HOW TO GET OVER SOMEONE #shorts

[gioplease]

Stop investing your time and energy in someone who doesn’t reciprocate the same energy.

[maui.tech.]

My literal situation. Thank you so much mate. I actually blocked my crush on Insta

[ingg]

Realise they are human. Let them off the pedestal you put them on and accept just how normal they are, and that it’s ok.

[urfavv_aarav]

You're totally right! Loving someone who doesn't even care about you is a total waste of time.. And I knew this before but still, I fell in love with him! Now, I'm trying to remove those feelings and I'm sure that I'll be fine someday.. At least, Someday! 💔

[Beetle]

If you're not receiving the same love you're giving, cut them out of your life. You deserve better. The problem isn't that your not good enough for her, the problem is shes not good enough for you.

[Mindsetbruhhhh]

Stopping Stalking avoids being toxic and obsessive, this is the real and valid solution to get over 😂

[omarezz]

i dont think most ppl dont know how to move on from someone, everyone does but the hard part is forcing ur heart to actually move on, i have tried all this and i couldnt move on at all, its not a button u make it on/off ur heart and ur brain keep reminding u and i rly loved that person, i just gave up one relationships cuz i dont think its fair for anyone to try with while i am still in love with someone else.

[delilah.ellise]

I just told my crush that I liked him and he said he didn’t like me. So I’m trying to get over him. So thanks for the tips!

[joeskwara]

Be careful. Every situation is different. The most DANGEROUS person out there is someone you care about a lot but they don’t feel the same but they don’t want you out of their lives. They will destroy you but it’s not because they are evil in many cases but they are sick and you can’t save them.

[ponygirl]

Thank you🥰
Unfortunately we get attached to people so fast. But as you said, it’s a waste of time. And also it is a waste of our love and energy. I hope all of us will heal ourselves and move on

[zidedeikery]

Ok, zero contact, feel your feelings, don't keep hurting yourself in the pursuit of they want feel the same, and one I'd like to add is take time to heal! Not enough people take time to heal from heart break.

[hugosnchz]

the problem is when no one better comes around

[genesis_the_pegasus]

Really needed to hear this. Was talking to a guy just over 6 months, met once but definitely had meeting up again as an option. Fast forward to holiday season, he says he won't be able to message me as often as he's busy and today I find he now has a girlfriend, so he was dating her within this month. Opened my eyes to a lot of things. I'm sad but at the same time I am glad he found someone for him, I just need time to grieve...

[jakethedogluvsyou]

we were together on and off for three years i tried so hard to make it work. it’s been almost two months since we’ve spoken because we decided to go our separate ways. this is the hardest thing i’ve had to go through. i dont feel in love very much anymore but i know for certain i love him so much still. i just want to move on and be okay

[chewishie_cherishyourself]

I am really desperate now to get over him because I realized that I like him for too long. I think I have said enough or vent enough to my friends so I want to put all my feelings here. So I have like him for so long as I could remember. I don't even see him everyday and honestly I haven't seen him much this year. I could remember faint memories I have back then we where still a literal child. I just thought that I want to be friends with him but little thought did I ever realize that I was developing a crush on him. I never truly accept it but whenever there's a chance I would see him, I couldn't talk and just ended up running away. It's sad to think I didn't get to be close to him other than just being his classmate. Years passed I would still occasionally remember him and I would sometimes mention him to my friends by telling them that he was my old crush.

I didn't know I was so much in denial back in elementary. I also tried finding guys to like other than him but they always turns to be different than him that I ended up not liking them further. It's like as if I was finding replacement because I could even see him that much. That it's sad. But eventually in highschool I develop another crush on someone. He was older than me and they are a bit similar in a way. I really like this guy but somehow he always seems to crawl back in my mind. And whenever I look around at school I would imagine him just walking here even though I know his not there. I did get over with the guy I have crush in highschool because he graduated and he had a gf already so I stop.

And when I graduated junior highschool and now entering my senior year that I realized something big. Looking up on my FB newsfeed did I see his name again for so many years. Just looking at his pictures made me really have a heart pounding moment. I was truly shacking and in shock to see myself the same way I was back when I was child having lovestruck moment when his around. That's when I knew and no longer deny it that i truly like that guy for so long that i ended up in this predicament right now.

I send him friend request on Facebook after confirming my friend that it was h because they go to the same school which is I am pretty jealous of. And I was so happy when he accepted it that I was smiling throughout the day. I would literally stalk his account but there's not much to see so I kinda gave up so I would just ask my friend what is he like on their school and what is he doing there. I found so many things about him that way. I never knew that he played basketball, a really smart and responsible student and as my friend would always mention is that his handwriting are pretty. She would tell me stories about the nice things he would do. I am really happy to know that he seems to be doing well and enjoying life. I wish I could be closer to him. See him at school and talk to him. But I know that those are just wishful thinking. As the days pass by so quickly. I realized that maybe I should put an end to this crush I have because I have been overthinking a lot of things. And I am getting crazy with all the what if's that I ask myself. Eventually I made a decision to confess to him. Through chat of course because I am coward. I decided it to be the day and when it came I was so nerbouse and couldn't think straight. I manage to get enough courage to just say hi and it really took a long time for him to reply to it. And with that sign I already knew that he didn't feel the same way as I did. After months of rethinking life decision I finally let him know about my feelings for him. And as expected he rejected me. In a gentle way because it wasn't direct. That guy sure is too nice. I would have wanted a clear answer. But if that what he choose to say then I accepted it.

I guess I was expecting too much that it had taken me for weeks to realize that I should move on. But it seems to be not working and maybe it got even worse for sure. So I am really thankful for this advice. I would want to try them but it would really take a long time for me to stop thinking about him. So hopefully his name would no longer hold any meaning for me. One day I would find myself being cool about this situation I am experiencing and laugh about it. Thank you for listening to this messy story of mine

[quiteverxx]

your face when you said “you are just wasting your time” had me laughing for some odd reason 😭

[ClashColors_]

It’s hard when your crush is your best friend 😭

[prbin]

I see him everyday at work, makes it hard 😢. I’m trying my best

[SamuraiX]

Thank you. Stuff I already know, but it’s so hard to let it out. Especially as a dude. We’re supposed to be unfeeling so it’s hard to be able to vent or process feelings sometimes.

[LondonMassey-glzw]

I honestly still like him even tho we can never even SEE each other anymore, and I still cry abt him