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[charmee]

So true, no pillow talk here. No talking about building a life together, lots of future faking, his life never changed a bit, and it wasn't going to. Waiting, waiting for something to happen, he was stuck. Frozen in time. I took my power back, walked and never looked back. Healing and taking a man/break, all good.

[razor]

They 100% don’t care. I told her once that she was losing me and she straight up replied “I don’t care”. And she has/had back-ups upon back-ups.
Emotionless, no empathy, fake, hallow shell of a person.

[JohnSmith-lkcy]

They pretend to be you! That is soooo true! They fake being the person they think you want! It's genius really!

[beatapogorzelska]

Relationships with narcs are superficial but they are expert at creating illusion of depth.

[TheRocker]

Day 6 no contact, here we go.
Needed this one for the start of the day.
Thanks

[irisdelgadorivera]

You are right. The moment I accepted the reality, I set my boundaries to the ground and, he accused me of being a difficult person, the campaing to makes me look the bad person started. But I don't care, I love and respect myself, and I will never accept being disrespect again. Thank you Anoushka!

[Jane]

I always compare it to a persons relationship with their vehicle…they love their new car, worked hard to get it, got in debt getting credit to afford it, takes care of it, shows it off….(love bombing) then they find fault with the vehicle, they look past the fault and find more (devalue), they see a newer younger car, they believe this car would be more reliable and make them look better (discard), they start to devalue their existing car…. Then they scrap it….then they realise this newer car isn’t what they expected so they go back to the scrap yard (hoover) but decide a newer car would be better and so on…(discard) so yes people are objects….not really valued….

[PassionateFlower]

If you leave them before they decided they're done with you then they harass you, call you selfish and self serving, scream at you, call you terrible names, and rage at you.

If you leave them after they're done with you then they will respond to you like an overly formal polite brief worded co-worker and you will feel like someone just moved the chair away that you were about to sit down in and you fall to the ground and everyone including the narcissist is laughing at you for falling and getting hurt and having this look of surprise and fear on your face and you look up at the narcissist and they have either an apathetic or gleeful look on their face that says, "Gotchya!"

[Dialogos]

“At the beginning of the relationship they were so lovely”… which makes this so much harder

[hmnorvell]

I stood my ground and took my power back from him and he blamed ghosted me and went silent. Went through a very hard lesson to know he never cared.

[myportal]

I don't want them to care. Caring leads to guilt.✌️ I hate their guts.

[GrumpSkull]

With some narcissist the issue is all about money therefore they are extremely vulnerable when you decide to give them NOTHING!

[ChosenOne]

Likewise... I'm glad I left the narcissist 👍💯😂🤣

[mariannekoroleva]

But when they "care", they seek only how to devastate you and how to get pleasure from your downfalls, not to mention that they are gathering "informations" what is filthy about you to tell the next stories about it without stop. Thank You!!:))!!

[kairiver]

I wish it were possible to like a video a thousand times over!! The harsh truth is better than a pretty lie. I'm saving this for whenever I need that reminder.♥

[nickf]

"Transactional"...so correct. I hate to say this, but my narcissist girlfriend used to tell me "Thank you"....after sex. I was like...wtf is up with that?? But it did occur to me it was based on a transactional mind set. She would also invite her ex husband to our Christmas gatherings...and this was someone she told me she couldn't stand to be around, however he has money, and of course, she wants that money. She always made me feel like I was being judged, held at arms length in her hierarchy men in her life...past, present and future. After putting up with this crap for five years, she called me up and ended our relationship abruptly over the phone....and I said ok, go. After 2 years of no contact she has tried to hoover me 3 times....no dice. These people are incredibly toxic, it feels so good to be free of that.

[Snizzle_Fizzle]

Narcissists collect partners like Pokemon cards.

[jannlewandowski]

Anoushka, I could never figure him out. I NEVER even knew what a narc was until I finally left him. I learned sooo much, and still learning. They are not human! I really loved him, and my gut feeling kept telling me to RUN from him. I didn't listen. Boy, I LISTEN NOW! God only knows what these people are.

[crystallorena]

I love the phone analogy. Such a perfect example. They absolutely do not care. Never did. It's hard for us to accept because we can't relate, as we have genuine feelings. These people are sick.
I have finally broken free of the nonsensical cycle and the way I done it is educating myself on this condition. I watched these videos religiously and just forced myself to accept the situation for what it was. I hope everyone who's going through this can do the same.
Thank you Anoushka for helping us see through these monsters and having the tools to heal 😊

[angelsummers]

And don't forget if they are very young and good looking...supply is easy as candy 🍭🍬 Supply literally falls in their lap..waiting to do their bidding. Don't have to work hard...Mine was really good looking but he has a very sweet .loving kind side very vulnerable side...then there's the other side. 😅 That's another story