Does The Narcissist Care I Have Moved On?

Does the narcissist want me back once I have left? The narcissist has never really cared about you because they are self-centered. Does the narcissist care I left them? That depends on whether you being gone benefits the narcissist. They care if it somehow impacts them. If you tell yourself "I left the narcissist do they care" then you are probably thinking more about the situation than they are. They do things that will benefit them, with no consideration for anyone else. You have endured years of abuse from the narcissistic and have finally left the toxic relationship. You realize the narcissist will never change and have moved on. You are relieved to finally be free of the narcissist but you still wonder how does the narcissist feel once you’ve moved on? Why the narcissist doesn’t care about you might be something you are thinking about and you wonder why you can’t get over the narcissist. You look up social media on the narcissist and they seem to be so happy! You talk to their friends and it seems as if they are doing well. How does the narcissist feel once you’ve moved on and do they miss you at all? You might also ask yourself does the narcissist care we aren’t together anymore. You are finally free of the narcissist but all you can think of is the narcissist. Emotional abuse from the narcissist leads to you doubting yourself and questioning your own reality. The narcissist has effectively gaslit you and now all you can think of is the narcissist. Even though you have moved on, you still think of what the narcissist thinks about you. Stop caring about the narcissist and leave the narcissist behind now! When you stop caring what the narcissist thinks, you can finally be free of the controlling narcissist and the narcissist abuse.

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[DrEmilyMayfield]

Comment below how the narcissist in your life acted once you moved on.

[Malin]

Dont care how he feels, but i feel great

[TredPillR]

“They didn’t care about you when you were together and they don’t care about you after you’ve left” that nails it! If you aren’t grovelling at their feet doing exactly as they expect of you, then they have little use for you.

[moorlock]

I went “no contact”. I have no idea how she feels about it. I want nothing more to do with her.

[susanparker]

There were frantic and ongoing attempts by my narcissist to access me, --calls, texts, drop bys, gifts left at the door, a card under my windshield wipers, stopping me on the street out walking the dogs.. He'd come up with any excuse to drop by 'with' something or 'for' something... My refusals of any and all of it were of no consequence to him. He had no insight whatsoever of 'why' I was done with him. He became angry at me for not responding. He was finally arrested for harassment and stalking. Finally, he left town and went back to his home in another province. From there his probation officer called, asking for more information, because my ex supposedly didn't understand what he had done wrong (after pleading guilty?, I asked...) I pulled out my calendar and extensive notes and shared them. He really listened, for more or less an hour. I hope that information helped the probation officer learn who he was dealing with.

[Naarvana]

Ran me through the dirt and moved on with my neighbor..
Pretends to hide the relationship by going through the rear entrance and tells everyone that she is mad at me always

[ddajani]

The narcissist dies if u leave them they will try to come back they will obssess and obssess and they re-idealize u if ur the narcissist Grade A supply and u discard them they will absolutely feel it and they will collapse

[nicholecornes]

They were the WORST thing that ever happened

[rosagonzalez]

Something that I do, either to break contact, it's to make him/her believe that I'm really grieving with the break up. That way I hope they'll feel satisfied and forget me faster. 😌

[jakstorm]

As a survivor yes they do.. as long as you are single and struggling they thrive on it and celebrate your downfall. However if you climb out and succeed in love and happiness they come lurking. She will show up.on my doorstep drunk again someday wanting to talk after a big fight with her current man, probably made up reason cause they both drunks. Shell be in jail she ever shows up on my property drunk again. Ill call the cops on her.

[imbalancedstatus]

That's exactly what she wanted.. control every aspect of the relationship. I wouldn't give in to that. The rest is history

[evaaro]

I just think he did not know how to leave me, I was his security/supply for years...I could not take it anymore so I found him an apartment, gave him stuff and bought him a bed. I packed his things in his car which he barely helped me to do ...I guess he did not want the neighbors to see him. He was content at his new place and said thanks babe for helping find this place. I moved and went NO CONTACT. We had one meeting after to give him a document and he tried to triangulate with females on his FACEBOOK. I ignored him and left after meeting and NO CONTACT and blocking is still in place FOREVER! AND NO NOT EVEN FRIENDS!

[davidcoppotelli]

Dr. Emily,
Great Video as Always. I don't know how my X Toxic Narc is feeling since I woke up out of the spell that I was under and told her I'm done with her BS and being taken for Granted and Used. She was a Future Faking Pro. I never knew what a Narcissist was I have a pretty good Idea now. 15 years in a LTR just dating. I'm 11 months no contact I just went total Silent. I'm not on Social Media. Just taking very good care of me instead of putting her and her needs first.

I was putting in 95% while she put in next to nothing and that I should have been blessed to have had her in my life. I'm still picking myself up off the floor from the ruminating. But it does get better each passing day. Thank God and the Holy Spirit for that they pulled me out of that bad situation. She never tried to stop me from leaving tells me all I needed to know. She can now be someone elses PROBLEM.

Her last words to me were your gonna Miss Me. I'm ashamed that I allowed it to take place in my life. Something that I have always known that is I Live in the Light. While she and her family members live in the Darkness. Again Thanks You for the Great Videos. David.

[winnieewing]

The song I'm going to run away from you said it all. ❤

[monarene]

It’s been 9 months post reverse discard after 3 months together. I can’t stay away from his occasional Facebook posts. Sometimes generalized sad, bored, lonely declarations. Recently generalized defiance, anger regarding relationships in general. I sense a meltdown coming on. I didn’t want to let go but why should I go back? Nothing would be different. He’s still a boozer and a pothead in his late 50s unbeknownst to me ahead of time. Doesn’t know what he wants needs or feels from one day to the next.

[firegirljen]

Was just discarded (3rd breakup). I turned him into his work because he was getting high and going in.😮 this following a recent dui. We live in the same building, so it’s an almost daily occurrence I see him. I sort of feeling nothing, though yesterday he looked at me like I was evil. He dumped me via text on my bday. Trying to move on, and have a date tonight. I think after so many breakups I feel just apathetic. In his mind, I’m the bad guy.

[sebwoodman]

I left just before the holidays, so she posted pictures of herself happy in the parties we were supposed to attend together. Pictures of pretending Scrabble games with candlelight and Outlander themed on the first of January. No picture of her new supply whatsoever, just fake shite. She's really pretty and well known into the show business, I am sure she's getting something... Good luck and best wishes to him 😅

[EllaCinder-lhro]

Seriously, if you have forced a victim to move on ; who could possible CARE-how they feel ? If they gave you anything worth having .. you wouldn’t have left

[tgross]

He is not a nice person and he has the mother to watch over me night and day to make my life hard very scary 😢

[puzzling]

Dealing with a narcissistic father-in-law. Thank you for the video.