The problem of relationship | Krishnamurti

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[piropilomerie]

We ignore questions like this because we are afraid of starting a process of discovery which leads to we are being aware of our dependencies, limitations, vulnerabilities, egoistic pursuits and sacrificing our freedom for comfort.

[LeoJusti]

I always find these Krishnamurti videos super weird, like 8 minutes went by and all we learn is "if we want to know about the essence and beauty of relationship we cant be afraid to open up"

[surindersingh-uqvl]

Certain things shouldn't be tried for having an experience
Eg. One should not jump from the cliff to understand the fear of height one shoulder not touch the naked wire to Understand electricity

Similarly, bad experience must be avoided

[nitamaitra]

Can we listen to the remaining part of the talk?

[ranjitavinod]

Relationship is always a problem because it is between minimum two or more UNEQUAL entities( I and YOU).It is the emotional connect between unequal entities, hence there can only be exploitation of the so- called " weaker, hence inferior" entity, by the " stronger, hence superior" entity. "I" has created the "other, you" for its own pleasure.Relationship connects both these entities.The agenda is simple- exploitation of the weaker by the stronger.Yes, we have very cleverly coined the word" love" to conceal the harsh reality of exploitation, and act as a lubricant, but the fact remain that the creator of illusory images of duality( I) will use it's creation only with a selfish motive, it's own pleasure.However much we may deny it, relationship can never be anything but exploitation.Unless we come, through introspection, to what could be identical, not only between human beings, but entire living beings, we will continue to exploit one another through "love relationships", and nobody is the wiser !!!!