Identify those manipulative lies. #bpd #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthawareness #NPD

[Jcgriffith]

I have been subscribed for a couple years now and a lot of your videos have helped me understand BPD in ways that my own therapists do not seem to. You have an exceptional wealth of knowledge on the topic and a very concise, effective way of relaying it to your audience. Please keep up the great work!

[fionaedwards]

Even though This is talking about shaming ourselves, unfortunately it’s worse still to be shamed by others

[serenityhansford]

I really do feel this big urge to sh after a bad day, or if I make a mistake or embarrass myself. This is something I really needed to hear because it feels like it really does help me feel better

[agnieszkafield]

Thank You so much dr Fox. This is really helpful.

[kaystephens]

My mother did that. Was shamed by "The family" to shame her children. Is shame passed down the generational curse? I can see how when a parent shames their child for not being "good Enough", that causes anxiety and fear of being abandoned. And when they all pass away, your left scratching your head trying to clean up their emotional messes they tried to make of you too. My mother held so much shame I couldn't recognize her any longer. It's like a shift in reality I witnessed. Trying to motivate a person by making them "feel bad" can get out of control with a parent who only sees their own selfish needs. Mine pushed me out of her way. She forgot to stop and let me be myself. People, nobody's right all of the time. Now that I'm older it's the resentment I carry. I just tell myself they were stupid. 😮

[jackiegrice]

This is interesting-and I think it challenges a common misconception people have, especially regarding addiction, but I think it is present in a lot of things.

[LaGrossePaulik]

I have BPD and now getting better, considering myself stable for a solid year and a half, and never realized I have this 'I have to reach the bottom to bounce back' pattern. Never too late to learn and have some insight! Wish anyone reading love and compassion ❤

[newtuberfreedom]

Wow !! I do that all the time to myself, but it never works as intended. I figured I haven't gone to the bottom of the endless well yet. Any tips for resisting this ?? Wow, light bulb on now !!

[suzettepoulsen]

Do you tell more about this in another video as well? Wich one?

[elzaluds]

No one will ever love me really and will be worried about me 😢😢

[jenwilson]

I love your videos but if I am honest when I look at u I see savior...I see daddy. I know this is incredibly not ok...I always hated girl therapists...li know I even get the Icks but I jus have older man or father thing. Wtf...