How Parents Fighting Affects Kids and Teens

If there is tension and fighting between you and your partner, this video will help you understand, in ways you may not have understood before, the effects that has on kids and teens.
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[PandaPanda-jqgh]

My parents fight literally almost everyday and it's so stressful. Most of the time it's my father starting these fights and I've tried talking to him but he says I'm being dramatic and that I shouldn't get involved. I grew up with them always fighting and everytime they do I always end up crying. The saddest thing is how my siblings and I want them to get a divorce because we just can't handle this anymore. I promise myself that when i grow up i will not fight in front of my children.

[theradiatorisonfire]

I don’t even want to go in a relationship because of this

[Jayrospray]

My parents always argue
It's been going on since i was born
I know it's not how relationships work
But I'm just stressed becauss of my parents but they just brush it off and think it's because i'm a "teenager"

[aymen]

I literally freeze when my parents argue, it just terrifies me to the point where my heart starts racing because I don't know how bad it'll get. At the same time I'd say I'm a very observant person, funnily enough my parents' example has taught me what not to do and how I can have a successful relationship in the future. Part of me is still scared of being with someone but the other part is hopeful.

[Mundane_InTheMembrane]

Gonna send this to my mother, wish me luck.

[antha]

My parents fight a lot and I kinda have anger issues. I’m aware of the problem but I don’t know what to do

[samikshaprasai]

my parents literally used to fight every single day when i was little i used to pray while returning home from school wishing they aren’t fighting today. now i have problem with breathing, anxiety problem, lower self esteem, guts problem trust and anger issues i would like to blame my parents for all of these issues that i’m going through

[jmanzew]

I grew up in this type of house, and I'm still paying the price for my parents' (specifically my father's) rage and anger. I tell you what though, it made me tough as nails and determined to set a better example for my kids.

[indigometanoist]

There needs to be more videos like this. Too many individuals like myself were born into that cycle. My trauma went from childhood to young adulthood. I am a 22 year old mother who has always wanted to break this cycle. We have a toddler and 2 month old. My partner (24) and I are always at odds around them. I am terrified because I do not know how I can help my partner understand what we are doing to our daughter's brain, and that our son will be affected as well.. The gravity of us quarreling. I can't explain my stress and worry.

[txnkuuha]

I'm 13, my parents always fight about nothing I ended up getting depression because of them and I cried loudly in my room. Life sucks all the time 😔

[isonamsaha]

I'm 25 & I have grown up midst this.. & now I have major issues and Im not good with relationships.. overtly sensitive and traumatized.

[queerartist]

I sit i my room and grab my headphones so they don’t here me and I don’t have to hear them and listen to sad songs

[TMichelle]

It's definitely made me hyper vigilant, just constantly super aware and my heart will start racing when someone raises their voice at me and i literally can't think straight
Please don't fight in front of your kids, if you're going to act like animals take it to another room or the garage. It really fucks a person up growing up around that

[marissaklomp]

Thank you for raising awareness about this kind of trauma

[bachelorsgrove]

My parents have fought nearly every single day for all my life. Their fights range from petty violent outbursts to full-on threats and objects being either thrown or broken. As a result I have become both emotionally numb to their fights and anxious, with anger issues as well.

[mandyporras]

Very true. I went through it as a child all the way through the day I left my parents house. Now sad but true, I have recreated it for my kid. Twice.

[Itstrashagainsmh]

My parents used to argue a lot
I've seen them hit each other
And scream at the top of their lungs
I've had to pull my step dad off of my mom before
And resolve the conflict
And make sure my younger siblings are okay
I'm 15 (turning 16 this month.)
They still argue from time to time
But I just break down every single time
Even if its something minor
I just feel the same panic I did then
I know for a fact, that one day, if I ever had a kid, I'm never going to argue in front of them
I would never want them to feel this way

[favnged]

With my parents fighting every week, I had to mature fast and take care of my little siblings. They’re okay and healthy, but still traumatized from the fighting. I tell them I love them and it’s okay everyday. I’m planning to get custody over them when I’m 18, since they’re so small and I can’t leave them alone with my parents when I go to collage.

[Egolithz]

I wish my dad would have seen this and actually did something. I'm now 26 and due to the COVID-19 situation, got laid off and am living with them now. At this rate they are likely going to separate, but some of the mental scars I have will stick with me forever. But life isn't perfect and I hope that I can be the better husband/dad in the future.

[Morgandc]

I’m 20 now, my parents have been fighting since I knew how to remember. Mostly my mom instigating fights where they shouldn’t have ended up, with my dad or my older half brother. Both never liked conflict, but wouldn’t back down. As soon as I got larger, stronger, and more aggressive, I would start ending fights with my voice. It eventually made them realize they were wrong for what they did, but still continued on. Nowadays I just get random stages and cycles of depression, anxiety, aggression, sometimes I still hear the screaming too. I can never sleep at night, takes me 3 hours to make sure nothing will happen and then I start to doze off, only to discover my sub conscience is just as malicious as my depression and anxiety, so it stirs up some really taunting and generally scary shit. I suggest to all out there who went through something like what I did, please seek help. It can really mess you up