Does the Narcissist Care That He Is Hurting Me?

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

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[hippiecowgirl]

They know they are hurting you but at the same time they don't understand it because they don't possess those deeper emotions

[Zoeybelle]

Every single point you make, Ben, is exactly what I have experienced with my ex-fiancé. Every.single.point is true! 😮

[Yogaflame]

This video could've been 7 seconds long.... "NO!"

[juliocastillo]

Ben, as per usual, clear language, straight-forward thinking, and great advice. Thank you!

[Cellia]

It's not worth staying at all. It's better to leave and save yourself from anymore further harm from their abuse. Some people are just lost causes and the only thing to do is to just leave. After more people leave out of their lives, maybe they will finger out they are the common factor here. I highly doubt that though. Some people just refuse to see the truth about their selves.

[mariaisabelsantos]

No, they don't care that they are hurting you, In which universe is it correct to demean, insult and put down other people?

[deedurkin]

Well I can answer that question in the time it takes me to write this comment.. Of course they don't care I mean if they cared they wouldn't hurt you in the first place. I grew up with a horrible narcissist and he was one of the cruelest men.. But lovely out in public by the way. Narcissists are beyond evil..

[TaraSimonson-bndp]

He laughs when I’m crying about him hurting me and all the broken trust. I’m 18 weeks pregnant with our 3rd child. He told me 2 weeks ago he would go to couples counseling so I searched and searched for someone who would see us because our situation is highly toxic and of course abusive. I found someone and he said “I never said that, show me proof.” I was crying and he laughed and said “can you just leave now? We are over. I’m not going to be miserable with your for the rest of my life. I’m filing for divorce.”

[QX-xquj]

Prof.Vakmin means that the Narcissist does not intend to hurt. Abuse is a side effect!

[anonymousanonymous]

Treat them like a transaction. If they don't care about your needs you don't have to care about theirs.

[QX-xquj]

"A Narcissist is a junkie who is not aware of the nature of his own drug" Prof. Vakmin.

Ben, do you agree as self-aware Narcissit?

[nleativa]

They did pull out the "couple counseling" card out of nowhere, and I knew then they were full of shit

[adriananeri]

I'd like to know why you said that you felt as couldn't connect with your wife😮, but you felt it possible with another person? Were you more honest or emphatic with the other person? Sounds a bit like gaslight ... let's say there is an very cruel and egoistic child: " I want it and I want it now!" When someone is not useful anymore in any way it's finished.

[Liz-wnbp]

You know what would make me feel better and help me heal from the narcissist ?
Losing my foot up their ass
Wow
Instant relief lol