The Relationship Between Limerence & Loneliness | Limerence Explained

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In this video, I talk about the relationship between limerence and loneliness.

Have you experienced limerence in your life? what consequences did you experience as a result?

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[roshalllambert]

Thais has the best content on Limerence!!

[spiderlime]

my life would have been so much better if this information was available when i was a younger man

[anothercat]

Yes, this limerence happens a lot when we are breadcrumbed by intermittent textmessages. We get addicted by intermittent reinforcement.

[michaelkeller]

I'm a very limerent person, I always fall for people this way. In fact I'm going through it now with someone and it's torture.

[TamakiCherry]

I think you should do a video about what love is and how it is built. Because with this video I realized, I never took the time to get to know past partners or I would enter relationships even though I didn’t want it, with the idea in the back of my mind of “it’ll grow on me”. I believe I relied on neurochemicals and fantasies to bond with past partners. And from your beginning excerpt about how love is formed. I don’t think I ever did that.

[noname-ofyl]

the video has just began but I’ve experienced limerent obsessions with celebs specifically since I was a little kid. I was a lonely only child always escaping into my fantasy world. I also got bullied for it which caused further loneliness ofc. When I started dating I would become limerent with anyone I was with in the beginning usually. Cant work, cant do anything except fantasize and think about them. It feels so good but also painful. I always say ‘it hurts so good’ bc it provides such euphoria, but then you also realize you’re being insane and you’re in such a very vulnerable position bc of idealizing the person and it’s setting yourself up for interpersonal failure. Im FA and the limerence always ends when I feel Ive ‘secured’ the person. And then I often deactivate. That’s if I even managed to secure the person bc often my overwhelming feelings will cause me to reject them before they reject me or sabotage things in some way to avoid the eventual pain. It’s awful and idg how I can ever be in a healthy relationship. It feels like I cannot love, like I can only experience infatuation/obsession or nothing at all.

[cptsdfree]

Omg that's exactly what it was...this person made me feel "seen." That's what started my limerance.

[sudiptadas]

where you are in limerance represents needs that are unmet in the relationship to yourself.

[theologyofthesoul]

THE INFORMATION IN THIS VIDEO JUST HELPED SAVE MY SANITY and MY FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS! Thank you so much Thais and God Bless you abundantly! 🙏❤‍🔥💯

[taradayle]

Oofff, this hit HOME!! I didnt even know what Limerence was before this video, but man have I been in it for a while now. I think with every new love interest I have had this! Thank you Thais for making me aware!!

[jackjanzen]

Hi Tyese, that was very good. I agree with you. I hope you see this. I’m a DA and I have suffered from limerence. One other thing I have noticed lately for the first time is that I have never been in a relationship while working a regular full time job. It’s like the job becomes my relationship but at the same time it falls short of meeting all my needs. It’s just that I’m so detached from my own feelings that I hardly recognize them at all. Why is my job my adopted relationship?

[susanmackey]

Thais makes sense...I am figuring out things on a much deeper level...get a membership and take the time!

[alirh]

Thank youuuu I hope everybody finds the path of healing

[lifecoachingtoronto]

I'm happy Thais pointed out that it's normal to feel limerence as a securely attached person in a secure way of course :)

[suzsiz]

Im limerenting on my Chiropractor😂 pathetic. Finally someone who is looking out for me.

[lauriedonnelly]

Wow first to comment! Just learned what limerence is! Yikes, I resonate so much with this.

[radiantrain]

You look gorgeous, Thais! Your content has helped me so much. Thankyou! ❤️

[Nicole]

Thank you so much for sharing this video I feel so understood. This video made me emotional I have just abandoned myself completely.

[anthonyszymon]

i have been in a very rocky marriage and all i tried to make sure the marriage worked, never worked tried everything but to no avail, we got seperated last year, sadly i still love her and i dont know what to do.

[georgieeve]

Is it limerence when people say they "fell in love at first sight?" And can someone have a healthy/non-limerent relationship with someone, but become limerent post breakup? Or is that just typical anxious obsession due to abandonment trauma and unmet needs? :) ♡