How to forgive a cheater and should I forgive a cheater?

How to forgive a cheater and should I forgive a cheater?

Forgiving a partner after infidelity can be extremely hard. But can your relationship survive cheating. Maybe it can but maybe it can’t. That all depends on the cheater. The person who’s unfaithful needs to commit to change, but can they? Will they? Cheating cause a lot of emotional and even psychological damage to their partners. People are often confused about how to handle infidelity after trust is broken. Cheaters often stress the need to feel trusted again. Cheaters often prioritize restoring the feeling of being trusted over their partners healing. This is not fair. Cheaters often gaslight their partners into taking the blame for their infidelity. Don’t let this happen to you. If someone cheats on you make them own it.

[KevHick]

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[lorismalls]

Well explained. It’s crazy, because I never looked at it from that viewpoint. You’re right the one who gets cheated on is often the one who carries the burden of doing the emotional & mental work.

[Rosariaissa]

You can't get over a cheater who hasn't gotten over cheating.!!😌

[onevenus]

This video is applicable on more than one level. The word 'cheater' can be substituted with 'abuser, offender, ' etc. People in non romantic relationships can suffer at the hands of co workers, family members, or fake friends.
Thanks again Kev for your timely content 👍

[vashtikelly]

I forgive you but I don't want to be a part of your life anymore.... you will know this up front..

[SelfLovewithAT]

🗣️You better preach and teach Professor Kev‼️👏🏾👏🏾

[vikki]

Thank you for this video and taking the pressure off the victim of a cheater to "forgive" the bad behaviour without any dedication to change from the cheater! ❤

[denised]

I took my ex back after he cheated. He did things to make it seem like he was trying to gain my trust back but was actually still cheating with multiple women even while I was pregnant. He took off when I was 5 months pregnant and I let him back in after I gave birth to our baby. Sure enough he cheated again only 2 months later my car was keyed, tires were slashed on top of me having postpartum depression. I put him out and left for good. It’s been a year now and I still haven’t recovered.

[chanellemckinney]

This definitely can be applied through other things in life as well this was 🔥🔥🔥💪🏾thank you kev

[sonyasj]

Excellent vid! Not just relevant information for cheating/cheaters, but for anyone who has done someone wrong ⭐💕👍

[Reshme]

Let me see....
No, I can't
Bye.

[susanstewart]

Mine husband was a pig and loved to watch lots of really gross type porn and get on live chats and talk nasty to women online or men, who knows what they were. He was a selfish man that felt he was entitled to do what ever he felt like doing. No moral compass, just a dick to guide him with his immoral ways.

[anonymous]

Kev. You always give such sound advice. Have you ever discussed your professional training or credentials in a video? Are you a licensed therapist?

[insaneapples]

For me its a Sophie's choice. Unless it was already an abusive relationship, something real dies. You lose the relationship forever, with a black eye or you get back a broken one where guilt and mistrust will likely ruin it forever.

[blexyblend]

It's so weird coz this just happened to me yesterday. I forgave the nigga and don't know whether I did the right thing or not

[MT-yxcu]

Hi Kev, the volume is really low. I had to connect my speaker to hear it. Okay, now I will finish watching the video 😂

[tywanbrown]

Hey Kev, Great video. I haven't been in the comments in awhile but i'm still here.

[jayc]

I was listening to TBC today. And i was listening to the guest host Loren talking about Tristan "Cheating" Thompson...and talking about him moving in with Khloe because of inconvenience. She was just speaking out on that he most likely wont change, cause he's a serial cheater...so dont fall for it. And Charlamagne & Envy(2 alleged former cheaters)....they usually try to excuse other cheaters. So when she said that, they was rooting for Tristan...then proceeded to gaslight her...then flip it on her being single and lonely...thats why she seem like she dont want them together. I was like Mannn.

Like Any Real Man Knows how Tristan gets down. He cheated NUMEROUS TIMES. So how is Not giving him Another Chance to hurt and cheat on you a problem?? SMDH! 🤦‍♂️

[obailey]

Why is your volume always so low? I always skip because its too hard to hear.

[flpmedia]

Sounds like me and mine are on the correct path. When i found out i shot her more love and understanding. it blew her mind she thought i was going to get wild but i didnt now we are in a better place it still hurts i want to slide dude but i ain't trippin like that. good Work 👍🏾