Dr. Ramani Explains 4 Things to NEVER Say to a Narcissist

Listen as Dr. Ramani explains 4 things you should never say to a narcissist...

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[allenone]

The only thing u can say to a narcissist is goodbye.

[NarcSurvivor]

Never share with them your success, achievements, goals, dreams, ambitions, secrets, fantasies. They will find a way to sabotage it, discredit you or make you feel bad about it.

[Charlotte]

Never share anything private with them as they will use it against you.

[MossshadowWarriors]

No one ever mentions how incredibly boring narcissists are. They never stop talking about themselves and they are never, ever as interesting as they think they are.

[akazinsomniac]

Never show that your bothered by the things they do because they will do it more.

[jennifermerva]

The forgiveness is for you to forgive yourself for putting up with their crap and abuse. Forgive yourself and walk away.

[kevinhanley]

They can't see their own faults. The more you avoid them, the better you'll feel.

[Jeanne]

Stick to the weather and share nothing. Drives them crazy.

[Dr.Dark]

If you truly want to keep your distance (if you can), never say anything to a narcissist. Period.

[pinkmeadows]

Narcissists look at life as a game and people as chess/checkers pieces.

[LetsBeHealthy_]

The only way to defeat a narcissist is to leave them and never look back.

[YoanGabriele]

"Don't give away your power, by telling them you see it. Seeing it is the power!"

[janislonsdaleleader]

Narcissists weaponize everything you tell them and then use it against you. It's akin to handing them the knife they'll stab you with. They're not as good at reading other people as we may think. They're not mind-readers and they're not self aware: they lack introspection. What you don't tell them is powerful. The pleasure in calling them out is fleeting at best and the power you hold by saying nothing is worth far more to you.

[karenrenner]

He won't even ask for forgiveness. He's done nothing wrong

[LibraryBP]

Once you get to the point where you don't care about the fact that the narcissist NEVER cared, then you are healed.

[mrvocal]

I hope that if youre reading this, that you are ok. It's very difficult after a relationship with a narcissist. The recovery will be challenging. Be kind to and patient with yourself. It's a marathon, not a sprint. Love to all of the survivors <3

[MikeRoper]

Don’t teach them how to push your buttons. If they know where your buttons are, they will push them.

[InvisibleWarrior]

If you have to be around narcissists (not being around them highly preferred); be boring and stay on the surface with “safe”, shallow topics like the weather and food. They don’t need to know your business and you don’t want to know theirs. DISENGAGEMENT is the key thought to remember. They are always looking to hook you in emotionally.

[mommaboombam]

You cant reason with delusional thinking. BINGO, !Thank you Dr Ramani ❤

[Heather-xzfk]

I told my self- centered sister that I am living my best life and am happier than I have ever been. She is horrified that I am happy. It’s hard for her. She thinks I don’t deserve happiness. She does but not me. The jealousy of these people….whew.