If You Become Fearless- This Is How Narcissists React #narcissist #narcissism #npd

[GhettoBank]

Anger, Very Upset, Gaslighting, Victim Blaming.
Like a Child in Elementary School.

[thegodblogger]

Narcs will be crazy anyway. Better that I stand strong and walk away.

[CarlaV]

Yes. He attacked me, and had me arrested for defending myself. He planned it out meticulously. My own husband. That’s just the tip of the iceberg.

[rovertv]

My narcassistic friend gets this way at first (very angry and abusive), but then resorts to being "nice" to draw me back in. Then the same vicious cycle repeats.

[mercyrahma]

Exactly !
I became fearless with the help of God, he became nastier and threatening but i held on to Prayer and asked God's help
Eventually God made him leave and he didn't see it coming...!

[ritamccormick]

How can they expect to be able to control anyone else, when they cant control themselves. What they need to learn is to control their tempers and destructive behaviors. The old saying is clean your doorstep, before you try to clean someone else's. Cleaning their own should take them a long time. Who have that kind of time to waste, waiting for them?

[Americangurl]

He went into a rage and threw his egg sandwich at the wall. Right before my job interview he knew I was really excited about.

[gandawesley]

Because I'm learning more and more about narcissistic behaviors I am more empowered within myself. I am no longer afraid. It just appears he's becoming "nicer" toward me. I'm not buying it.

[craig_d]

Finally went to therapy. Got answers to what I was dealing with. After losing 50 lbs from the stress and anxiety, I finally stood my ground and called out the behaviour. This led to her ghosting the business, home, and dog leaving me with all living expenses on no notice. When I rebranded my business, after 15 months no contact, she took off a few provinces away and began online stalking and hacking my accounts. I maintained no contact and exposed her for that also. Haven't heard a word in a few months since publically sharing my experience.

Cowards.

[breakthrough]

He used to say “ I hate it when you think “

[vaaniv]

He would unnecessarily pick fights with me going rage. I would be drained trying to prove him wrong arguing with him. Uh! That feeling in the pit of my stomach that emotional pain is unexplainable.

[junecleaver]

Mine had screaming, crying, ranting tantrums.Calling me names, saying I've been lying for 20 years, blaming me for everything, accusing me of cheating( I never have). He is a covert narcissist so he was/is extremely dramatic and playing the victim so lots of How could you do this to me, My life is over, You're destroying our family etc etc.My kids are frightened of him😔

[Leelee-opvj]

Exactly how it went with me. He couldn't control me and I was non-reactive and you're right, he got worse. Left the fool 7 years ago.

[moniquecivicchioni]

He hates the fact that NOTHING that he says or does will get to me. I am utterly indifferent. He pretty much gave up.

[findways]

Yes we become fearless and they become not only nastier but shameless brats!

[frannavin]

He said, “I don’t like it when you are like this!”

[petergriffiinbirdistheword]

True. Whether you think your narc is incapable of harming you or destroying you, you're wrong. Soon as you become fully aware of who they are and how they operate, you become a different kind of target. If you've always felt unwanted, unloved and hated then you will confirm this after your fear towards them is gone. I got physically attacked and the emotional and verbal abuse increased 100 folds, but that only encouraged me to seal the deal with a protective order which I had been on the fence about for months. Now I'm thankful that he continued to unknowingly encourage me to walk away and the funny thing is, I learned yesterday that I'm not the only person serving him. 😂

[Priya-owjw]

They get nasty, smearing, will do anything to pin you down. Then they run away with nasty acts.

[narcfree]

This is the absolute truth…Thank you for sharing!

[mattt.edwards]

Yes. My two closest friends who were twin sisters did this to me. They’d walk all over me and I’d always be so kind, gentle, and patient until I had had enough. If I challenged their behavior or wanted to discuss something, they’d say “you just don’t know how to let go of things, you’re dwelling on this and you need to move on.” I’d eventually back down, apologize, and they wouldn’t accept my apology, but instead say “no, you need to do better with your actions, not your words.” This caused me to spiral into a depression.

Another time I calmly stood up for myself one of them texted me an all caps rage message about how hurtful I was and making them cry. It took me two years to finally, fully stand up to them, and when I did, I was immediately blocked from social media, discarded, and isolated from our social circle. It’s taken me years to recover from all of it.