How Narcissistic Parent Treats Children #narcabuse #emotionalabuse #cptsd

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[rascallyrabbit]

that they only care about us when there is an audience clarifies so much

[karlmuller]

This is a great example. I have a severely narcissistic mother and family. When I was 8 years old at primary school we all had to write a poem about our mums. Part of my poem read "when I fell over and hurt my knee she says, you stupid boy.. Don't come crying to me".

[traceyalex]

"Stop crying, or I'll give you something to cry about." 😣 And he would.

[courtneymeyers]

And that anxiety is hardwired, you learned to bottle up your emotions and look calm on the outside. The more calm and detached, the better for you to get through the abuse

Nevertheless, inside it's a tidal wave of emotion trapped in a bottle. It's this deep burning feeling down to your core

[iu.]

I broke my foot one summer and again the next summer, while on vacation.
Called my parents to pick me up from the airport. They refused as they were at a party. They said “ You broke you foot again? We are not picking you up. Figure out how to get home.”
I had to get on a train, change to a tram and walk 20 minutes with a 40 lb backpack to get home.
They took me to a doctor the next day.
Turns out I have at rare auto immune disorder and my fractures were caused by it.
Funnily enough I married a man that was just as cruel.
Luckily he is an Ex husband these days

[jakezo]

I don't remember exactly around what age, but I did completely stop sharing *anything* and everything emotional or feelings related with my narc mother. It just felt very weird to do so and till today, if there is one person I totally absolutely will NOT share my happiness or sadness with is my mother. Thank you for all that you are doing, Bless you!

[wvp]

Geezus. I only watched half of this and I’m already disgusted. My heart goes out to any child who has to deal with somebody like that.

[teresafraser]

When i was 8 years old i had food poisoning and was puking at lesst 8 times before i apprisched my Mother in the middle of the night for help and all I received was her yelling at me for waking her up and summonded me back to.bed and fend for myself

[edwardcornell]

When it came to my mishaps while growing up, i usually always tried to leave it a secret, unless the noise was to loud, or too noticable.

[Leelee-opvj]

What a great, profound topic. I have some mom friends with sons that are like "you're okay" if the kid got a booboo or fell..And I think they're thinking they're trying to make them tough cuz they're boys. I have a daughter but I would never be like that with a boy. All people need sympathy.

[cognitive-botanical-therapy]

That’s very accurate. “Go get a band aid and figure it out”… I started making dr appointments for myself at 10 years old bc my mom didn’t want to deal with it. My dad yelled and hit us with a belt if we bothered him.

[kelsey]

The first time I donated blood, it caused me to pass out a couple hours later in the middle of class. Obviously the school has to call my mom and send me home. She yelled at me the whole ride home for being selfish, inconsiderate, and lazy. Because I was so clearly faking all of it so I could skip my last class for the day (nevermind it was my favorite and by far the easiest class I had).

Or when I broke out in hives from head to toe from an allergic reaction to penicillins and I was just being too dramatic about it. My dad has taken me to the ER the 2 times in my life I needed to go and each time my mom scoffed at him calling him pathetic.

I hate my mom.

[Diginixx]

I would be told 'If you keep crying I'll give you something to cry about'. Then I'd get a punch to the face. Such a happy childhood.

[nicholasschroeder]

This is dead on. I remember being continually sent out of the house at 8 when I was coughing and feverish in the summer. Finally after a few days I collapsed. Had pneumonia. It went down just like the video describes.

[mariekiraly]

If my children got hurt, my husband would ALWAYS say, "It doesn't hurt that bad! Stop crying!" Yes, I'm divorcing this POS right now.

[JayJay_]

I always got yelled at, I was afraid to tell I was hurt.

[christopherbrubaker]

Mine was being judged constantly, so I was co dependent on my ex not to be judged. I haven’t been able to live a good life because of it. I try something spontaneous, and someone is always there to judge me, and I immediately go from happy to broken. I just stopped trying to be spontaneous at some point so that I could avoid the judging. I have walked on eggshells even after I started fighting people for judging me. It didn’t help to beat on them, I was still afraid of being judged.

[turkeeg]

When we were sick or hurt were so called father guilt tripped me for a ride to the hospital. Total sikos.

[peachpeonie]

My dad is like this and that’s disgusting.

[dottyp]

And that’s why they are more attentive to other people’s children than their own 🤷‍♀️. Wow. Thank you Michelle. Yup don’t feel is the message I received. Take care 💕