The worst thing a wife can say to her husband. #rabbi #shorts #relationship #relationshipadvice

[livingformessiah]

I’m blessed. My wife treats me like I’m the best thing that has ever happened to her. It makes me want to love on her and make sure that she is loved everyday. She gives me the respect that I need and I lift her up on the pedestal that I built for her. 31 years in and we are still on our honeymoon

[OneNationUnderGod.]

There's a big difference between being needed and being appreciated.

[AndieJ]

My experience is that when you say that to your husband it’s because he ignores your request, or even you begging for his assistance. It’s not because he isn’t doing something right. It’s because he’s not doing it at all.

[DigDeeperPodcast]

Love, respect, support, praise and appreciation goes both ways. :)

[tinamoore]

“Thank you honey, I really appreciate you “. Hasn’t failed either one of us in 30 years.

[angelabender]

I have been a widow for 13 years and the thing I love remembering about us, was me telling my beloved, after he did small fixings or solved a minor problem:
“ What would I do without you?”
I am sure now that that pleased him just as much as being told that I loved him 😍

[lauraschmidt]

I’ve tried that, my husband does the absolute bare minimum in every aspect of daily life. I’ll say thank you, I appreciate it. ANY time he does anything other than sit on FB on drink beer after work, or golf with friends. You know what that’s gotten me? Exactly nothing more and nothing less. I’ve also begged for help, and bitched. I’ll get maybe a week and that’s it. I get anxiety attacks from all the stress and still… nothing. Some people are just selfish

[teresah.]

What he's saying is very true but also there are some husbands after years of being married just doesn't help out or take her for granted, that's when she says "never mind I'll do it myself".

[ghoo]

My husband made endless cups of tea, washed dishes, took out household rubbish, fed the dogs, and was a great house painter. He hated cooking, and grocery shopping but if i was sick or not at home he would give it his best shot. I loved his puns and jokes. Miss you every day James❤

[annettefournier]

Praise and appreciation goes both ways.

[karenlavigne]

Kindness to each other is what the world needs. I really just want see Americans caring about each other again. That’s what I miss the most about my country.

[sylviaivie]

One of the worst things my Husband said to me was..."in a minute." 16 months later the thing i needed done was still not done.

[pnichols]

I'm glad I'm secure enough with myself that I don't need others to make me feel good about myself.

[inkdemonmclemore]

This is very true. Unless you have a husband that doesn't value or appreciate anything from his wife. Women validate your men's feelings and yes, be thankful for him. But if you're giving your all, and he's giving nothing, it's time for a change. Speaking from present personal experience.

[marythompson]

I have said that to my husband many times, but it was said out of frustration because I have asked him many times to help me with something but he never did. So what else can I say but " never mind I'll do it my self ". When he does this I feel like I'm having to beg and I shouldn't have to bet for help from my husband.

[Abutado]

This is the most truthful and exact description of how I feel as a husband

[vanessamartz]

Didn't appreciate my husband enough earlier in m our marriage. Then I made a determination to notice all his efforts and thank years of bliss.

[AnnaSchneider]

Yes, and what about husbands who do not want to do nothing? I heard once "I want you because I know I've not to be concerned cause you do everything". I laught a lot and said "bye" to him.

[charlesmiller]

Anything the husband offers accept it graciously. What a concept.

[ruthannabauer]

AMEN! My precious, wise Mama taught me this & it was one of the best pieces of advice she could have given me in how to honor, love, encourage & build up my husband.❤