Your Ex's Perspective During No Contact

"Your Ex's Perspective During No Contact: Unlock the Mystery"

Have you ever wondered what goes through your ex's mind during the silent echoes of the no-contact period? Coach Lee's latest video, "Your Ex's Perspective During No Contact," dives deep into the untold thoughts and emotions your ex experiences when you step back and cut off communication via the no contact rule after a breakup.

In this informative video, we take you on a journey into the mind of the one who walked away, shedding light on their doubts, regrets, and realizations during the silence that follows.

Through expert insights, psychological analysis, and real-life testimonies, we explore the complexities of separation, the process of self-reflection, and the profound impact of absence on the heart and mind.

Whether they're missing you, feeling relieved, or somewhere in between, you'll gain a basic understanding of what your ex is likely going through.

In many ways, Coach Lee explains the standpoint of the dumper.

This video is not just about the silence; it's about the loud thoughts that come with it, the growth that occurs in the shadows, and the potential roads back to reconciliation or moving forward with strength and clarity.

"Your Ex's Perspective During No Contact" is a tool to help you navigate the choppy waters of post-breakup emotions, offering perspective, peace, and a path towards healing.

Whether you're considering reinstating contact or seeking closure, this video promises insights that could change the way you view your past relationship and the steps you take next.

Tune in to Coach Lee and uncover the silent words and unspoken feelings of your ex. It's time to understand the other side of the story, only on our channel.

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[brandongarza]

I was once hurting over my ex-gf… I once had a heartache that I would not wish to my worst enemy. To whomever reads this, I promise things get better. Be true to yourself. Someone better will come into your life and fill that void. God is great!

[seowweetang]

This is my personal experience and it's happening now. Im offering the perspective as a dumper. Im the one who walked away. We were in no contact for 6 months and there's never a single day I didn't think about her. What Coach Lee mentioned in previous videos are all true. Fading bias effect is true as at first, it was all anger. Then as time passes, I swung to missing her and recall only the positive things about her. It was the time when I mentally let her go that I relised I truly love her.

I made contact. So now we are working on ourselves and fixing the relationship. Communication is so much better and we are seeing each other almost everyday now. It's still not a done deal but we are working on it.

So to anyone that was dumped, I can tell you there is always hope. Hang in there, be strong and level up. But also bear in mind that you're going to be ok even if they don't come back.

[garden]

I did the unthinkable. Somehow managed to not text her on her birthday. Took control of my emotions. Its a silly thing to be proud of, but its a big step.

[alexanderjessup]

When my ex left, I dreamed of having my own NC success story. I wished so badly that she would come back, and now I'm really glad she never did, because I found someone so much better in every way.

[coltrain]

Here's the trick.... Respect yourself, and prioritize your well being.

[abk]

Day 66 and he contacted me. No contact works! It’s so difficult but Thanks coach Lee! I am listening to your videos all the time which made me stronger and survived no contact. I will reply to him but will be reserved like you told us to. I will not ignore him. May be this works. Wish me luck !

[samanthareilly]

The problem is, when that person Is a commitment phobe or avoidant, anything you do that shows you want to be close to them, anything that you do that shows you feel a connection to them, anything that you do to show or share emotion will make them loose attraction for you. You don't have to do anything but show feelings for them and they're out like a light switch going off.

[benefactorean]

3 months away from her. Success story. 1 month and a half NC kinda ( she dumped me), I deleted her number, she reached out more and more as time went by, when she came to pick up her things she looked at me and asked me to $@## her. I healed so much that she was crying and I was happy all the time. She kept suffering while NC I was healing. When she reached out I kept convo short it was mainly about her stuff. She picked up her stuff but left stuff behind hahaha.

Be your own source of happiness and people will come, depend on them for happiness and they will run. Keep yourself busy doing things you love and less time with them and you will never depend on anyone emotionally to make you happy and you will not be needy.

[jesslee]

I’ve been watching coach lee since the separation especially during my moments of weakness and I remained true to the advice. Today I received the message of “I want us to try again”… so here I am watching coach lee again bc I’m staying true to myself this time.

[johnsonwithat]

I was dumped, and I still miss her like crazy. However, no contact is getting easier by the week. Telling yourself things like, "As long as she's happy" goes a long way, and puts you on a moral high ground so you feel better.

Its been 4 months, and she's contacted me once. There has also been chatter about me from her friends. And I was randomly invited to a party by one of her good guy friends.

So I'm not convinced she's completely moved on, however I have to convince myself that she has so I don't give myself false hope.

I hope she's happy.

[allaboutlife]

I’m 2 years strong 💪🏽 guess no contact doesn’t work🤷🏽‍♂️ once a person decides to move on it’s because they no longer want you. Your purpose has already been served and in their minds they are looking for what you don’t have… and that is a different experience that makes them feel limerence. A spark that they had with you before but it wore out. People like this typically are serial daters. So if a person walks away from you and does not reach out within a few weeks/ months. They won’t regardless if you are using no contact. In fact they will have permanent relief because there’s no reason to explain themselves.

[lunkerzinc.]

I did No contact, 2yrs went by, and I’m finally over her. Im back in my solo mind frame, And I’m going to just fly solo. Trust me you don’t want to get back with your x, once that magic is gone, it never comes back. Just be happy being single 👍🏻

[JoMama]

Day 19 NC and i almost feel myself disconnecting from her and now viewing the relationship through the lens of the past. It feels weird and terrifying but also somewhat comforting that I know i will be able to move on no matter what. If she comes back, great, but I may not want her by the time that happens

[duan_meixuan]

My ex thought that I'd accept friendship after the breakup. I pulled that rug right out from under him a month later. It felt good to put my foot down and tell him that friendship isn't enough for me.

We were friends before the relationship, so in his head going back to being friends probably made sense—but I realized that friendship isn't going to work for me.

[Gbb]

Ironically, when in no contact, the dumper realizes their feelings (or not) and the dumpee usually moves on. I still love and care about her, but at this point, I can’t see her being with me forever. At one point I did. But after she broke my heart a 2nd time and has said she thinks we should move on 4 times, I’m finally understanding.

[Gustavo.Antonio]

I’ve followed Coach Lee for some years now and have been on both sides of a breakups in my life, he is super spot on everything he says.

[Fantamazing-J]

1) Relief vs Consequences
2) Longing vs Irritated
3) Chaos vs Control
4) Pursuit vs Defensiveness
5) Emotional vs Rational

[brokencross]

One week into NC after breaking up about 2 weeks ago, these vids help alot. Thank you Coach Lee for keeping it as positive as possible and being so in touch with this topic, so many other 'coaches' spin so much of these same topics in such a negative light and your understanding and eloquence regarding these feelings and situations is a genuine help.
So glad i found this channel, it really does make the hardest moments a little more bearable.

[Bobby]

Thanks Bud. Only 2 weeks in. She made contact. 1 more week. Another contact. I’m playing it cool. I’m getting stronger.

[creativemargie]

You are absolutely correct. You hit it right on the nail, that's exactly what I went through. Gosh Coach Lee you're awesome👌 ❤Thank you for helping me understand my situation. It's going on 3 months for our break up w no contact and he just called me the other day, unfortunately it was for something in the nature of that he needed my advice because I had a good understanding on his situation he decided to call me. He didn't ask how I was doing and I didn't ask how he was doing we kept it simple and we hung up. And I don't think that I even care for us to get back together anymore. I'm beginning to see how I accepted all his flaws and seeing him only for the qualities I liked in him. I guess I loved him unconditionally but seeing how he handled my mistake and broke up, I've lost a lot of that love. Thank you again❣