Why Should I Forgive After An Affair?

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[confidentlyaware]

This man said “un forgiveness destroys the relationship” it’s the cheating, selfishness, lying & betrayal that destroys it.

[janae]

And forgiving doesn't mean you have to stay 💯

[gisselgreene]

My ex-husband cheated on me I found out when I was pregnant with my third child. It was hard! I was on an emotional roller coaster. I filed for a divorce shortly after I give birth. I suffered from postpartum depression and then found out this was a three years affair. Love yourselves enough to walk away.💯 Cheating is emotional abuse there's no way you can truly love someone to hurt them so badly. Cheaters are selfish individuals. Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to stay. Sometimes, you have to disconnect from the person to stop the pain and find peace.

[pamelawilliams]

I forgave him, packed his bags and said goodbye. I never looked back and I never blamed myself.

[liss]

Tupac once said "Just because you lost me as a friend doesn't mean you gained me as an enemy. I still wanna see you eat, just not at my table."
So forgive but don't forget, learn from it and don't look back until you find peace.

[almamia]

Guys and gals, if someone cheats, they had time to think about it, it was planned...when you catch them....run and dont look back....love yourself and find someone that truly loves you....

[Serinity_Bliss]

I'm working through this mess now, there is nothing like getting your heart ripped out by the one who supposedly loves you more than anything or anyone else in the world

[jabe]

I divorced my ex wife. You can forgive her, but love yourself enough to know that you deserve better. Luckily, we didnt have kids together. But choosing to divorce is more difficult when children are going to be affected.

[melissacampbell]

You must be honest with yourself and truly heal in order for a relationship to truly work. Forgive or you will stay broken. I never though I could heal but I did with Gods help. If you allow God into your life, ANYTHING is possible!

[bigananikagiso]

I can tell from the comments that people have forgotten who God is, that He's the restorer, He makes things new but I do get where the hurt is coming from and how we would be hurt even more to become vulnerable again. It sucks

[trythinkingforachange]

Unless you walk in someone else's shoes, you have no idea.

[yolandabrook]

It's hard to forgive someone who never ask for forgiveness

[luispesina]

Cheating is painful, I once said if I would be betrayed I would never stay in the relationship. I was betrayed and still stayed with my partner of 19 years but found out she did it again. Ive been seperated for three months and not planning to get back with her since she thinks that I will forgive her again. Once a serial cheater always a serial cheater.

[ericeandco]

Never forgive an affair. It’s not only about the affair. It’s about lying, deceit and selfishness day after day. You can never have trust again under those circumstances. It’s just time to move on. Find someone trustworthy who wants and deserves you.

[darnellhines]

I've been married for 30 years and we established this one rule 32 years ago, and that rule is no friendships with the opposite sex no female friendships for me and no male friends for her. Because when you start giving any kind of one on one time and intimacy to someone outside of your marriage you start down the road to divorce. People need to understand the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. Loving someone means making sacrifices for them and being selfless for them. Being in love with someone requires no sacrifices and is fueled by pure selfishness because it's all about how the other person makes you feel. Fellas never give another woman your wife's time and intimacy. Ladies never give another man your husband's time and intimacy.

[RackTheMilesWelding]

Absolutely DO NOT stay with that person. Have some dignity for a change.

[shay]

I forgave, but I sure as hell didn’t take him back.

[christinehartfield]

Cheating is a deal breaker. It hurts so many

[tray-oqnj]

I'll never understand how someone can tell you they know how much they have hurt you and how much they are ashamed, how much they love you but on the flip side of the coin they continue to do that which causes the most pain.

[pittleague]

Forgiving is hard, It’s different when she not only had an affair but she hit you with blatant disrespect almost rubbing it in your face over the years but she knew you had no proof. They get bold and cocky with it.