Narcissistic parents don’t “verbally knock” ✊🏻

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[uhtbero]

verbal knocking creates a safe zone for the other person to decline the check in or participate! thank you for teaching us about this skill!!

[sage]

This is a great concept because a person who has been around narcissists might - with no bad intent - ask an intrusive question or offer an intrusive opinion because in narcissistic land, rudeness was so common that it seemed normal.

[littletalkslove]

You are such a freaking rockstar of mental health. You are wonderful🎉

[mister_oj_zen]

I knew I wasn't crazy for doing that.

[Myllkka]

So awesome and essential to have a name for this 💚✔️ makes me feel more confident in not responding questions I don't want to

[Goldenheart]

This is an excellent concept that I never heard of before, but will definitely start to utilize especially with my children. 💛 Thank you Jerry.✨

[godsrichgirlsllc]

And sometimes I realize I didn’t verbal knock so I’ll say something on the backend of my question like “ if you are okay sharing” or “only if you feel comfortable”.

[User_]

My family does this!!! I’m an extremely private person and I just don’t know how to respond so I usually end up becoming very defensive and it always blows up and I end up being the villain... How in the world can you respond to these types of people?