How to Give Emotional Support To Your Girlfriend

Creating a space to emotionally support your girlfriend is the foundation of building a healthy long-term relationship.

Now, it's one thing to say that, but how do you actually do it?

In this video, I'll break it down step by step. Enjoy!

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1:00 dont feel resentful (wrong time man)
2:31 listen (dont judge)
2:56 Ask then what else? (for you to actually make them feel you ARE there for them)
3:43 DONT give them advice (to not make them feel UNHEARD)
5:25 uplift them (with a hug, grab food, loving words, etc)

[Da_Grest]

i want you to know that i rarely EVER physically “like” a video.. but today i AM LIKING AND SUBSCRIBING!!!’ YOU ARE HEAVEN SENT!!! THANK YOU!! this is the answer to my questions!!!! thank you

[kevcopo]

It’s funny you have to explain this but honestly so important. I feel a lot of times guys genuinely feel they are doing the right thing yet it’s literally just an ear they need. Really good explanation to logical thinkers

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Good video bro 🤙 You nailed it on the head: put away our judgement/opinions/advice and just BE there for whoever you’re listening to. Hell, this is true for both guy and girl friends.

[tjefferson]

Thanks for the help, this all makes sense. I’ll give it a shoot in the future to avoid fights and bad communication. 💯

[mauriciocontreras]

Thank you so much man, this is very useful for me, my girlfriend told me a very similar thing, and I was and having difficulties to understand it, your explanation and tips helped me a lot.

[vigneshm]

Brother i had this problem in my relationship, I can't give emotional support to my women earlier but after watching this video it worked awesome bro.... I bow my head for you to helping me in my relationship thanks you so much🤍 God bless you 💕

[JourneyToFreedomWithNick]

I have been doing selfdevelopment for 10+ years & I have to say this is very well structured and explained 💯💯 absolutely amazing way of illustrating the female psychology. Keep up the great work

[ShoaibIbrahim-yp]

Hey bro this was a great video, there was definitely some things here that I could take from. But the issue me and gf are having is that I’m not able to comfort her sm to the point where we have broken up before and got back together but it’s still not working I’m not able to comfort her and idk what to tell her, sometimes when I say things she feels it makes her worse and she doesn’t wanna tell me anymore and things like that. She’s struggling ti get into her university that she’s been trying ti get for months due ti visa issues and everyday it’s getting worse for her, I’m really concerned about her mental health and whatever I try to say upsets her, I don’t know what ti do any more, Ik in my heart I love her and I care for her but I’m not able ti make her feel better and it’s ruining our rs

[Beeto]

thank you so much man I''ll try it.

[anhhuynguyen]

Thanks so much man, lots of practical value🎉

[rishabhpal]

A few days ago my gf told me that she is not emotionally comfortable with me. When I asked the reason she said, You have judged me many times and you are not there to listen to me, while when you do something like this I go into a shell, I tried a lot to make her trust me again but still she is not able to forget everything, I How to regain emotional trust?
Btw we are in a long distance relationship, please ans its really matters for me 😭

[rashisingh]

I wish my boyfriend search this all by himself and become emotionally available. I am feeling so hurted right now.

[sashas]

Any ideas on how to support a woman that involves more than just listening and also avoiding problem solving? My bf listens really well, but the lack of conversation makes me feel like I'm just dumping on him. He goes into shut down mode and we can't have a conversation about my feelings.

Great video, btw, thank you

[LynnFSTR]

What do I do when she doesn’t want to talk about it and gets mad at me for not knowing how to fix it when I ask

[dlf]

I have this issue with my wife lately. I'm working on understanding women and how to show empathy to her to me emotional supportive.

[AustinZest]

What about when you are working 12 hr days and you need to sleep and they have problems with their family, sisters ect. What do you do? I can usually be there for her but its just too much to be everything to her. Are we really meant to be husbands, friends, therapist ect. If you keep giving more attention then there always seems to be an emotional "problem" that I am suppose to be there for no matter what even after busting ass all day. Does that make sense? Should we always be there no matter what or put some boundaries up when its just too much emotion to deal with at the moment. Or am I am being weak?

[nickgrammenos]

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[Thomas_Henry_]

What do you do in a long distance relationship when you can't be there for her in person? Does this work over text? Or is it better to just call her?

[kratos-eq]

Hey bro thankyou very much for this video it helps a lot can you give some suggestions how to help them out when they are long distance and only way of communication is call