was like 15” LMAO I’m definitely like Thomas in this situation since I’ve been obsessing over the same guy for about a year now

[zmcfall]

PJ you are totally rocking the ‘80s version of yourself. Love the stache and the faded denim.

[ScottzTotz]

my boyfriend of 3 years just left me recently. Really hard since we spent almost all of college together on the same campus. Very hard for me to get by right now. This video made me smile and gave me some hope. thank you two for sharing <3

[LaughOLott]

Haha this was great! It’s nice to hear that everything wasn’t all cupcakes and rainbows the entire journey!

[Drew_co]

Me and my boyfriend love watching your vids! Pls keep them coming we love you guys

[WendyInMD]

You guys are so charming individually. Together, you seem so “real” and warm and inviting. I sometimes see one of you look at the other and smile big, and I’d swear you still have a crush on your husband. It’s beautiful to witness.💕

[stevvfallyear]

You are an amazing couple When you look to each other your eyes start to get shiny and you smile automatically, that is love

[darrylb]

I'm having a hard time imagining not Loving Thomas. All together now; "it was a different time".

[bastondm-j]

PJ, Thomas sensed the inevitable love... Beautiful! You guys are so adorable.

[fightorflight]

Fun backstory! 😆 Also, I like the mustache. It's nice to think that the person you end up with is one you wouldn't have liked to begin with.

[fredricweber]

Thomas, you little scamp! I think this was so funny. Somehow this was meant to be, granted PJ's relationship was on the skids, thankfully he left the toxic relationship and you guys are making a good life together. My husband and I met at a gay nightclub I owned. I had been secretly dating a Judge who was divorced, but closeted and I was a high profile Designer and tired of the secrecy. Making a long story short, My husband, Carl who is gorgeous, challenged me to a darts game and said I had to go out with him if he won...we've been together for 20 years. Through the thick and thin, we're crazy in love.

[nicholasbaer]

I love the facial hair PJ! You guys are so adorable and inspirational!

[maxblack]

My god, you two give me hope of actually finding a husband someday. Love the channel, never stop.

[mlnfxov]

Both of you are refreshingly authentic and don’t try to make everything seem ‘perfect’. I have quietly followed you (makes me sound like a private detective 😉) for over a year now and I just love you both individually and as a loving, committed couple. 💛💛💛

[timcarlos]

I realize that we only see/hear what u two decide to expose to the public and that all relationships have highs & lows, HOWEVER, the way that u tell ur stories always have a "moral to the story" and provide guide posts for other people (whether gay or straight) to use as their touchstones for healthy resolutions in their own lives (man, that's a long sentence). Thank u for ur insights for us all. Much respect. ❤️