How To Get Over Someone You Never Even Dated | Mark Groves

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[emilytreu]

Finally learned this after falling so quickly for someone that I was dating. They rejected me. I calmly went away. Then they reached out again. And I ignored them. Took a lot of willpower to not get down on my knees and be like, why don’t you love me. It’s just going to cause more pain . I don’t want anymore pain

[meenasalih]

“If you loved yourself, you’d make choices of receiving someone whose available and kind.” THAT HIT HARD‼️

[lmusima]

I’ve had this happen to me so many times in my twenties and thirties. It’s a matter of not believing in the scarcity complex. There are plenty other guys out there apart from this one who doesn’t know I exist

[Nuffsaid]

It's funny... I've never thought that available was something I should consider. It's alittle heartbreaking to think of

[whynot]

I wish I had a chance with her even though she is dating/seeing someone else. Holding on to the feelings made me miss my chance with some other girl

[matthewkerr]

God, I expected pick-up artist bullshit and instead got a life lesson about childhood trauma which I hadn't put together until now

[MachineWashable]

Everyone in the comments sharing a similar experience, I believe in you. It can be so incredibly difficult and hurts when you’re in a situation like this and I completely understand how you feel. You can get through this!!!

[robertvelazquez]

1:48 “ you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” - -Wayne Gretzky

[thgateofdeath]

I knew this girl for 2 years (nicest person I’ve ever met), we were both good friends I wanted to ask her out but I knew in near future I’d be moving to a different country so I told myself don’t ask her out if I do 90% chance she would reject me and 10% chance she’d say yes either way it would have been a lose lose situation so I just chose cherish those times with her as a friend. 5 years later I still think about that time how I felt…. I’ve never felt that feeling for someone else since then except for her.

[katyacxy]

Fantastically put. Especially that last minute. The whole protecting oneself and living in a state of rejection by not owning your voice and being in a state of choosing. Really puts it in perspective in a way that is productive. Thanks!

[freespirit]

I been in love with a man for 7 years I barely see him. I cant stop thinking about. I think someone put a spell on me.

[slicelifetv]

This did not help me at all. I chose a girl that I knew was available. We had talked on and off for years and she even had explained to me at one point that she is seeing someone so I respected that and didn’t talk to her for a while. All of a sudden we’re talking again and actually hanging out often and having really great times and making really great memories. About a week ago now she just completely ghosted me. I am so confused and sad. I see she posts often on social media and she seems to have completely forgot about my existence already. I just can’t comprehend it. It feels like I was living in a dream and now I’m in some sort of nightmare. I keep trying to forget her but feelings and memories flood back in and I just start to cry. I don’t think she understands how much she’s hurt me. And I don’t think she cares that she hurt me if she does understand.

[louddeer]

So the reason we go for unavailable-to-us people is because we wanted acceptance from our parenrs but they never gave us that so we seek our partner to be uninterested in us and then become interested and love us to fill the hole that our parents made

[daviddebergh]

Reconnected with a high school ex, talked for a while and we both caught feelings for each other. Just cut her off this morning due to living in different states and not wanting to move (her family was there and my son is here). Working on myself through therapy and exercise to deal with past trauma so I don’t waste mine or anyone else’s time.

[spider-man]

Don’t mean to force Jesus on y’all or anything, but this is why you should ask God to send the one for you in one shot.

[HelloSsweatspro]

I've known her for 4 years, asked her out 3 years ago, got rejected, didn't talk for a year, and last year and this year have started to talk again. The problem? I'm not attractive enough. I've watched so many self improvement videos, I go to the gym 2-3 times a week, am acheiving most of my goals. Except I can't date her. I want to. I love her so much. But she dosen't. And I can't move on. She is the only one for me. I can't move on. I have even contemplated ending it all. Anyone who tells me that girls don't have power are lying. I don't think I can get through this. Everyday I see her and I just can't hold myself together. Someone tell me what to do. I've fucked up my life and my relationship all because i love this girl so so much. Why does this world have to be so cruel?

[kieradwyer]

Dude you blew my mind and really opened up my eyes!

[magdakepa]

this explained more to me than anything ever before. thank you.

[unisangalaxystudio]

Me I like a girl from my community College who rejected me and made me feel inferior, but she was extremely cute... never got over her it's been 8 years since that this year I had a crush on a coworker who doesn't seem I exist and it hurts....still talk to her even seeing her and hearing her voice gives me joy of living.. but I know I have to move on am afraid in 8 more years she still be on my mind.

[martinisawe]

Dude I had my 1st true heartbreak last year and it was a painful yet humbling experience. I was obsessed to her and when she walked her baby brother i peak outside through my door (yeah creepy ik 😬). Anyways when we hung out i asked her out and she said "no". Didn't "believe" it until my sister show me her and her GF on IG (we were family friends). I was upset, jealous and cynical. On March this year i blocked her cause i couldn't stop obsessing her wanting to forget her and on April i deleted all my social media. Haven't spoke to her since. Yeah that's a problem and it's something I'm getting resolved through therapy.