How do narcissists feel when you finally walk away | The Narcissists' Code Ep 828

how do narcissists feel when you finally walk away? how do narcissistic people feel when you finally decide to move on and you are done with them. Do #narcissists care when you walk away?

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[bonitajolie]

When I left my ex 9 years ago, I did not tell him a thing... I also did not tell friends or family because a lot of people have big mouths!! He came home and I was gone. I did not take any furniture or any of his things. I just wanted out!! That was the best decision I ever made. 9 years later I encountered him and he is still the SAME person! Thank you Lord, I'm free!!🙏🙌

[saelaverdad]

Choosing me was the hardest decision I've ever made.

[katieschmid]

I left my narc after a 20 year marriage and 5 weeks after we separated, he was already living with his new dogmeat fugly supply and telling everyone that she’s “ the love of his life”. No one falls in love faster than a narcissist who needs a place to live 😂😂😂

[Zeepjeliefs]

It's weird when they discard you but still blame you for moving on with your life

[vikkilawson]

I left my narc husband of 29 years 2 Wednesday's ago while he was at work & that evening he was served with divorce papers. He had no idea that I was leaving & I have cut off all contact with him. I will see him for the 1st in court in Jan. I have taken off my wedding rings, gotten a cute haircut, gone to a new church, and have an appt to get my nose pierced!! I am soooo FREE!!😁

[cassandrahenry]

Don’t be afraid to walk away from things that are not serving you. Turn pain into power ✊🏾✨

[Unbreakablechic]

I am done
No contact
I've promised God and myself to never allow another toxic person to get that close to me again
Anxiety gone, knots in my stomach gone and most nights I'm able to sleep all through the night.
These people are never gonna change ya'll
Run!

[Jose-gd]

They think you're never gonna leave, it's like a shock when you finally wake up one day and realize he don't really love you 100 percent.

[BayouChic]

After 7 years with mine, I can spot a narcissist a mile away and I can move on immediately.

[donnaweiss]

My son was married to a narcissist. She was horrible! She was at work and my son packed up all his belongings and left! Best decision he ever did! Thankfully, NO kids involved!

[humbleugoo]

Love yourself enough to leave them! The more you stay, the worse their behavior gets

[anngood]

I felt like it had nothing to with losing me, and more to do with the fact he couldn't stand losing. I think a ham sandwich could have taken my place. It wasn't 'painful' for him to lose me, and talking me into staying wasn't because he wanted or needed me, he just needed to "win". Once you realize that game, it's easier to let it all go. When I told my husband I wanted a divorce he wanted to know who I was seeing. Um, no one. I'm seeing NO ONE. He couldn't wrap his head around it. He needed there to be another man in my life to be mad about. The realization that I would rather be alone than be with him was more than his brain could accept. I honestly think that's the entire obsession, not winning you back, the obsession is just WINNING. After the love bombing and talking you back into the BS, they drop you like a bad habit because it was never about you. It was all about the WIN. He can confidently beat his chest again, because he got you to sell yourself out again, he got away with it again. Again again again. I swear once you start getting mad at yourself for buying into it instead of being mad at him for selling that crap, you will be free forever.

[tlee]

Whether he is with a new supply or not, the narcissist will grow old ALONE

[whereisyourhumanity]

LEAVE THEM WHILE THEY ARE WEAK. Don't stick around to kick them, or come back to say "I told you so." They recover too fast, don't underestimate them.
Leave them while they are weak from your discard. And stay away, let them figure it out. You told them enough times.

[KARMABELLA]

I had the courage today to end a relationship with a man who belittled me, degraded me, humiliated me in front of friends. The last straw was, we went to lunch, and he asked the bartender out in front of me. She looked at me and looked at him and said. Oh, hell no. I was so done at this point.
My skin is crawling that I ever dated him.

[bettymporokoso]

For familial reasons, I can't actually leave my partcular narc, but I CAN stop taking the bait by refusing to sound crazy when they trigger boy, do they know how to trigger me. I atleast have the power to 'grey rock' my responses and cotinue being non-reactive!!

[jessicascott.]

It’s one of the most freeing experiences to finally be done with a narcissist who has drained you to the point where you’re physically sick. I’m so glad he didn’t marry me like I THOUGHT I wanted. I finally had enough after 14 years of back and forth and finally blocked him on every single form of communication we had.

I’m now married for 2 years to a wonderful man and I am grateful to God everyday!

[dawno]

"Just because they've moved on, doesnt mean they stopped caring about you" they never cared in the first place..narcissists only care about themselves. If they cared at all about you they wouldn't have put you through so much pain and heartache in the first place.

[jaimeblakely]

Information about personality disorders really needs to be taught in high school so people can see themselves and see others for what they are and know how to deal with it. It's far too common now and will be getting worse now with dating apps and social media.

[naowright]

I have watched people walk away from narcissists, and I know the narcissist is hurt. I know that when the time comes and I go no contact with the covert narcissist, they will be very hurt. It isn't that I want to hurt them, but they have proved over and over again that they do not really care about me except for how I make them feel important. I do not hold to them anymore.