Narcissist want you to keep their abuse private

Has this happened to you? You may be staying (or keep going back to your abuser) because of a trauma bond. Men and women can both be perpetrators of abuse.

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[angelaverdugo]

This is so true! The Narc had this conversation with me yesterday. He told me to stop talking shit, I ruined his imagine that he now has to redeem, and if I’m to be in a relationship with him I will “never go against him again EVER!” (his exact words)

[chrisc]

"You can't unfriend me on Facebook! People will think we're having problems!"
At the time, we had been meeting with lawyers for more than a year.

[IcU]

100% Correct. Even after discard, phoned and screamed at our child and then telling me "don't tell abc what happened". I told him, you left, sued me for divorce, I am alone, am I not allowed to have any support. I will talk to whomever I want, he backed off, but then tried to punish me with silent treatment again. He is still not getting it, the only I am still talking to him is because we are co-parenting and I actually appreciate thw silent treatment.

[eandsm]

Substitute neighbor here. He'd rather we ask our questions to HIM first, instead of going to the city . . .

[gb]

See the difference is, he would tell his friends lies about me and then said he was doing it to protect his image. Later told me that all of care about is my image and how I'm causing the problems.

[alienlegs]

Did you secretly film my last relationship? We had this EXACT conversation, verbatim, multiple times. 😔

[angelaaldas]

That’s why they do not want to “complain” to others. - Hmm, eye opening.

[emmaharper]

I tried telling one of his so call friend and he really thought I was crazy never again

[sakak]

Classic! They always want this perfect image of themselves projected to the world. And bloody cowards that they are, they do all their abuse in private and want the dirt to be swept under the carpet then. They can advertise filth about you in newspapers but a peep out of you and all hell breaks loose! Maniacs. The part about the cell phone is pure replication of what happens in real life. They to GET into our cell phones and dig up everything. I have ended up bearing the brunt of his fury often in these phone escapades. Sick sadist can check his own now... I'm out.

[theprettydani]

My name is Daniela, when I heard that name I jumped. Lol.
This is so true tho

[SusanRenee]

“Stay quiet about the lying, cheating and abuse but, I’m gonna run this smear campaign of blatant lies wide open and go on a social media sympathy tour while I’m at it.” 😉

[ThatMontanaMom]

Lost count of the times he said stuff like this!!

[Trendsetter]

Yep. Abused me but never wanted to hear me speak to him about how he makes me feel after beating on me WHILE PREGNANT with his baby the cheating leaving me to fend for myself while he does whatever so when I’d reach out to family and friends he’d get upset and try to turn me against them or them against me or act like I was tripping but could go and complain to others about what I was doing ie not cooking for him anymore not cleaning for him anymore nothing not realizing it’s bc he was cheating and whooping me while I’m pregnant

[Trendsetter]

But when I tried to finally leave it went from him lying to me in EVERYWAY to come back to me finally realizing oh he’s just a liar to him getting upset I finally said enough was enough so he stabbed me lol

[omiali]

My soon to be ex husband was this way.