The Narcissist wants you to leave

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

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[maddyL]

They are terrible terrible people who are just so destructive.

[lauuura]

They push you away further and further, then tell everyone you left. Truly a sick move.

[shyannlatimore]

What's really heart breaking is that the Narcs don't want you anymore because of all the pain and trauma they put you through. That stuff changes people and usually for the worst and that's when they say 'You're not the same person I met you as."

[tflworld]

Seems like a narcissist can only look good by making another look bad.

[dijarosa]

One thing I realized is narcissist DO NOT like the legal system or authorities

[uyoebyik]

The narc forces you to end the relationship but they won't call it a day themselves

[michellek]

This hurts me even more. I was forced to leave and he told everyone, “I just couldn’t make her happy. I tried”. Changed the entire story. I was in financial ruin and had to stay with a friend and my heart is still broken 7 months later. While I know he moved on like I was nothing. I loved him and I feel so used. It’s so unfair. I just can’t reconcile it and I know I’ll never trust another man again. He ruined me

[courtneyawalsh]

He kept trying to make me jealous & all it did was turn me off & send me running. I knew he was pushing me away. He just can’t handle someone who really…sees…him…beyond all his gamey, slimy, wounded, manipulative BS. His masks & games did nothing for me. Except help me realize? I deserve SO much better.

[couldntholdacandle]

That's the Nutty part. They moved in with you, into your house then when it's our house they want you to leave.

[nvanguy]

You said it perfectly. These people are spineless, and they will passive aggressively
Force you out with their lies and crazy behaviour, just so to their family and friends they can look like the innocent victim. They usually have another supply lined up

[pamcollins]

They just don’t want to look like the bad guy…. Period. Mines tell me to “text” him instead of tell him that I don’t want this anymore.😅😅😅😂. Yeah- so he could show his family it was me and not him

[lynettecaballero]

It's all a sick game. They elevate you then devalue you, then Hoover you then the cycle starts all over again.

[DaughterOfGod]

My ex said these exact words during an argument, “I’m going make your life hell until you leave!!!” It was then that I realise he knew what he was doing and he wanted me to leave.

I haven’t looked back. I’m happy to be free. I’m now seeing a caring and gentle man. We are in the dating stage but nothing about him has been alarming nor a red flag. It’s quite boring but I like this. No more chaos

[NewBeginnings]

The only reason when a narc wants you to leave is when you see who they are . And even then, they don’t want you to leave .

[eusebiasantiago]

So true they play hot and cold on emotions
They will play victim and lie to their friends and family by saying u are emotionally and mentally abusive to them when it’s the other way around. Any relationship with a narcissist is a lonely one

[mssoulsister]

The Narcissist is a evil spirit that doesn't change! It only change people and this is why our stories are so similar. 😢

[anewlifestirring]

Chaos is one form of gaslighting and control over a confused victim by fishing in troubled waters rather than a straightforward explanation where they would lose.

[bybyana]

You are 1000% right! My ex tried everything for me to leave my own house that I owned! Twisted!!!

[kaylaprice]

I hate him for it!!! and now he's telling me.. I'm not the monster you make me out to be...uuummmm yes you are!!! Even if no one else knows it... I lived it!! They didn't!!!

[Caffeinated_Acrobat]

Speaking on what you said about liking the chaos, I can definitely attest to this. It's almost like if there isn't drama and chaos and toxicity in the relationship it starts to feel boring and unappealing. This is obviously a very unhealthy and unhelpful way of behaving in the situation or relationship.