Manipulative people | Jordan Peterson

Specifically in this video:
Repression - how people lie to themselves
They don't know what they are doing, but they did know when they started
Repression is similar to self-deceit
Repressed memories
Sigmund Freud
Manipulative people
Lies do people in

[topgxtalisman-k]

The worst thing is when that happens in family, is worst

[inakiojinagaazkorra]

Stay away from manipulative people. They only look out for themselves. You are nothing... they ( themselves and their immediate family) are all. They hear you when you speak, but they are never really listen; what they say, in their mind, is what is important! Its no use discussing any matter. You'll never have a valid peer-to-peer conversation with such a person. My advice, just talk about the weather with such people, and even then! They question anything you may say; they suck the life spirit from you!

[jesus-on-demand]

Love tells no lies. Love condones no liars. Love tells the truth with kindness.

[ikhinarafatu]

This happened my whole life 😢. My entire family and then I got engaged to a narcissistic fiance for 8 years. I just walked away 😢. I'm trying to heal and now one of my coworkers is trying do same thing my narcissistic fiance did. Thank God I realized before it got too far

[lms]

It feels so good to have my brain washed out with the wisdom presented here—thank you!!

[litiupotasiu]

It's important to stay away of selfish people (parents, friends, boss-es who only want to use you.

[the_infinity_channel]

They know exactly what they are doing I would say that is true. You can feel it.

[idk]

Yes it's hurtful and disgusting..the lies, deception... that's why i value truth. stay true to yourself no matter what

[tylerhollenbeck]

You give someone enough power over you to see what they will do with it and if they do bad with it well it was power well spent

[amelievan]

Manipulative liars are impeccable at feigning innocence. Never fall for the act, everything is a trap set up for you demise

[kurtvandenberg]

I'm brave enough to admit that I'm scared to death that I'm one of those people. Not every detail matched my experiences but enough did to make me physically shutter. I must meet this man. If only to shake his hand.

[morganophelia]

I'm kind of going through this with a family member and I didn't realize they were truly like this until I basically got her hired at my job but the bad thing is it's super close family so i feel like I'm stuck between a rock and hard place because everyone else I feel doesn't see it but I do and it's like it started with some lies here and there like her lying about getting fired when in actuality she quit her other job (which if she thought it would gain her sympathy so id help her get a job like we're super close family id help her anyways like she didn't have to make up an elaborate lie ) and then I realized aww man this person is super gossipy too and she seems to (accidentally on purpose at times make out breaks time up with each other ) or like she'll be "watching" me at work or like the other day i was goin on lunch and someone dropped off some lunch for her at my front desk so i left it on the desk with a note for her and then i was goin up the stairs i heard someone behind me for some reason i knew it was her i acted like i didn't hear anyone behind me but i did it was like she was purposely walking soft to (i did this cus i noticed she didn't say hey whats im behind you or lets go to lunch but i stayed silent cus i wanted to see if she came around the corner then sure enough it was her when she finally came in its like she purposely delayed coming in the lunch room and acted surprised i was there when she knew i was there whole time cus she was behind me!!! its kinda creepy like wtf

[sophies_poppin]

This is why I used to be in the gang life. Because I grew up with manipulative and toxic parents. They are very controlling and judgemental. I could never be myself, it was always a problem to them. And my siblings are jealous of me and my mom puts us against each other . And one of my siblings are a narcissist and my mon said that she had to deal with him long enough so now its “my turn”🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[albertdiaz]

learning to love and respect myself one step at a time, realizing in my late 20s its ok to create boundaries with people for my own growth and wellbeing.

[Mookeals]

That's why I disagree of people saying that Love Hurts, when the truth is Lies does really hurt and not Love. It's the disappointment of the person's LIES they thought that it'll gives that same treatment to them is the cause of their pain, NOT LOVE EVERYONE, NOT LOVE!

[ReneeEmmaWade]

Fool a fool to catch a fool. And no more scapegoating me

[vijivarghese]

I learnt the term that describes my boss - manipulative person 🙂

[zeenuf]

I can tell when a woman comes from a family like this. I rum fast.

[christianbanks]

Yeah that was my family. That’s why I have nothing to do with them.

[BlackKettleRanch]

Ugh, it makes total sense that they understood at the moment but then shoved the manipulation to the wayside and let it become part of their MO.