Encouragement During No Contact

He provides encouragement during no contact so that you have the best chance of getting your ex back as possible.

It's difficult to be out of contact with your ex, especially when you feel that you are losing them after a breakup.

Coach Lee explains that if you remain in no contact, you allow them to miss you, wonder about you, and recognize that they don't want the breakup.

He also asks what you could gain from contacting them. Will your ex suddenly remember you're alive?

They haven't forgotten about you and no amount of talking with them is going to change anything. It's just going to show them that you are trying to force yourself back into their life when they have said they do not want you there at the moment.

Being in no contact while trying to get an ex back is difficult, but Coach Lee asks if you are willing to do something difficult to get your ex back. Most likely, you'll say yes.

Well here it is.

Even though it's difficult, show your ex that you will bow out of his/her life if you are asked. Show your ex that you might hurt from the breakup but that you will move on, live life to the fullest, and that great things are in store for your future.

[MsxTrinity]

I love your videos Coach Lee. Your advice is so valuable, insightful and has changed my mindset when it comes to breakups. I know I won't get another chance with my ex because he gave me so many chances before but I didn't know this information then. I had to break no contact with him because I needed a reference for a job offer I got in mid May, but I never talked about the relationship or break up so I don't know if that is good or bad. I know better next time when I get into a new relationship in the future. I don't blame myself for the mistakes I have made because he was my first boyfriend. I'll be extremely lucky if he comes back to me, even if I didn't beg or plead last time, I won't be waiting on him though.

[andrewcruz]

*finished No cantact and finally got my shit together, we finally met up after 1 month and she said "I really miss you and everything about you " . Guys I'm fucking crying tears of joy .

[imhonestlyfreeanonymous]

Man I feel like a straight bitch!😂😂😂 I cant believe I let someone have this much power over me. Im 40 days into no contact. I want her back but something is changing inside me. Im starting to feel powerful. I feel like I got some control back. Im tired of rolling the dice bro. Theres too many girls on this planet to want one that dont want me. Love should not be this hard.

[djtube]

The most important thing I realized when she asked for time apart was that if someone doesn’t want you in your life, than you are better off without them. I know it is hard and it hurts so bad when someone you love says they want a break, but you will grow even stronger because of it. If you are here reading this right now, you are a really good person, and if they don’t want you in their life, then it is their loss. We all deserve someone who loves us and wants to be with us. But they are not that person, so for now you must move on and choose to love yourself because you are amazing.

[Derek-rhmi]

Stay strong everyone. We are in this together!

[YankeeBlueFalcon]

Strong people realize they never had control. - Gold. Thank you Coach.

[jasonmd]

“When someone wants you out of their life, you must back away and give them that”
OUCH!

You’re an amazing guy, coach Lee!

[GregStevens]

Out of the about 50 no contact related videos I've seen in the last few days, this is the best! You express it all clearly and flawlessly. Thank you!

[amymitchell]

Today is a very tough day for me. I’m listening to this video and I’m all in my emotions. Between Coach Lee and the Almighty above that’s where I’m drawing my strength from.

[joshcurtis]

no contact is an action. it is louder than any words you say

[betherealdeal]

Don’t chase be chased
Know your value
If you don’t / work on that

[keyumi]

Currently on day 16 no contact. I hope he’ll miss me someday. I was feeling okay for that last 2 weeks but since yesterday I’ve been thinking about him a lot again. Watching your videos calms me down. Because I know there is nothing I could do more at this very moment than to just stay away from him.

[evelyncastillo]

I tried no contact hahaha my ex didn’t even last 4 days he came to my house to talk n see me was worried I wasn’t answering him. He missed me like crazy n we are back 😎❤️❤️

[RealCoachLee]

Very often, yes. If your relationship was good, there was a connection, and you didn’t make the breakup too awkward for your ex.

[baggergurl]

I’m not gonna lie it’s been 10 months since my ex broke things off with me and I’ll admit I’ve even had my moments of weakness. I either pull out my journal and write down what I’m feeling or come on YouTube and listen to Coach Lee videos.

[HK-qfsl]

I was in tears before I heard the truth bombs in this clip. The swing between mental strength and weakness is exhausting. Thank-you for reminding me of the bigger picture.

[Ckyt]

Day 80 of NC. I don't cry, I can eat, I don't smoke anymore like the first weeks, but still can't stop thinking about him.

[loisuyin]

Around 3 months plus with fully no contact. Will do my best and stay firm not to break the no contact.

[isstrongmanISM]

I followed his advice and it worked. I swear to God. she came back after 4 months but I had already moved on and wasn't interested, she wasn't worth it why would I want to be with someone who didn't want me in the first place. honestly the pain is gonna worth it and will teach you

[welovee]

The only way I’ve been able to get through NC is watching these videos. I’d made it 5 days then caved. Wished I hadn’t. Now I’m one day in NC again and every time I get an urge I start rolling through videos until it passes. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼