10 Signs of a Toxic Family Member

#toxicfamily #boundaries #narcissism #certifiedlifecoach

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[battlevain]

Another brilliant video. 10# Their absence is a relief !!! This says it all when it comes to dealing with toxic people. When they are not around, we don't have to be in "fight or flight" mode any longer.

[blankearth]

I’m 24 and I was raised by a narcissist, and when I finally escaped I decided to go live with family that was never in my life previously, now I’m wondering if I made a mistake because they seem to be that “picture perfect” type. I’m really disappointed that after all my life of going through a bit of hell, I thought I could finally be at a better place than I ever was in before, but I only lived with them for 3 months and I wanted out. Conditional love truly sucks. Just move forward from people who will only love you when it benefits them, folks, even if they’re family

[lhuynh]

I lived in that household. I hate them! I’m way much stronger and wiser than them. They can’t knock me down.

[petalparker]

* It's a one way relationship.
When they want you for something you are expected to drop everything and accept instantly, if you can't because you are busy or have pre-existing arrangements they put you in the naughty corner and stop calling and or inviting you for a while until you learn your lesson. But, when you invite them to coffee or dinner etc they are never available.

[EfrainRiveraJunior]

You just described my entire Jehovah’s Witness family.

[Naijella]

You’ve just described two family members of mine. Now I’m in my 30s and I keep my distance it’s a lot better

[Mybananamilkshake]

ouch he's all of them. Todays promise to myself not to every talk to them again and block them.

[Muskan-hu]

The problem is they accepted abusive environment they created and everyone has accepted

[christopherparker]

Wished I could ask for advice privately from you . You are a very grounded intelligent lady

[firesoulrocker]

my jw family so Toxic its not even funny

[leilanatui]

This was all on point! Thank you for this video!

[a-tecumsehrelic]

thank you so much, im glad i found your channel. your a great coach!

[Chente]

"T. O. X. I. C. Excelent Bethany! It's really hard for some people to recognize this.

[sarahqueen]

My jaw dropped at some of the points you made😲

[MichelleAliceScottLewis]

Another brilliant video. Loving how this is going :)

[quinlynfisher]

and i oh most for got i still live the same people but different bodys that are a life and not dead that cause me hell

[quinlynfisher]

me im so confuse of what im going throuth there a lot i want to get out but scard that someone will snitch on me i been throuth hell throuth out my life but i will tell u anyways and take my time first im quinlyn and im 24 going 25 years old with learning disabilities and this is my story i never told anyone will when i as little i use to get help but my mom took me out i dont know why but she sould it have done that then year letter i did something i shouldent have done when i was 17 i bush my mom why she was holding my cousin levi he was a baby and it eat me up a life me and my mom never really talked and it made me feel depressed all my life after my passed a way most of my life was hard my nana put me throuth hell she gave me negitive most out my live she controul what i hope to what i dream of doing with my life i told her i want tolive with somesomebody i love i told her i wanted to maybe get a job i told her i wanted to be independent and most of all i told her i wanted a to have a baby and u know what what she told me she told me that people like cant have that life she told me im not responsible she told there just fantasies and she told me that i wouldent make throuth the job she told everyone what i put under the sink im not saying what it was but it hard to explain she use to go throuth my stuff like my diarys and told me if i leave this house or get a attitude she will read everything in my book she even look throuth my phone and my computer to see who i was talking to she try to tell me who i cant or can dete she told i couldent make out kiss she told me if any body see me do that she would threat me that boyfriend can see me any more and when it came to see if i can help she thinks i didit need help she thought i was doing the yelling and my acting out for attchion there was one time i put my hands on people and i dident mean to i pick up levis bike throuth right in front of her she dident do anything put just made me mad where i feet bad i made my couin cry because of something happend to the bike i was responsible for everything i use to change feed dress potty train play with levi and i was in gracepoint after i ran a way when i was 19 because i felt like i was being controuled and she told everyone in the family what i did so i left and i did so fucked up shit after beeing in the hospitel for 2 weeks and thay put me in this gracepoint i was happy but didit like the rules there so anyways i felt like that was my only way to get ut of the house from drama and just meet cool people tell letter i was starting to not like that place because thay wasent doing there job as so my anna try to kick me out of that place that i didit want to leave because it was my only escape tell i met this one guy that i firtst fell in with with his name is alex we are still together now it been 3 years now my anna tryed to breack me and my boyfriend up i had a feeling she didit want me to live my life or to be happy one time i worte on a pece of paper of family and i draw people and i add my boyfriend and she go mad and told me he not a part of our family and told me that if im obsessed with him then she told me i cant dete him any more that when i dident know what i was being agaust to it a lot theres a lot more but i dont want to go any more farther because its to painful to think a bout so yea thats what i been throuth i hope u giys like my commet and u guys can give me positive massages and not negitive massages i would apprecitate that think you

[mrsb]

#4 my ex husband was exactly like that!!!

[byebyewatchtower]

I know a religion that fits all 10 characteristics. That religion is the Jehovah's Witnesses.