Your Silence And Absence In No Contact Is POWERFUL #shorts #nocontact #breakups #avoidantattachment

#shorts Your silence and absence in no contact is powerful. Our bonds with the people our strong and unforgettable. When you are silent and someone feels space, your absence is undeniable. They will think about you and wonder about you. It's deeply entrenched in our unconscious. Coach Craig has been talking about this for many years on his main Youtube channel.

[Simouno]

If they can't appreciate your presence, reward them with your absence

[tm_]

The longer you remain silent during “no contact” the easier your separation anxiety becomes, your self-love improves and before you know it, you feel lighter and at peace, and you’ve moved on. 🎉🎉🎉

[maryl]

No contact should be permanent. Them learning they lost a good person isn't going to make them a better person. Leave the past in the past.

[Maeve]

I did this before to overcome a situationship. Several months passed, i became the old cheerful me again and he noticed how different i became.i held no grudges towards him anymore. I came back as more confident, playful and witty. But by the time when he decided he wanted me, i was already over him. And it was good to be strong on your own.

[SylviaOcampo-tuwv]

Guys it works! 2nd time no contact this time it took longer for my avoidant ex 3 months. I almost lost hope. He called me late late at night!!! Repulsively. Ignore him till the next day. Said he misses me. If you were a honestly good person that sure made mistakes but genuinely have good intentions They will miss you!

[tyronejackson]

No contact really works. We reconnected after a few wks. Stay strong people!

[PriyankaPatel-oxnf]

Something I've learned about no contact is that it gets better, they may or may not return, and sometimes they may return but not want a relationship with you, but they will always respect you more than they did before.

[marcycat]

Sometimes space is just the cushion to get permanently accustomed to being without that person.

[matthewgarnier]

1 week of no contact and not begging anymore... My ex reached out. I explained my worth and we're back together. This actually works.

[evangelistCarrington]

I believe we need to worry LESS about whether we are missed or if people are sorry about our absence. Focus on your individual connection with God and allow Him to make you strong enough to not concern yourself with anyone you choose to disconnect from. Move on move strong

[AnnieG-dczp]

No they don't miss you, they miss messing with you! Your confidence makes them want to get close to you so they can break you, I saw this happen with a good friend of mine when her ex husband came back. They reconnected/remarried and a couple of years later he dragged her back down and left her for another woman....history repeats itself.

[bluestorm]

This only works if the person cares about you in the first place. If someone doesn't care about you they're not going to care if you're gone.

[alethayoung]

Mr. Craig my silence and no contact means I'm done and it's over. I'm not letting the other person back into my life. When a relationship gets to a point where it needs to heal and grow without communication that's a sign of no return. Unless it's a family member then yes change, space and growth may be needed for wombs to heal. For me a relationship is over at this point and I don't want nothing else to do with that person. From my experience I have realized when you learn your worth that pain I had to endure helped me to grow with confidence in myself to move on in a whole new direction without looking back. They might be a good person but not for me and vise versa only thing he will see after time is my strength to close that chapter....

[cathywelch]

I Let Go not only for my sake but for his too. I want to be happy and love again. I hope the same for him. He tried to keep in contact but I refused. Forgiveness yes...access to me denied.

[goldenlifelove]

I refuse to believe he cares. He's silent too😃 I'm over here confused, crying, sad & trying to start healing. He's probably over there happy AF & moved on with the next woman.

[barbiedoll]

I think is hurting meee, instead of hurting him... his absence is unbearable

[heavenlyq]

Unless they're emotionally unavailable. Then they have no isssue ghosting and walking away and onto the next one

[secretpal]

It’s hard to accept that someone I love so deeply doesn’t care about me anymore. It’s painful.

[angelabender]

Paradoxically we forget those who drove us insane but we always remember those who loved us because they are immortal in our minds 😮

[psalms]

Wow, the pain can't be ignored.. This is powerful