Manipulative Parent's

Manipulative Parent's

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[Amor_Fati_]

This happens way too often. It’s actually sad.

[samirisen]

Narcissistic behavior and control of guilt to command emotion. Mother in law has raised her last son to replace her husband. Divorce has place the son to feel obligated to tell her everything and care for every need over his wife. She manipulates him and he defends her actions. Always using her age or parent relationship. Siblings use the oldest and smarter do as your told. Good luck with that and many have been divorced due to their narcissistic tendencies. They hurt others and never apologize. They are never at fault and you must except or the spouse becomes cruel. Explain that fix and to save a marriage

[chadburcham]

Amen. This happens to often and is so unhealthy

[chrismcnemar]

I couldn't be controlled when I was a kid, I had no father so the streets called my name. Before I knew it I was surrounded by people that were shooting and killing each other.

[kimberella]

The truth. I wish more older parents could hear this message

[lo-ulnq]

My parents are like this they are unbelievers

[m_d_l_a]

Financial gifts!
Thanks, I couldn’t put my finger on a term for that action.
That was very helpful.

[skellyboi]

Showed my father this and he said he didn't care because "it isn't true"

[LuckyBilly]

This happened to me. When I was 15 all the way until 18 I wasn’t aloud to do ANYTHING on my own and I hated my parent for that and today I refuse to speak to them

[CrystalZander]

AMEN! I learned this years ago. Now, my adult children are growing closer to the Father in heaven. Hallelujah!

[J-yxvs]

Literally my Mom.. and my Dad simps to her. Always giving bad advice, even stuff she has no experience in, or just outright lies. Any thing good (gifts, etc.) they will bring it up later to try and guilt trip. Doesn't work anymore.. I no longer partake for holidays, family or birthday dinners anymore..

[bubblesawesome]

I’m 23 I’m trying to leave but everytime I fall for the same thing. “Oh but all I ever did was care about you what about me don’t you wanna help me I can’t do this with out you. You are so ungrateful” now that I’m taking steps to help myself I’m apparently useless

[jonathanbormann]

Sadly, my father just tried ...again...with my kids for the last time. Zero realttionship and uses gifts as a way to guilt us into doingnwhat he wants. Blowing off my step children (whom Ive raised as my own) in the process. Done.

[junemelodystewart]

At eighteen years old they are on their own to make their own decisions.

[manvimehrotra]

They are not parenting they are just providing

[RoosterBruh]

I am not one for the blame game, and I have no issues with admitting my faults within myself.
All of the wrong I’ve done, have been choices I chose to make.
The problem is, being raised the way I was; I did not realize how I conducted myself was so inappropriate. I had a lady in my life, and she was so, so great to and for me. I treated her like dogsh*t. Never once, did I wake up and think to myself “I’d love to confuse this lady, and leave her with more questions than answers.” However, that is all I ever did. It wasn’t intentional. I emulated my parents, and practiced not what they preached, but what they showed.
I swore I’d never become like my dad or my mom, and at 27 years old I am just like both of them. I hung unto the worst traits I learned, because they are apparently effective. That doesn’t make it right, and that’s not how loved ones treat each other. I know that now, like I said I’m 27 typing this. When I was 8, I thought my parents were perfection. Now I’m unlearning and learning at the same time.
It’s rough, but I got this.
P.s. I will always love my mom and dad, they’re my only parents on this earth. I just want to go a different direction with my life.
Thank you if you read this far, that was a bit of a rant.

[DavidMartinez-zjgk]

My parents are like this. I do not ove them

[matthewdavidlandberg]

What do you do with an adult child that acts like a man-child, steals 💰 & is abusive?

[minkstyle]

What he means is, don't be an oppressor, be a MANIPULATOR

[brandonnazzise]

What about a parent who obsessed with living in the past, who has done nothing to get to know my wife, and has insulted her even though I defend my wife!
Yes, she is homeless. But she has a running vehicle because of me. I have lent her money pulled from my 401k with 0 probability of seeing a return.
She only ever wants to see me never asks about my wife.
I'm at a loss of what to do.