When a #Narcissists knows that you KNOW who they really are | The Narcissists' Code Episode 563

When a #Narcissists knows that you KNOW who they really are and that you can expose them and ruin their reputation that they have worked hard to cultivate

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[coltenkelso]

You see the word narcissist get thrown around a lot these days. There’s really not that many actual diagnosed narcissists in the world. About 3% of the world’s population. Everyone does have narcissistic tendencies though.

[adiful]

When they know you know they leave you alone.

[TheVijnanamaya]

When they know you can’t be fooled any further they start accusing YOU of being the narcissist 😂

[rockybalboa]

I exposed mine to his face and he never wants to see and speak to me ever again. He’s also disappeared from online and I haven’t seen him out anywhere since. Good riddance

[td]

Usually when you know who they are and they know you know....they know you're going to leave them so they leave first to protect their ego

[TyTy.]

I’m not even mad that I fell for a narcissists tricks and games. They can’t help it, if anything I feel sorry for them. I get to move on and be happy while they’re stuck being miserable.

[jamgg]

Being a narcissist means your self entitled which is a very annoying trait.

[debsmith]

When they show you one act of devaluation, give closure.

[Subspace._tripmine]

In other words...for narcissists it's just always some type of strategic game. It's just too much negative energy.

[elenagirelli]

Please pray for protection from cult bullies and sadic people ....

[Mjones]

They won't leave as long as you can pay all of their bills, once you cant...complete reverse discard!

[resilient]

Once you know, there is no way to unknow. Run!

[greylizard]

They go from being unhappy or bored with you, to all of a sudden looking at you like you are garbage and its time to throw you away because like Lee says, you know too much about them. It never matters if you still want to see the best in them and try to help them. I remember wanting to actually get to know who they were and cut the BS because I could see they were lonely and ashamed by their reality. But they kicked me out of their life for good.

[cindylong]

They will swich up their names, interests, change locations to start over

[Tommytwostroke]

I called him out on the lies and had proof he stilled denied it ! Got mad and tried to gaslight, blocked me and now deactivated his accounts 🤣🤣 🎯 they are cowards

[blen]

Realized this morning that there's no point in exposing the narc to other people. They wouldn't believe you anyway. My narc has spent so much time doing all this nice stuff for people and it's all a put on; a kiss-up just gain some new supply. When narcs know that you know who they are they scapegoat you more than ever. They have no real kindness for others and they're not bothered about getting any.

[ad]

My ex-husband was diagnosed with narcissism. He had security cameras installed in our home so that he could spy on me and the kids. I was able to use video footage of him abusing the kids to get the domestic violence charges against him. He promptly divorced me and I haven't heard from him since then. It's been three wonderful years. He just got married to his fifth wife on Halloween. Yay for him!!!

[janicemichelle]

Yes I found out who he really is. And he used the tactic of degrading me. So I cut him off. No calls. No texts no WATSAPP . Life is so much better.

[kimholmes]

My ex, would degrade me so bad, but be so sweet to everyone else. Then he would blame me for his actions, but turn around and treat me so good. When I began standing up to him, it was a problem. I've been blamed and ridiculed for how I feel. I got to the point to where I couldn't even cry anymore. I'm just glad to be out of the relationship.

[NF]

They know I know but what they don’t know is I have emotional and mental control, I’m non-responsive or reactive, I’m unbothered, untouchable and unshakable and will allow you to act accordingly and tell on yourself….let you dig your own grave and then be buried in it

Yeah their attempts of a smear campaign occur but those who side with them usually a hater of yours already or enable their delusional abusive behavior and those are not my people nor do I care about those people and they know it

I leave them with zero power and starve them without my engagement