Do you have an anxious attachment style? I hope this helps!

[CHRISTChrysalisInManhaim]

... Because abandonment means that at some point the ball was out of veiw and was then gone... POOF!
So we ask to see the ball every so often, to reassure us the ball is actually there...or in this case, the LOVE the other person has for us

[karenhenderson]

I've never heard my experience described this way. So simple. So helpful. Thank you.

[xtentasticx]

"This ball now represents someone's love for us"
*Moves ball out of screen*
Me: "OH MY GOD WHERED IT GO" 😳

[TaKyraMoonlight]

This is very much me, we’re both very busy but we make time and sometimes it’s only once in the day. We talked otp for three hours last night and I felt so full and happy, now it’s the next day and I haven’t heard from him in a few hours and I feel so anxious already.

[KariBear_]

I now understand myself so much better now.

[marsthebean]

That actually makes so much sense! Whenever my mom would yell at me and stuff I’d always be like “I love you” and it’d make her more mad but it makes sense actually after learning about emotional permanence

[srijeetasaha]

That is why it requires some trust and patience on the part of the people who claim to provide us something. Once that trust is achieved, you can take your ball as far as you want ❤

[creepypisces]

Yes this is very much my experience....because I've had people do this, including my family so it's quite understandable why I struggle to trust people 😕 over time I trust and don't need constant reminders, but occasionally instead

[georgesaunders]

This short video has become a revelation for me... i definitely need to reel in my own trauma responses as i can now see that ive had recent failure in a relationship due to letting my anxious attachment style get in the way. It probably doesnt help that she was a DA 😅... currently No Contact, i realise now i had to just mirror her communication to have ever stood a chance

[adelaideo]

This helped SO much and made me so much more aware of what was going on. Thank you ❤

[daughteroflight]

unbelievable. This demonstration just sooth me in such a way, I just can't explain that in words. Thanks for sharing.☺️💖

[oneamongbillions-rv]

I loved this short, it’s really quality content. Please make a longer video on how to heal fear of abandonment for anxious attachment style. It will be useful for a lot of people!

[KM-zetr]

I have this, thank you for putting it into words so clearly

[homiekeen]

I don't know how to get over this when you've seen this before, people who did stop loving someone but never told them face to face, trickery, cheating, lying, etc etc etc

[xtentasticx]

This can also affect how other people see you.
If you show someone a certain emotion towards them- even if you dont show it later, people will think those emotions still exist. It will take a while to show that they no longer do.

[tbountybay]

I have an anxious attachment style. For sure!!

[xtentasticx]

Thank you teemendously for this.
I never realized this until watching your video. This really does open my eyes.

[williamboyer]

Wow...excellent description! Thank you!

[fruitsarelife]

Omg this helped! Knowing that the person loves me, even when not there!!
That’s it! I feel soothed and calm now.🥰🥰❤️

[rickylauda]

Finally somebody that uderstands my problem. I have friends that always show that they love me but i'm always sure that they are mad at me even if there is no proof. What can i do?