How does a narcissist react when you leave?

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They always had other supplies while u were dealing with them. There is no such thing as a faithful narc. If u are in a relationship with them its an open one whether u know it or not. smh

scottsummersreloaded
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Yup they usually have another one lined up just before they discard you

sgtmuffinbadger
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they don't have emphaty,
no feelings at all !

myrnasharif
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When you leave a narc they become obsessed with the one that got away be careful some become dangerous

shirlspark_stardust
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Narc replaced me while I was cleaning the apartment after filing divorce. Narc had a new supply before divorce papers were signed. Stay Safe.

supercoffeebean
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I've experienced when you lose interest with them. They are so arrogant to think that if you're not interested in them that there's someone else, not their behavior

JCnordic
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I made a mistake years ago and took him back…24 miserable years later I’m planning my escape. Please don’t take them back. I wish I knew what I know now😢

EnlightenOne
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If you leave them, that’s good! If they leave you, it’s also good. Either way, they will miss and want you bacc knowing that their other supplies doesn’t measure up to you. Plus when you ignore them or don’t give them no type of reaction’s upon seeing them, it make’s them cringe knowing that they no longer have power over you. The role’s are now reversed.

KINGDEVON
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Spot on again Danish. I divorced my ex-husband 6 years ago, he went back to one of his old supplies and married her. He is so shameless, to this day he is full of rage. We went to court and he starts telling the judge that my house has equity and he when he left the home 6 years ago he took nothing. The judge had to shut him down that we were in court for something else and that judgment was made on my home during the divorce. These narcissists are unbelievable and demonic.

chemhe
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Narcs are like Tarzan...they never let go of one vine until they have a firm grip on the next one then they swing right on out of you, and into the next poor SOB.

gregoryking
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From my experience, if they have invested a lot and find difficult to find another similar opportunity, they try hoovering in a thousand ways. From victimhood, asking for forgiveness and promises of change, behaving wonderfully, the mask securely fastened again, etc.
Then they will make you pay for generating more work for them.
Zero contact

AnaSantos-ghtf
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Spot on. When you leave a narcisist their ego gets hurt - how dare you?! So they will do something to get an ego boost immediately.

izawaniek
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Alhamdullilah, this came at the perfect time. I left my husband 2 days ago.

EkAks
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They ALWAYS have/had others lined up just for this very situation. They always have “back ups” and you were once a back up that “got” to be center stage for a short time due to the novelty. Eventually, they will piss off the new supply, the new supply will figure out what they are dealing with and the narcissist will have to find more “back ups” to cycle through. It’s a dysfunctional, never ending cycle. It’s never EVER just you and the narcissist in a relationship. They always must have constant sources of validation and are chronic novelty seekers.

sunnysmiles
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Am I the only one who thinks that narcissism should be classified with psychopathy? I mean only a terrible person could do something like that. Dehumanize someone to the point that when they're out of your sight, they don't exist.

babyhandgrenade
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This is EXACTLY what happened to me. After 18 years together I filed for divorce. I couldn't continue in the marriage, it was killing me inside. I felt my soul dying. He signed up on multiple dating sites, bragged to me about his sexual conquests and how "talented" the women were in bed. It was like getting hit with a massive wrecking ball and feeling the pain it caused in slow motion. The aching inside of me was almost intolerable. Working out/exercise is the only way to get through it without it destroying you.

He met many women and within 3-4 months he had found my permanent replacement. It's been 8 years and they're still together.

I gave this man his only child, my youth, my love and loyalty. He appreciated none of it. Replaced me as though I never existed. It's been 8 years and at this point I don't think the shock that I never meant anything to him will ever go away but the pain of sadness has subsided to a degree that I can live with.

Ali-nxgh
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Just left my covert narc husband. I brought my daughter and grandson so he would not get physical. Hardest thing I’ve ever done. We moved every speck of my existence from this man’s life. I don’t care what he does or who he does it with anymore. Now begins my recovery. Thank you, Danish! ❤

hyzenthlayleporidae
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I've literally seen them go right into their phone the same day. They'll do that and immediately act like you don't exist there you're standing right in front of them.

AliyaDabkes
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They typically already have. They will repeat this their entire life - even once married. Which is why it was never love. It was their game and you were a piece, an object to be played. They don’t know what love actually is, but claim to. Let them figure it out. They will continue playing their game themselves amongst others they will do the same with.

Pray for them bc the are actually tortured souls and do not even know/realize it fully bc they do not know the difference between love and using others for their selfish ends. Everything is conquest and competition and, tbh, that’s a lonely life to exist in.

doesitmatter
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I pray Danish has a long life. What a blessing his knowledge is.

lemonfaces